How about this. 3 calls to reviewed providers (not all stellar reviews, but passable). 3 confirmations to come to my hotel (nice hotel in southern suburb). 1 NCNS and another contacted and on the way. Another NCNS, another call and another on the way. Another called back and is on the way in less that 1/2 hour. Way after midnight now and I finally had to take matters in my own hands.

My question, is LE active in Bloomington to scare off potential outcalls out here?

will you be letting us know who the ladies are?

Could be the hotel; some are known for being vigilant about that sort of thing.  Without knowing the names of the girls, it's hard to offer an opinion.

Bloomington scares off both providers and hobbyists.  Trouble is the providers practically never say no even when they have no intention of following through.  I once had a lady not show (in a different part of town) simply because it was a budget class hotel. (she finally admitted it later when I called her the next day)

Only other explanation is you are freaking them out with inappropriate questions on the phone. eg. are you full service? do you offer GFE?

Or your name and/or phone number has shown up on some blacklist out there.  

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I will respect the girls privacy and say that one of them texted me today to apologize.

I have heard about the problem with Bloomington and won't be making reservations in that area again. I did tell them the hotel (it is an upscale hotel) and that it was in Bloomington.  I have entertained providers there in the past, but always made prior arrangements.  Last night I just started calling until I got responses.  

The only thing I discuss on the phone is when they are available and what their rates are.

I hope I'm not on a blacklist. I only get to the cities every few months and will generally make arrangements to see someone in advance. I just chalk it up to trying to make last minute arrangements.

Yea, but how would they know until they get to the hotel.

Then they should say that their not comfortable coming out there.  I would totally understand.

Don't say that you're on your way and leave me hanging, and then not answer when I call back to confirm.

But some girls for whatever reason don't want to say they don't like the location or can't make it and their way of handling it is simply to leave you hanging.  Not cool at all.

And, if a girl verified you, they should've had no problem what-so-ever walking in the hotel to see you.  If you're dressed in high heels and a mini skirt, well, then you deserve to be on Lake Street picking up guys you don't verify, if you walk in in nice slacks and a simple blouse, or jeans and appropriate top, you'll look like you belong there.  It doesn't take a rocket scientist to disguise yourself to fit into society and not like a "hooker" as someone posted.  (tacky by the way and totally on my DNS list, even tho I"m sure i wasn't on his!!!!)

I think it has a lot to do with whom you chose to see in the first place.  The girl could've told you to come to her place instead, and she may have felt more comfortable, but more than likely, you weren't the only one she saw, and was to booked, or someone else offered more $, or her pimp told her he wasn't waiting in the car for an hour in Bloomington!  lol

I don't know or care who the girl was, I feel bad it happened to you, and all I can say, is even tho the gal may post on TER, doesn't mean they're "well reviewed" or respected around the metro, just that they're in biz and possibly available!!  Stories like this make us gals feel bad!! Maybe I should start offereing 15 min appts, bet I'd be well worshiped on here!!  No offense, but I think that's tacky, and shows that you're in it for the $ and not the respect of the gentleman or yourself!!  

If you have problems next time, post on the board who's available and maybe someone else can give you a hand!  

Sorry if I offended anyone, I just think this board has become overwhelmed with CL junkies and guys AND gals that don't appreciate the hobby, just in it for themselves!!

Take care, and have a better week!!
XOXO

And thank you once again for showing me the err of my ways when I got myself launched in the biz.

You're a great person.

I have no sympathy for you! These girls wipe their ass with you and you don't even have the balls to out them. My guess the girls sensed you were a candy ass and decided to stay home and watch TV.

I really need to pay more attention to who's posting what on these boards, as some of the comments people make are beyond boundaries, and I need to make a list of who not to see.  Not off this thread but in general.  What happened?  Can we go back to Pre MFP bust and be a normal discussion board again that was fun to post on and fun to see the replies?!?!  

Guys need to take a minute, breath, relax, and think with the proper head when trying to see a lady.  If it looks TGTBT, then most likely it is.  I'm not one to see a guy that has reviewed someone with no credibility let alone is charging 1/2 my regular rate!  Makes me feel like the guy is definatly going to NCNS, or doesn't take pride in himself and why that lady is charging pennys on the dollar!  And yes, I usually will tell these guys that I'm busy, knowing that I'm not!  Yes, the wrong place to post this, but I'm getting sick of keeping my mouth shut when I see such stupid posts and even more immature replies!!  

If you don't include references, you're not gna get a response, and if you're not willing to provide references because you're scared, or just think you're shit don't stink and you have a reputation on here, well, news flash, you're shit probably does stink, and there's too many girls that don't deserve your $, however, there's alot of desperate diseased nasty's on Lake street that I'd be more than willing to refer a gentleman to!!  lol

Guess I have a lot on the tip of my tounge this week!!  And it sure isn't what should be!!  wink wink!!


Marie, you're a doll!  The next time I'm in the southern Metro, we should meet for coffee or a drink!!  Dang I miss the comfort of and the super respectful men of MFP!  
XOXO
Sam

Been there done that.. sure do feel your pain on that!

On one hand you criticize the unpleasant posting habits of some people.

On the other you say "I'm not one to see a guy that has reviewed someone with no credibility let alone is charging 1/2 my regular rate!  Makes me feel like the guy is definatly going to NCNS, or doesn't take pride in himself and why that lady is charging pennys on the dollar!"
Do you really believe that all the low priced girls and the guys who see them are somehow beneath you?  That's taking a shot at a large group of people, many of whom don't deserve to be lumped in with the people who actually do behave badly.  Charging a rate of 150 or seeing some who does is not a character flaw.

I'm speaking about those that charge alot less than that, and I"m not saying that's so low.  I agree it's not to be talked about on here, my bad in the first place.  Noone is beneath me unless they've proven so, I'm to judge nobody.  

If I look at previous reviews from a gentleman and don't like how he's worded some reviews, and numerous other circumstances, I have every right, and usually do, deny or ignore any future contact.  It's a preference.  It's who I befriend, and frankly yes, I am picky and like to make sure there will be some sort of a bond or chemistry prior to meeting a boyfriend.  Don't you when you read thru every single review and decide what you're fantasy for the week will be?  
I'm degrading noone, please don't take it that way!
Thanks and have a great week everyone!
XOXO
Sam