Been hobbying for a short time, seems to be a lot of headaches associated with it.  


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Us girls never cause any of the Drama, it is U men!  

Ouch...that was a low blow. One could also use the term Hormones!

It takes 2 to fight...not just 1

Ain't no fighting.

You mean that happens too??? lol

OMG,I hope you guys know that I was kidding. Geez

then you should have put aa "LOL" after your dig!

ya ya ya

I've been around for a whopping 2.5 years and can say the drama comes and goes.  It is very tiresome and hopefully this round will go soon.

...the "real life" drama that exists in our community, and for YEARS that stuff just got swept off the boards but never solved, never confronted and thus, nothing ever got done about it. This current douche bag has been at this for over 6 years and I have heard from more than twenty providers who have been the object of his obsession at one time or another, and I think the only resaon it continued for so long is the guy got the feeling of power that he could keep it up and any attempts to bring it to attention weren't allowed on the boards. The past several years both boards were moderated from a "non-judgmental" view-point by simply removing ANYTHING that had contravresy or drama involved, and both sides of any issue were treated equally... and look ant all the garbage that was under the rug when I rolled it up. I'm not sure where the idea ever came from that this was a neutral forum or a "drama free zone", but rather we have STRONG collective feeling about issues and finally the ability to express them!

(But in a way, I agree with you... I mainly want to know where the young cute hotties are at and what kind if roll in the hay I can expect and not have to mess with all the bullshit!)  ;>

Oh, I'm not in favor of ignoring these problems and if this helps in some way to put an end to this wacko's reign of insanity then good.  I'm just pointing out it's not the first crisis and almost certainly won't be the last.  They are all aggravating to one degree or another and sometimes dangerously so for some people, such as the ladies who have had to deal with being stalked.  I just hope it gets a good resolution soon so we can get back to the important business of focusing on getting together with the delightful ladies.

Is it too much drama trying to line up something with the local providers?
Is it too much whining and conflict in the TC discussion board?
Or is ti BOTH?

It is only a few that really cause the drama and it is all lead on by bad or misleading providers, IMHO!!