... but about choosing to use it as the best word for the situation.  I wouldn't charge D. H. Lawrence with having a limited vocabulary, for example.  

But as I said, there's many other options...

So I can't use the word fuck in order to be civil?  Further limiting my limited vocabulary? I'm screwed!  

What happens when a provider says fuck me harder? Do I tell her to be civil and that this is not the time to show how limited her vocabulary is? Please let go of my balls. Maybe she could say "Put your penis in my vagina and take it out very briskly and do this many times" Because that always keeps me hard.  

George Carlin is rolling over in his grave

I did a search for the word "fuck" in the last 700 days. Roughly 740 hits. So good luck with your version of civility

All's I see and hear are little brats and bitches. Really wanted to use the F word but didn't.  
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