Ok, yes i admit it irks me for maybe I don't know a split second when I see an Ad for no AA men or any thing like that. I'm not AA but I'm not white either I have color in my skin damn it so what do I qualify as?
I always get a kick out of that...
But in the end after that split second i say to my self her loss and move on. That is the beauty of the hobby you don't just have ONE choice, one of the beauties is in the variety and well everyone has their preferences, and their likes. Why would you want to force a meeting with a provider that is not going to be comfortable with you, in the end is going to be a lack luster performance and you will feel cheated. At least she is being upfront rather than you getting there and then having to deal with her rushing you out the door because she doesn't feel comfortable.
Same thing can be said about us, we choose to see girls that fit our liking, are you in to ladies with curves then hey you are being judgmental to our petites, you like big boobs? you are being judgmental to girls with smaller bust sizes and the list continues... its a hobby of appearances and companionship if you don't like or feel comfortable with the girls appearance it you wont make an appointment.
Its different (and Ive actually had this happen) when you are meeting someone and have great chemistry and unofficially date however when it comes to the point of solidifying something she comes out and says "Im sorry I cant have a serious relationship with you because my family wont accept me dating someone if its not white. We can hang out and have sex but nothing more." Now that is a bunch of bull... lol And really something to be upset with.
Recommended: Yes
Rating: 8 performance 8 Looks
GFE: Ymmv more towards PSE
Services: Escort PSE
Rates: 250hr 150 1/2hr
Incall: yes/ near MOA
Outcall: No
Photos: Accurate
Said she'd only be town for a week
Must be nice to be white.
Just to be able to book a racist provider? Are racists a better fuck or something?
I am assuming that you are referring to the ad that probably states "no AA men". I am so sick and tired of those on these boards who continue to gripe about a lady having a preference as to whom they may or may not choose to meet.
This is a personal and physical situation and it is not the same as going to Denny's for breakfast, your local bank for a loan or renting an apartment. If you're a minority, too young, too old, cig smoker, drinker, farter, FAT, ugly, stinky, hairy, bald, handicapped etc etc and they don't want to see you...get fucking over it and move on to another lady who welcomes you with open arms.
If a lady is not comfortable with you, why in the hell would you want to see her anyhow??
I have prefrences as well which clearly are not stated on my ad but in the same instance you can not be mad just because she doesn't want to see you that's just like us being mad that you want to see another provider over us.
Kyla
It's an intimate service being provided, one that requires she be comfortable with whom she sees. If that's not the case then the session won't go well. Better to do be up front about this rather than waste some guy's time calling and possibly even scheduling an appointment only to have it go bad when he gets to her door.
It's BLACK MEN who do not see black providers, white men who don't etc And I DON'T CARE just like there are plenty black women, white women, asian etc women who won't see black men doesn't matter even if he's half-black.... SO WHAT SO WHAT SO F*UCKING WHAT. Guess WHAT for every person that DOES NOT see a BLACK MAN there is one that will PERIOD. This isn't just a dead horse being beaten this is a damn horse's bones being ground into dust. Oh and for a sec i'm going to just compare another thing some can discriminate on like hey I'm BBW lol you know how many ads or ISO's I see for guys requesting athletic, cheerleader types, spinners, sticks with big tits etc and it doesn't bother me because there just as many who will call me to see me as much as my average sized provider friend. Some like fattys lol some don't, some like blondes only and some don't. blah blah blah
This is a personal and physical situation and it is not the same as going to Denny's for breakfast, your local bank for a loan or renting an apartment. If you're a minority, too young, too old, cig smoker, drinker, farter, FAT, ugly, stinky, hairy, bald, handicapped etc etc and they don't want to see you...get fucking over it and move on to another lady who welcomes you with open arms.
If a lady is not comfortable with you, why in the hell would you want to see her anyhow??
I assumed 'AA' meant Al-Anon members. Seriously. That would make more sense to me...
Ok, yes i admit it irks me for maybe I don't know a split second when I see an Ad for no AA men or any thing like that. I'm not AA but I'm not white either I have color in my skin damn it so what do I qualify as?
I always get a kick out of that...
But in the end after that split second i say to my self her loss and move on. That is the beauty of the hobby you don't just have ONE choice, one of the beauties is in the variety and well everyone has their preferences, and their likes. Why would you want to force a meeting with a provider that is not going to be comfortable with you, in the end is going to be a lack luster performance and you will feel cheated. At least she is being upfront rather than you getting there and then having to deal with her rushing you out the door because she doesn't feel comfortable.
Same thing can be said about us, we choose to see girls that fit our liking, are you in to ladies with curves then hey you are being judgmental to our petites, you like big boobs? you are being judgmental to girls with smaller bust sizes and the list continues... its a hobby of appearances and companionship if you don't like or feel comfortable with the girls appearance it you wont make an appointment.
Its different (and Ive actually had this happen) when you are meeting someone and have great chemistry and unofficially date however when it comes to the point of solidifying something she comes out and says "Im sorry I cant have a serious relationship with you because my family wont accept me dating someone if its not white. We can hang out and have sex but nothing more." Now that is a bunch of bull... lol And really something to be upset with.
True. I definitely discriminate against the ugly. But I don't call it being judgemental. I call it having standards. That's my prerogative.
I've known this one chick since Hammer pants were in style. In her personal life she only dates black men. As an escort she won't see them, says it 'feels weird'. That's her prerogative. I've always wanted to fuck her in the worst way, but lack the requisite amount of melanin to suit her taste... I could be upset, but for what? NEXT.
It's useless to debate this. People do what the fuck they wanna do. End of subject.
I agree, we all have our standards and why cant a provider have hers? Like El_Matatero said, her loss and go find yourself a better girl. There are plenty of girls in our fair city that we can enjoy and if you try to force it is not going to be a good result...
Think she's too fat are you a weightist?
Smell puts you off from DATY are you a stinkypussophobe?
Any time you have rated a girl less then 10 on both counts, either you, her or both have discriminated. Does your review include YMMV? Well guess what? She discriminated.
This crap is why I don't bother to review many ladies or post much here. This board has taken a serious dive lately.
Nobody is going after you. The guys that appreciate an informative post like this just aren't speaking up because someone decided to railroad the thread into the recurring 'why do escorts get to pick and choose who they will see' theme. More entertaining for them to pile on the redundancy than to say, 'Hey, I've had my eye on her, thanks for the heads up.'
I tend to only pick girls with big boobs, so should i be required to book a certain percentage of my dates with A cup ladies?
She has two reviews from 2009.
It isn't just Kambria. The no AA thing is posted on all of the elves' postings. At least the ones I've seen. It must be an agency thing. Maybe someone should just ask one of them sometime about it. For what it's worth, in Kambria's old post she doesn't have anything like this.
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Yeah I forgot to come back here to mention that AFTER I also looked @ the other ads. Part of me feels more like shame on the company now unless the girls working for them feel the same way also.
Check out BP for San Antonio, Austin, Houston, Dallas,Louisiana, Florida, Arizona, etc. I swear it's on 50% or more of the ads. The providers who include this are of all races. I don't think anyone can assume it's a racist thing without knowing why each individual provider lists this exclusion. A bias, yes. Racist? Maybe for some but not likely for most.