This will be my last trend on the subject, but the question was asked will NCNS "outings" be mutual and I say yes.

90 to 95% of the Providers and Hobbyist understand the concept that to be repectful to your fellow human beings; that you either drop a note or give a call when not making an appointment. Would anyone blow off their boss or customer without calling them?

Everyone understands "THINGS" come up in life that is not the issue, the issue is people prepare, may get a room, take a day off etc.

It gives the Hobby a BAD name and hurts even the very best top providers.

So lets "0ut" those providers and Hoibbyist to make everyone aware and understand when seeing someone (either side) that YOU can make an inform decision about them. Not even saying don't see them but just beware.It would probably be wise to wait until 12 hours after; just if something major happened where both option were not available at the time.

This can only improve our experiences on both sides and everyone will get the message in a unified front to communicate and respect and protect.

Just my little hot button that can be hurtful!!

This is not being disrespectful to anyone...

Since I have never NCNS or cancelled on a lady I am not worried as I don't plan too either.

That said, shit happens and I am not sure if 12 hours is a good amount of time before posting a lady/gent doing such things.  I would say that 72 hours given weekends or holidays would be a good time frame to expect a response even after an emergency.

My experience has been that of the dozens of cancellations and 2 NCNS that the ladies that will response and make ammends will do it within a few days.  The ladies in my cases have mostly done this before or at the time of the date.  The few NENE or NCNS have respondedwithin a few days, the rest, POOOF right off my radar for good.  One lady did contact me almost 2 months later and I had zero response for her, I thought that was more of a case of I will do it when I am damn good and ready or when I need an appointment.  Not good bussiness practice and says I had better things to do, but will do you now and take your money if you like.

I agree 100%. What gets me is the guys wwho put she showed on time in the peofile a yes. Or the guys who stand tree top tall for the lady evan though she ncns on them numerous times, thinking it mite benefit them in the future.  thats my rant. All take care and be safe