Recently I was introduced to the awesomeness that is coconut oil.  Its uses, especially during some "fun time", are limitless.  I also understand that coconut oil also has some specific benefits for female parts.  My question is, would it be appropriate to request it or even bring my own when connecting?

... that coconut oil isn't compatible with latex.

I can not tell you how much I LOVE coconut oil! I've found so many great uses for it, whether erotic in nature or not. I usually have my own handy but do not mind if my friend brings his own preference or requests a certain kind!  

Just don't assume she'll say yes.

True, but everything I've read says that coconut oil is compatible with polyurethane condoms.  Thanks for the feedback.

It had so many benefits to the body and it's amazing for the skin!

But I have tried traveling with it and had it melt and leak in my suitcase.  Personally I would be very happy if you brought some with you, and ... I do have non-latex condoms on hand

It works fine for poly but not latex. Although I have to say after finding the size I like in poly I will never go back to latex. The oil doesn't get sticky like some other types of lube no matter how long you use it and it is great for your skin. A friend of mine turned me on to it (no pun intended) awhile back and I now keep a jar in the bedroom and the kitchen!