I think either giving or getting a massage is the best.  Slow dancing is fine but doesn't compare to having hands run all over you.

For me, the chance to lie there and have the kinks worked out without my having to do anything...plus having a nice HE: no comparison!  And, I love to give a massage, too, and enjoy the full glory of a woman's body stretched out in front of me, let alone the tactile sensuality of the touch.

-- Modified on 7/16/2012 5:18:58 AM

Although it has been an awfully long time since I've had a really
great lapdance.....but I would say the massage would still be my
first choice.

If you are talking about this in the context of activities in conjunction with full service escorting, then either might be considered good foreplay, depending on the lady's appearance and skills.  If I were a regular client I would probably change it up a bit and try both.

A sexy, sultry striptease lapdance would really do the trick for me.

....sure I like both, but as been said here, FBSM is fabulous and as part of FS one of the best foreplay methods, but I also love a hot strip and lap dance, so my answer is I love both and like Ole, I like to change it up.  Do I have to pick just one....awwww

-- Modified on 7/16/2012 10:16:52 AM

A massage for sure, as long as I can give one in return

I enjoy the teasing from a good lap dance. I've never had a session with a provider who has offered one. It would be a nice change.