Have found the scoring system used here for evaluation (performance evaluation scale 1-10) a most useful tool in research and decision making criteria.  In fact I've found it so effective I routinely measure my SO against it for performance measurement purposes.  Very similar to the Olympic scoring system after a performance. Anyone else find this scoring matrix useful ?

Well I would find it more useful only if they
add yet another line to score a provider.
they could use a term such as
(kicked her ass to the curb)beginning with 0 and ending at 10. O hell add yet another line if you are comparing providers and Wives.
have a term beginning at -1
I almost thought she was my wife in disuise.

That is what I did with my S.O.
Because she always gave me T.W.E.
(The Wife Experience) LOL

It is usefull but the score is subjective.  One man 10 may be another mans 5.
But if a lady consistently 8's, 9's, and 10's, you can be fairly certain to have a good time.

I can certainly relate to those comments Mr Outcast. On the subject of wives, mine on a good day (usually nights)  might (thats might ...) pull a 6.  When we first started going out she was racking up 9 & 10's all the time with excellent aggresive behavior and horny gusto.  Anyone else see this trend with their SO after being together awhile ?  What gives ?

I love the "hit-n-run" aspect of this hobby - LOL!

Just a theory but DD2 thinks women put out differently depending on the guy.  My SO got another "5" for her usual performance Saturday night. But had she been with her ex boyfriend she'd delivered a 9, possibley a 10 to the lucky guy.  I know this as I've watched them in action several times. Anyone else see this dynamic ?

Pimp your S.O. to her ex and then use the money you make from that to hire yourself a lady that will provide you with a 9 or possibly 10 experence!
 That's a win/win, because then everybody gets what they want, lol!

Hell, charge the ex $50 more than you pay and put the extra in your pocket!

I would be happy to pimp my SO.  But knowing her she would not be willing to share the money.
Whats "her's" is "her's", and whats "mine is "our's"!  

I can't say I've ever had the "pleasure" of watching a current girlfriend go at it with a former boyfriend.  How pray tell did you find yourselve in that situation and did you find this a positive or negative experience.

I knew something was wrong in 2002 when she wouldn't put out for me.  So I kept a journal in 2003 when she'd go down for me complete with score. Results were poor; sex once every eight days with an average score of 5. I knew she was seeing another guy, I was right. 2004 was spent collecting the evidence with a PI (Private Investigator) We got over 700 cell phone calls from her phone recorded to her lover. Many store receits for gifts, like leather coats, watches, shirts, etc. AND 50+ hours of video shot of them together.  The PI got 2 remote night vision cams and microphones  installed in his Dodge SUV where they'd go after work to screw.  Seeing them go from fully clothed to raw sex was incredible.  Her lover was black who just pounded the crap out of her hot white pussy.  Stuff she did for him she's never done for me.  They also did the hotel room thing up off 94 in Brooklyn Park where they were followed and recorded. Was I prepared for it ? Hell no and I wish I'de never known what I found out.  However the only way to prove something like this was with the facts and brother I got them. If you want more details email me at [email protected].

Money that you could have otherwise used to further enjoy your own hobby!
I hope you got all the evidence you needed to kick her to the curb and not end up strapped into paying her alimony on top of it!

I had no idea she was fucking this guy for 2.5 years behind my back.  I was just a white guy making a living so she could drive a BMW and wear a Rolex watch.  It seems to me black guys are pretty good at getting in the head of white chicks.  They're also very good at control and dominace over them as I saw.  When he wanted her to get him off she always did be it JO or BJ or fuck in his Dodge SUV, no complaints.  She usually would let me fuck her in the morning at home, then bang him that night around 11:30pm after work got out.  If she fucked him the night before she wouldn't let me touch her that morning for fear of me discovering his goo still leaking out of her well used hot quim.  I heard this all from the cell phone discussions we taped between them and the video tape.  As this was a total surprise to me can you imagine seeing your wife fucking a long black cock on video tape at 7:00am that morning when she just did him 6 hours earlier at 1:00am ?  Any suggestions as to what I should do to my little slut whore liar ?

The rest of what should happen to her will automatically unfold for her if you do that and you won't have to lift a finger! Drive to your next provider appointment in her BMW and pawn her rolex to pay for your overnight session.

Quim Sniffer you have a nose for good advice, yuk yuk !  Love the handle but hey, if I stay with the bitch it will never be the same.  At first I thought it was a macho thing and I had to defend her honor.  Then I realized that wasn't the case at all as it was all about her being a low down lying cheat. She came on to him and he realized his good fortune to work his black magic between her hot white thighs. A skinny black guy Liberia, Africa making $21.00 bucks an hour, speaking broken English with a big swinging cock.  I'll let you know if its true "once you go black you never turn back" At this point it's our kids that keep us together.
Other advice ? Thanks Quim Sniffer !

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If I were you, I'd never touch her again sexually for the rest of my life! If she was taking a load of jizz from this guy, then bringing it home to share with you, she was putting you at unthinkable risk! chances are she wasn't enough woman to completely satisfy him either, and he was probably also seeing other women besides her!
At least with any hobbying you may have done in the past, you were more than likely using protection if you were with a professional, so you weren't putting her life in danger - unlike the complete disreguard that she had for your life and future!

(PS. I had to edit the specifics out of your post, I didn't want to take the whole post down, considering what you went through, you deserve to be heard!)

Thanks Bud appreciate that.  I'll just wrap this up by saying she never thought I'd catch her.  It would still be going on today if I hadn't busted her.  Guys once something looks odd on your radar start looking for the clues.  One of the most obvious for me was when she shaved her pussy in a landing strip fashion down to where her clit and pussy lips start.  I had tried for several years to get her to do that and one day when she was getting out of the shower I noticed it.  She said its been like that for  a long time. Well the black boyfriend got her to do that not me.  Other stuff like neck marks, store receipts from gifts she bought him, new clothes in her closet and other gifts, cum stains in her thong, a girl friend that knows of this who covers for her, etc etc.  The Christmas of 2003 we were on a tight budget and the kids didn't get much. So what does she do? Buys him a $350.00 leather coat and gloves from Wilson Leather.  I found the store receipt in one of her purses !  All ya got to do is look and you'll find if your brave enough to have your world change.

Kids schmids...take em and leave if you want to, get a lawyer and be an asshole or do what I did. I have kids with an ex-wife and still pay plenty of child support.  But I have a great relationship with the kids and the child support is a lot cheaper than living with the bitch.  Given your story I think I'd take a chance with the asshole approach.

Well Gulbro I'm thinking about that. Doing a long black cock has certainly made her alot more horny. We fucked Thursday night, Friday morning and Friday night.  She cam hard and rode my long donkey dick till both our cum was flowing, just like she did on the big black one.  Average score was a 6, not bad for her.  Now if I can only get her to suck my deformed meat pole .....