Minnesota
if a place treats us poorly and we can't address it with the management, boycott the place. but sometimes getting ignored creates this magnetic irritation/attraction. how many people get addicted to trying set up an appointment with kasha for instance. we get hooked on the anticipation, the chase, resolving the irritation and it makes our life all the more lame. it makes us all the more likely to do something we'll regret--like set up an appointment with someone who does poor business. it creates a false sense of scarcity and like little boys, we must get ahold of what we can't have. i agree with the above: everyone, if you get stiffed, get crack, get someone rude, let someone know on the boards and choose from the many other beautiful options out there--it's not like the providers don't remember what we do and don't talk about it amongst themselves..... oh, talk amongst yourselves, talk amongst yourselves. heheheh 
This happened to me with Michelle, who used to be at MJ Friends... Exchanged several e-mails, had appt. set for the following day. The next day, site was gone, phone was gone, and left the biz for good! Usually women aren't scared into a lifetime of celibacy until AFTER we've met. 
Deals like this really make you appreciate some providers like Lisa or Madison who go through the trouble of updating their schedule on their web site. It's a hassle for them but you know where things stand. Myrissa's probably out of town or off for a while and just hasn't bothered to note it on her website, or change the greeting on her voicemail.