You and other elite providers are so important that you may not even realize it.  You give a man so much joy, make them feel like they are special, and allow them to forget all the troubles they may have had to endure.  You provide so much more than a service, more than even a fantasy....you provide them an hour or more to feel like they are worth the pleasure you are giving them, and not just sexually but emotionally.  Do you have any idea how much the soft touch of a woman's hand brushing a man's cheek mean to him?  So very much.  To you and all the lovely providers who give so much of themselves to lonely gentlemen...we thank you.  I thank you

END OF MESSAGE

Wtf?

Sorry, it was just to providers in general as a thanks over the years.  Didn't mean to confuse anyone.

You obviously have an ATF out there who is one very lucky lady to have you in her life.

END OF MESSAGE

END OF MESSAGE

having been on Testosterone Replacement Therapy for the last several years ... the roller coaster effect of dosage identification can manifest symptoms exactly as described above ... Low T can = High E and vise versa. I know I have written a few emotional posts while experiencing the highs and lows of this therapy. However ... fantastic libido, increased energy and feelings of well being make it worth it.

I'm just sayin'.

Nothing wrong with a guy showing his emotions once in awhile. It doesn't make you less manly and if he has an  ATF good for him.!
However, once I had a civvie man-friend over that sounded exactly like a woman whilst we were enjoying DATY . That kinda freaked me out a lil bit,
By sounding like a woman, I mean like porno moans.  

END OF MESSAGE

Geez, sorry I posted anything.  Next time I'll be more appropriate and just toss a 411 out on a provider to you guys.  Just as if she's a kitchen appliance that you want to know how she works.  I'm outta here.

Thank you for taking the time to write such a sweet and thoughtful post. Some of the guys may be confused, but I'm sure the ladies all appreciate what you had to say. Personally, it would make me feel wonderful to know I made someone feel that way. Your post was addressed to the ladies and maybe that was overlooked by the gentlemen that read it and felt the need to lash out at you. That type of behavior is the reason I rarely post.  

XOXO
Jillian

I love it.  I understand the "I'm out of here" but I hope you would step back in now and then.  There are a few of us who like women who contribute here but we are out numbered.  I really believe that we are out numbered here but not so much in the rest of the world.  I think most men love and appreciate women even those men who play in the hobby world.  the difference is the dirt balls need to object similar to the way some people need to shame people who are religious.  If you think women are mules to be used and mistreated I hear you, I don't understand you at all but I hear you.  For those of us who do not hate females you do not need to throw up and your comments will never change us into people like you.  

Dear Provider; I thank you too, and I think most of us do.

I try to convey that message every time I see a fine young lady, and I think they deserve our gratitude. Of course there is a business aspect to it. But how many people in the Business world do you meet on a day to day basis who extend the friendliness and courtesy these ladies do? It was a simple gesture of appreciation.... Nothing more. I join you in saying "thank you" to the fine ladies of our local hobby world. We DO appreciate you and we thank you.

And I understood it perfectly. I also completely agree with it. Don't let any of these negative dopes get you down. They just seem to think if you write anything nice and with feelings it challenges your manhood, nothing could be further from the truth. If they don't like what you have to say they don't have to read it.

Jillian is an angel. She knows more than most people can even begin to understand. She knows sex is sex but no one makes a guy believe he is special than Jillian. Life is short, enjoy! Tedd

I am an emotional dude, always have been...don't see that changing...won't apologize for it either...

I have always appreciated my time with a reputable provider...Since joining TER, I am batting 1000...love those juicy details...  

As Hobbyists, we all have our own reasons...this is one of the most SUBJECTIVE hobbies ever...to poke fun at myself, I wrote the post...ok...let's turn the tables...see below...  

My reasoning was, how would we as hobbyists like us being judged and scrutinized like we do to providers???  I understand WE are the customers...but the Customer isn't ALWAYS right...for me this is a very intimate arena I am playing in...I want it to be just as fun for them as it is for me...and try to bring that energy in all aspects of my life...that's just how I role...

I am much more concerned what providers think of me, verses fellow hobbyist...I do appreciate many of the other hobbyists sharing their knowledge, experiences and expertise...but by no means would engage in "attacking the Windmills" on an internet chat room...not worth my time or energy...so haters be damned...my self-esteem is not based on what some dude says about me or if disagrees with me...I am mature enough, to agree to disagree and move on...Karma can be a bitch...

I REALLY liked you post and should have replied sooner than I have...for that I am  sorry...  
Thanks
Kra

"If they don't like what you have to say they don't have to read it"

How can I know what you say is lame without reading it, or if it is noteworthy without reading it?  

It is like doing a review without seeing the lady.   And that was my review of your post.   Like always, YMMV.