There was a thread on this a while ago.

There are quite a few people posting on this board that can't spell or write a sentence that you can understand.

Is she may be "special" aka possibly has a learning disability, and your complaining about how she spells things? Someone having a learning disability (if this is the case) has NOTHING to do with how she provides.. I take this to heart as my cousin has a learning disability, she is also a provider whom gets 10/10s. Scoring doesn't mean everything but in this case i'm throwing it out there and it does not effect how she treats her clients. At all, just my .02 good night  

The "your/you're" error happens way too often. I don't believe it has anything to do with a learning disability, but just laziness, unaware, or a poor habit.

Posted By: mariahlove

Is she may be "special" aka possibly has a learning disability, and your complaining about how she spells things? Someone having a learning disability (if this is the case) has NOTHING to do with how she provides.. I take this to heart as my cousin has a learning disability, she is also a provider whom gets 10/10s. Scoring doesn't mean everything but in this case i'm throwing it out there and it does not effect how she treats her clients. At all, just my .02 good night  
   

Posted By: vpnfsdc

There was a thread on this a while ago.  
     
  Anyway, it normally doesn't get to me, and my spelling isn't always perfect, but there's one girl who sometimes shows up on BP escorts who's a little special.  
     
  Her ad reads like a personal ad, going on at some length about what she hopes to find in a client, and being more vague than suggestive about what she might offer in return. It's all written in quite flowery language, but in spite of that, there are quite a few instances of "your" where she should have written "you're."  
     
  I toyed with writing back: "Aye am sari, butt your two good fore me."  
     
  Then I checked the skin on my back, and finding it all still there, I thought "Naw. Let her do her thing."  
   
 -- Modified on 3/22/2014 9:34:56 PM

LOL, my comment was made directly towards him stating she is "special"  maybe he actually thought shes someone special to him. But to me it came off as mentally "special".. If not then sure, could be laziness. Anyways moving on......

When someone contacts me with ; R U open? Cum to my room. Yada yada...
My first reaction is to reply back in "big words" to encourage a more professional yet casual conversation in hopes they follow my lead.  
 If they can't keep up then I won't respond anymore as I have a hard enough time trying to decipher what my children are trying to say .  
Kindly making suggestions to her regarding how she communicates isn't a bad thing in this case .  

Hope this works

I have a learning disability that makes it nearly impossible to spell consistently.  It is not a mental limitation, in fact it can be a plus.  Dyslexia is not an indication of mental capacity or IQ.  Dyslectics will often have math scores that are off the chart but that 'dose'nt' help with spelling.

While good spelling and proper punctuation are nice to see they aren't the things that define who I want to spend my time with.

You should spell check your ad and use words correctly when you put up an add.  

the message being conveyed I really don't care, unless the message is critiquing someone else's spelling or grammar, then it better be perfect.

I'm not unsympathetic to what you brought up. I have some close family who are said to have similar limitations. That said, their parents could shape up a little also. I hate to write off a kid's potential for the rest of his/her life on the basis of what looks to me to be pretty weak science (in their case, not your cousin's, since I don't know your cousin).

I can see another good reason some people would abbreviate their ads on BP .  
Their rules only allow so many paragraphs so, not much room for it.

There are a lot of people out there for whom English is not their native language.  Glaring mistakes are common in first generation speakers.  Gently correct them and move on, you will have done your good deed for the day.

I appreciate people who find humor in grammatical errors, such as these. Thanks for sharing!

Good illustration of the importance of correct syntax.