Does anyone have any suggestions for hair removal techniques.  What is the preferred method:  shaving, waxing, something else.  And where does one go to get this service done, a spa?  Any info would be helpful.

Asking your wife to shave you makes for a fun evening (it's a long story.)

Once you get past the mental block associated with the anxiety caused by having sharp tools in close contact with delicate equipment a razor works just fine. You may want to trim the long stuff before turning the razor loose. Good luck on your journey to smooth sailing. lol

Start with a beard trimmer. If you're just starting out, you may want to keep some stubble, because after a smooth shave, there is much itching.
Lotion with Aloe works well to keep itching down and soften the remaining hairs.
If you have a lot of time and are feeling a little kinky, you could use Jell-O. Spred liberally, leave it on for a long time.

Don't use an epilady. Or Nair.

As for services, I don't know anyone who does this, but it would be way cool. If you find someone, post it.

#1Beard trimmer, works well if you dont want to be too smooth or your hair is long.                                       #2Razor, be sure to always use a NEW blade and a good shaving cream for sensitive skin and COLD water, to avoid bumps and razor burn.  Plus side the more you shave the better because the itching goes away after several shavings.  Another plus is your baby smooth.  One bad is the sometimes ingrown hairs.            #3  You can wax, either at home or most spas will see men.  Newest fad for the homosexual men to get bikini waxes so the spas are doing them now.                                         #4 electrolyis  SP?  For permanent hair removal but can be expensive.                                                        The benefits to any of the above is that you are soooo much more sensitive, kissable, lickable,,,,,,,,,,,,,,ohhhhhhhh yummy.

But oh so very expensive but you will never have to fret again....I have done laser and want to do it again but it is mucho spendy

That brings up an interesting point which may be obvious but who knows.  For the providers out there, do you prefer your gents to be be clean shaven downstairs?  It would seem to be preferable, easier to keep things in better shape.

I like my women to have some hair below the bekini!  Bald is a bit of a turn off.

I love it when a man trims or shaves, but sometimes that's difficult when hiding a torrid affair from your wife.

Me you ask??? I've grown a landing strip in case anyone has a hard time finding just where to go :P

The pubic amount doesn't really concern me unless there is too much hair in the pubic area. Too much hair can hide and collect surprising items! (Trust me!)  Although, I do feel the cleaner the area, the more I enjoy the nectar of the heavenly canyon!

Yes I agree much cleaner.  Also I prefer men to be shaved or at least shortend.  Have a great Memorial weekend everyone!!

I much prefer clean shaven in the south.  Better to speak French!

Part of my "long story" that may be of some value to this group deals with how I brought up the subject of shaving with my wife. I mentioned it to her while she was asleep and then waited until she brought it up later. So it sort of came out as her idea, and therefore she was not suspicious about it.

I can't wait to see the landing strip, Misty. Older fellows like myself sometimes need directions.

And what a landing strip it is, indeed! Slurp!