Ladies why don't you see particular groups of men,( I am not saying that you can't do it I just wonder why)

To answer is just to invite denunciation.

I'm assuming with the Asian providers that don't see other Asian people is the whole assumption that the Asian community in MN is too small and someone is connected somehow by small degrees.

For me...

I only judge people on their character or lack there of...  I discriminate against a--holes and shady people equally.

As in, guys younger than 25. And then for guys 25-35 (ish) I sometimes ask for a deposit.  I also ask for deposit when your screening shows that you've experienced recent bankruptcy or eviction.  But that's just me.

There's a popular provider (which I am a few years older) that I would like to see but can't due to age minimum restrictions. She raises the restrictions every year, need to figure out some sort of time machine.

You should ask her

Many of these restrictions are not cast in stone.
Doubt many change minimum yearly but often have minimums  correlating to maturity in their own mind.
If you have not as of yet — try a short introductory date request and see what happens being upfront  about your age from the get go.

my worry has never been on the young side just how young can I look as I present .....on the old side

If they have an age minimum I'll sometimes ask especially if I am older than they are already. But not sure about this one:
“don't see folks under 37, mention that you are 25 and ask if I will see you anyways. That situation in itself is a perfect example as to why I do not see younger clients...can you guess why?“

you run a credit check on applicants?  Thats fucked up grandma. Theyre not renting an apartment.

If she wants a personal reference from two priests and nose swab it's her right.

Too close of a community as someone stated above  

Rain you always seem to have a good answer to my questions  
I thank you

I don't run a credit check on anybody. But there are court records that are public knowledge that are important for my well being. Especially if there's domestic abuse or other violent crimes in those court records. And bad financial decisions aren't great either.

Is seeing escorts "bad financial decisions" ?  

Only if you don’t have the money lol