What do you think of a top local provider who claims to only offer cbj but when you offer her an extra $50 she says she'll do bbbj.  You get all excited, confirm the date and at the last minute she cancels.  I mean I was reallly left hanging, if you know what I mean!  So why do some ladies offer bbbj and some only cbj?  Is it an issue of safety or what?

Taste or texture.

you offered more money for something she does not offer, she agreed and decided later that she did not want to stary from her norm.

I would not agree you were left hanging, asking ladies to do more for more money will cayse her reaction from time to time, expect it!

As for your last question, ladies choice.  Everyone, man or waman, should decide what they are comfortable doing and stick to that.  Both parties will have a better time when both parties adhere to what allows them to feel safe and comfortable with the session.

Again, this response is purly from your perspective.  the lady may have had an emergency or maybe you said something wrong or did something to make her nervous who knows out here in discussion board land.

1)Safety
2)They don't like the taste

Most providers won't discuss any specific acts on the phone.  I could understand someone getting nervous about it.