http://minneapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/_o_9829_o_naughty_o_9829_o_blonde_o_9829_o_temptations_o_9829_o_24/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=2210849

Called her up, and after a long drive, got to her place.  The person in the ad (who looks cute) is different from the person who opened the door, which was sorely disappointing.  Since I was already there, I decided to go through with it.

Started the up-sell right away (after getting the money) and tried to make me buy for the full hour.  Said FS is only available for the full hour and that any other conclusion is based on a misunderstanding of her ad.  

Needless to say, I walked out.  She obviously pocketed the entire amount ($140) and refused to refund anything (a slow sunday evening bonanza, I guess).  The total time spent there was 2 minutes.

I would not consider this person again.  Much better looking, reasonably priced and very well reviewed ladies available on TER.  Why mess up your day with such a nasty experience  ?

She has a recent good review by a well schooled hobbyist who gave her good marks.  But he didn't mention she wasn't the girl in the ad.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=875982&user=1167230

Then there is her initial review by me which was like a cross between the Twilight Zone and the Keystone Cops.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=876414&user=1167230


Both of them obviously better than yours.  Unpredictable?  Yeah!

Kinda makes ya wonder which one we met, doesn't it?

I hear your complaint and I feel your pain, but here's what I don't understand: she doesn't mention full service anywhere in her ad, where did you get the idea that it would be available in her hh service??

unless she mentioned this to you on the phone, I don't see how you can just come to that conclusion.

Also and even more important, why did you leave?? It wasn't like she refused to give you anything at all, she just didn't offer the service you wanted at the option you chose. Thus you can: A-since you are already $140 deep, just come up with an extra $40 to get what you want (spending $180 for what you want is better than losing $140 for nothing at all) or B-you can let go of the FS fantasy and enjoy something else (better to get a $140 massage or stripshow than to walk out empty).

Anyway my sense is that this seems to be more crossed communication signals than flat out deception.

Unless of course there's more to the story.

*ps...copping her name as your screen name is a not a good look gives off that whiff of desperation.

Don't you think that we can assume that it is FS unless otherwise stated?  I mean, thats what everyone is here for.  Plenty of woman take great pains to say, not FS when that isn't what's offered.

in this day and age, enough girls DO NOT offer FS that I disagree you can automatically assume it on every call. Or pitch a fit when it's not there.

And since no confirmation of any sort was done, you then have to give her the benefit of the doubt.

my point is that on the scale of deceptive tactics, slightly upping the ante for your admittedly main goal would not rank as career inducing suicide.

No, I agree with ypu, it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world.

I guess I wonder why some gals aren't more explicite with what your money buys you.  I get that its likely a tactic so as not to run afoul of LE but it just seems easier to put everything out there so everyone knows what is going on.

I tyically avoid providers that don't tell what my money will buy.

The most deceptive I've ever heard are the girls who show up at your hotel, collect their money and then with a big smile, ask if you're ready to be escorted to your dinner or movie?

I'd spend years plotting revenge.

Unless it is explicitly stated, the clear assumption is that it is FS.  Someone who would not do FS would explicitly state that - and why not ?  And she was upfront that with more money, she has absolutely no problem with FS - in other words, an upsell.  

Bottomline, the female is not the one in the ad.  This is a seriously well worn one than the cute one in the ad.  To add insult to injury, the person then goes ahead and tries to do an upsell.  

What was the guarantee that the upsell would not be a slippery slope ?  An additional $40 would get a couple more knick-knacks and then an addition $xx will get some more and so on.  I am not in the business of playing such games and I am purely there for a good time.

Unless it is explicitly stated, the clear assumption is that it is FS.  Someone who would not do FS would explicitly state that - and why not ?  And she was upfront that with more money, she has absolutely no problem with FS - in other words, an upsell.  

Bottomline, the female is not the one in the ad.  This is a seriously well worn one than the cute one in the ad.  To add insult to injury, the person then goes ahead and tries to do an upsell.  

What was the guarantee that the upsell would not be a slippery slope ?  An additional $40 would get a couple more knick-knacks and then an addition $xx will get some more and so on.  I am not in the business of playing such games and I am purely there for a good time.

Now, why did I leave ?  That is a good question.  It was probably due to a sore feeling when the person in front of me, was different from the one in the ad - a much more well worn one than the cutie in the ad, and then experiencing the up-sell.  

I was there to have a good time than play games. And her refusal to refund any money (after less than a minute into the "session"), added to my decision to get out of there.  

Of course she said that "we will work something out" and things along those lines, when I expressed my intention to leave, but the mood was all gone with the sneaky attempt to do an upsell and then pocketing the entire money and I personally don't "work something out" once I am with a provider (not much into haggling in such matters).

"screen name" giving a "whiff of desperation" ?  Out of curiosity, why in the heavens should I be "desperate" ?  I am being very explicit about wanting to relate a nasty experience with a deceptive upselling provider, with a deceptive ad, so that others would be warned that the person on the ad is not the one whom they would be meeting, in addition to having to play unpleasant games, after getting to the incall place.  My screenname is explicit in stating to stay away from this provider, based on my experience.  The readers can make their own judgement, based on my experience, right ?

I did read that more recent review by the guy, which is what led me to try and hook up with this female.  

I discounted your earlier review, as probably a situation where there was no meeting of the minds, and thus maybe an outlier.

Bottomline, based on my visit, my observation/experience was closer to yours than the other guy's - but with the difference that she was explicit about offering FS, for more money.

I too have thought about revenge a time or two; NCNS after days of careful planning so I could disappear for a few hours, bait and switch, the bad news concerning the menu after collecting the loot.... Any creative ideas for revenge??

my apologies aa. the 'whiff' remark was uncalled for. thank you for pointing this out to me in a manner most chill.

I totally emphasize with your explanation of why you left. sometimes once the mood is ruined, no takeback can bring it back.

I appreciate that you did your part to notify everyone of your experience and let's hope this scam artist suffers the karmic retribution she deserves.