Hey team,  just getting back in the swing curious if anyone has ever had much luck with secret benefits site or if it’s just a waste?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5w9NsxWFYFU&t=878s

there is significant overlap between the SW and SB communities.

I tried it and it was a total waste of time and money. With that being said I was looking in areas with not much escort activity.  From my research several guys have had good luck on SA. I still doubt the time and effort required along with the small savings.  

I've had sessions with two SB's thru Secret Benefits.   But my approach does not net a good return on effort because I am upfront about being in it mostly for the sex ... rather than some Richard Gere --  Pretty Woman relationship.  So I don't do that well on SA either.  But still, I did get more action on SA.
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I like the aspect of SB that you don't have to blast out your introductions in the timeframe of your subscription like on SA.  With SB you buy contact credits which don't have a time limit.  The downside is that every SB on the forum pings every guy on the forum and you have to spend your credits to read their intros.  And it usually ends up being something like, "Hi, how are you?"   So being contacted by them means almost nothing.  Which is essentially putting you in the position of making costly cold calls.  

I will join and pay for these Sugar Daddy sites only one month at a time and cancel only to move on to the next site.  During the one month membership I will message the top 5% hottest girls for a week and even sometimes meet for an introductory drink.  At this point, I will offer $400+ for intercourse and so far I am batting around .400 which IMO definitely doesn’t make it a waste of time as long as you are ready to throw around some money.

The reality is that 80% of the girls are looking for $$$ to fuck and they think they have too much self respect to post an ad on a traditional escort ad site to market themselves.  The other 20% think they are better looking than they are and think they live in NYC or Miami and will find some lonely rich old man to hang out with them and earn escort $$$ per hour.  Not gonna happen.

My experience has been good pussy, drama, and financial ruin. The sugar babies, are basically utr ho's milking a few of their best clients. And have a regular life, except your picking up the tab, and they all want you to spend lots of money on problems they have,
My advice find a few girls your comfortable with stick with them and try something new once in while. Stay in charge of your hobby money, and don't fall in love.

I am currently using it and the woman I am seeing is awesome. It costs me about the same as an escort with the added benefits of having a "date night". When I visit her she caters to my every need and even has my favorite food and beverages on hand. That is why I am not seeing escorts as much as I used to.

But these comments are spot on. For me its fun to message them and try and get a feel (groan here is fine). Found that many girls are not looking for much beyond short term dough, and they have no interest in you. However, there are other girls perfectly willing to trade their pride for a few hundred bucks. Have to weed thru the fakes but there are really nice looking girls, especially in LA and Miami if you are looing for a vacation honey, as well as locals. The college girls usually don't want anything physical but they will tell you that for free if you message then.  That said, the hottest girl I am seeing now was a massage girl that offered me FS after some sessions, and and she is a 10. Happy hunting!

What does the A stand for.  I know you can't write out the entire name of the site.

SA is seeking arrangements, now just called seeking.

U are smart man!  Spot on brother

I had good luck on SA until I upset a sugar baby and she got me permanently banned from site  lol  My experience with SB is awful. You have to buy points. The girls tap every guy with 'How are you' messages and its easy to burn through your points responding  to worthless messages. Sugar Daddy Meet is paying off. And there are a couple of girls that I met two years ago on SA that I still tap into. Many of the girls are just choosy whores.  Many came over from Backpage when that was shut down. There are some that use the sites only when they're short of cash and need to pay rent or phone. More of these since covid.  There is something to be said for establishing some sort of connection over drinks, etc. The less professional girls really warm up to that.