Minnesota
Re: Making a blanket statement against sharing info is excessive
Pretty ridiculous to question someone doing reviews or participating on the boards for a decade to be confused with it being someone's husband, sibling or pimp lol trying to get info about a dude's "date" lol. That's as laughable as a pro saying the need a client's PII in case he has a heart attack. Talk about looking for things that just aren't there.
After 35 years and much more than 500 encounters, I am taking my leave at the end of October when my ATF of 18 years closes up her apartment. A few observations. .
I have never been blackmailed.
I have never been robbed although the liquor cabinet of hotel was emptied by a provider (the hotel did not charge me).
I have never been arrested although I was once chased by a hotel security guard and gave him the slip by using multiple staircases and halls and leaving by a side exit. I was stopped by police exiting two massage parlors and let go twice. I was about to walk to another facility and a half a block away saw that a raid was in progress.
I got gonorrhea once from a BBBJ. Since then I insist on covers.
I have had a good time and met many wonderful women. I had to learn the difference between being a white knight and respecting the women who ply this trade. If they ask, I have provided reviews (on consent), shills, references for schools, straight jobs, given them referrals to straight professional services, and signed for one woman so that she could get on a program to have a misdemeanor expunged. One crying, trafficked woman begged for help to escape. I waited 24 hours and called the police who raided the facility.
I’ve gotten (during my 4 different names) multiple PMs from men wanting to know if women do x. i do not answer those because I promise each woman that the review is all I will say.
I tell women who ask about potential clients about problematic posts that disparage women or sexworkers but also say that I do not know any clients.
My mail box has a couple messages. I am Basic and so can not see any of them. On the outside chance that any provider wants to reach me, try contacting someone that I have recently reviewed.
Good by all.
Class act. Thanks and good luck!
Thank someone for 2 VIP days
I opened the message box. There were two messages from "clients” asking about services being offered by two different women.
DO NOT ANSWER SUCH INQUIRIES.
They might be coming from client, a husband-parent-etc, or a pimp. (I’ve not heard of LE using such a method.)
A client might be probing to see if the advertised services can be pushed (it is not right for me to give leverage).
A pimp might be trying to find out if someone who is working for him/her is side dealing. (My answer could be very dangerous to the woman.)
A husband, parent, sibling, friend could be using me to get intel on a provider’s behavior. Providing this information could be endanger the provider.
Stay out or this. Do not be collegial with clients with PMs.
I'm a bit confused with what your message is supposed to be. A person would only be a client to a provider but a fellow hobbyist or monger to other members. Are you talking to mongers or providers?
Still, if you're trying to tell us not to pm each other with questions to others about how their sessions went....well, that's a real stretch. I would say that's a bridge to far and I'll state that I get far more requests for info than seeking out info from others. It could easily be argued that its the primary reason for having a PM feature on this site. What is next, telling us to not read the reviews because they might not be completely accurate or perhaps contain personal information on how the women really look or perform?
I'll add this though, pm's from people who contribute nothing get zero response. PM's from predators usually get a "fuck off". PM's from providers are very welcome and are always responded to with the respect and civility in which they've been rec'd.
You should always be careful what info you share and with who but there is a world of difference between sharing info with someone with little to no history on TER vs someone who has a significant history of reviews and/or posts.
Pretty ridiculous to question someone doing reviews or participating on the boards for a decade to be confused with it being someone's husband, sibling or pimp lol trying to get info about a dude's "date" lol. That's as laughable as a pro saying the need a client's PII in case he has a heart attack. Talk about looking for things that just aren't there.
it was a clean appearing midscale provider with an agency.
The HPV vaccine came out in 2006. Most people need to be vaccinated before they are 13 for it to be beneficial. That means born after 1993 which is utterly irrelevant to me.
The HPV vaccine offers NO protection against gonorrhea.
I have been struck on this board by the many people who are pretending STDs of all sorts are not a risk. The scoring system even awards points for BBBJ.
Respectfully, you say “after 35 years and much more than 500 encounters” you shouldn’t be surprised to catch a a common STD. You probably caught much more but have no idea.
I think people in their 40’s or even 50’s can still benefit from the HPV vaccine but I may be wrong.
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My one case of symptomatic gonorrhea in 35 years shows the value of safe sex and perhaps prudent selection of mid to high end, independent providers who have a personal reputation to protect for a long term career.
Asymptomatic GC is quite common in women but is rare in men although some have minimal symptoms (see link)
My HIV and Syphilis and Hep B tests are negative. I got Hep A from a non-sexual encounter.
There is little value for HPV vaccination after 26 and no value for after 45 (see ACIP guidelines).
As to Snafu’s concern that I will be ostracized for not gossiping on the backchannel about providers, I have not had a problem. My reviews, shills, and posts must have made me an adequate contributor and easy to verify. Thank you for your concern anyway.
....try and tell members what they can or cannot do thru PM. As long as it stays within the guidelines, your opinion is worth nothing. Why you think you would be judged for not using it...not sure where that one came from. Are you Joe Biden?
You say “the value of safe sex and perhaps prudent selection of mid to high end, independent providers who have a personal reputation to protect for a long term career.” What does that mean? Most all mid to high end providers offer BBBJ which seems risky for a hobbyist such as yourself.
Have you applied for social security benefits yet?
Do you get to keep health insurance after retirement
What advise do you have for john-rats and back-talker who go behind and try to make deals with schedulers and providers or spill secrects or do internet spyware?
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