since the erotic review reviewes to inform people . .after a crappy session with her. .i went to the bathroom. . my own mistake. .the next morning, $1,500 was missing from my wallet.  Just wanted to let u folks know to stay away from this fat thief

Another gentleman already warned us a while back about this lady.You guys need to ask ? and do your homework! I'm sorry this happened to you, but someone needs to swallow their pride and absorb the embarrassment and turn this person in. I would hope the providers that use this page are furious about this type of behavior because it will tarnish everybody,and thats the shame of it, because we have so many great ladies around these twin cities.

I was the one who pulled the discussion on SparklingJen and in retrospect, I may have erred. I did it mainly because most of the discussion had to do with her performance which I thought belonged in the Review section. There were some posts in that discussion that also crossed some lines that attacked her personally.

As I said before, I make mistakes and open to criticism from the people on the Board. And yes, I've put those posts up, even when they're painful.

That's why the only thing that goes in the door is me, the donation and the id. Everything else I leave behind.

-- Modified on 10/6/2005 2:57:40 PM

I hear ya SC...  I don't mean to sound unsympathetic to anyone who gets ripped off.  I've never bought into that "the victim had it coming" line of reasoning that sometimes creeps into the dialogue.  But that being said...

Just out of habit I have a pretty ritualized approach, and SC is right on the money.  I bring the donation, the ID I need if it's a traveler, the key to my car, and that is it.  I also bring one of those portable folding toothbrush/paste kits and hit the little boy's room for a brush on the way.

If I'm providing the room, I hit the shower before she gets there and nothing is left in an obvious spot, so there's no opportunity for hijinx.  If I'm going to her room and want to shower before, I undress in the bathroom so my clothes are with me.  If I'm doing the post-fun cleanup, same thing...  I bring my clothes in with me.

I'm not a nervous/paranoid/anxious person, but I am one of those people who is ALWAYS very aware of what I'm doing, what's going on around me, and when I'm exposed to the most risk.

And why would have $1500 on you anyway? That's just asking for trouble. I'm not too paranoid about the clothes, et. al., bacause if she going to rifle my pockets there's not anything to find, but if I caught her, I'd never come back.