How do you know it was a provider? Little more info please.

Dude...that SUCKS!

Any more details you can share?



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More info is necessary.

You understand that every provider you have reviewed is now guilty by association. Don't you?

You really need to out this provider to protect the reputations of all other providers in this city.

Also, I really do not see the point of you posting that you were outed by a provider on this board unless you are going to share the name of the provider.

Two questions that need to be answered.

How did it happen.  You can answer this question without disclosing the provider's name.  

Why did it happen?  What would cause a provider to do this?  I do not believe any of our local gal with do this.  I do know of two that scare me and if it was one of them they need to be outed.  

You could be a help to the community by providing the answers to the above questions.

Re: I've been outed

WOW...not good!

So what happened and how did it happen. Pleas PM me with more details.

Things like this tarnish the hobby for all and makes for Huge collateral damage

Speed,
Please do your brethren a favor and let us know who has caused you this trouble. PM if uncomfortable posting in the open forum.

This post doesn't make sense otherwise.  

As everyone else, I would like to hear the story behind this.  Did she call your office and talk to your boss?  

I hope this post stops her from further damage to your life.  My humble opinion is to walk away to avoid instigating her.    

There's never a good reason to hurt a family.  Family is sacred.  

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this.  It's not right.  Karma will take care of her.  If she's doing this to others, she's probably already got herself in deep.

I'm calling bullshit!!!

In a move that will undoubtedly be unpopular with many of my fellow hobbyists, I’m calling bullshit on this. SpeedRazor drops this bomb and runs without a hint of any detail. Why? I can only assume that he has done something grievous to incite the wrath of a provider (non-payment? physical abuse?) and doesn’t want the rest of the story to get out. By keeping the name secret he ensures that she won’t step up to tell her side of the story. His choice of words in that he was “outed” is interesting. Not “I got caught”? His wife doesn’t know, but his workplace does? The only thing that I can think of that would play out like that would be easily deniable unless there were recordings etc…) How does that work anyway? “Hi I’m a hooker and wanted to let you know that one of your employees, Joe Blow, is one of my clients. Thanks have a nice day.” If that were the case, wouldn’t you say “I’m being blackmailed”?  And if this were the case wouldn’t you use you post to ensure the provider in question was equally outed to the community? I don't think you were outed at all, but you are using this post a threat to stop her from doing so, and are using us all as pawns in your little spat. Speedy, I hope I am out of line and have to apologize to you, but for now, I suggest that we all ignore this posting and carry on. Nothing to see here, just the odor of bullshit.

Re: I've been outed

Not to sound cold but who cares?  Why waste our time venting if you don't have the courage to out who would be nasty enough to do this to a client.  Another worthless post!! Don't post if your not going to give details to make it valuable to the community.

First of all it was nobody that I have reviewed. I was wrong and I jumped to the wrong conclusion. I was venting. I am annoucing my retirement from this hobby.