Long time lurker and still have not taken the plunge but I do have a bucket list!

I remember her having reviews in the past, cannot find them, but I still see the posts on BP.

Any info on her? Worth a shot?

Trying to figure out who is going to pop my cherry in the hobby.

I think she did have reviews but they were nothing special and the pics were old.

Damn!!!
Thats sad, she looks so HOT!
My first 3 picks (#3 was 3 weeks ago, I'm new as well) looked great in the picture but got there and Damn butt ugly and fat!!!  But I stayed

Thanks guys. I had a feeling that it would not be a good experience since the reviews disappeared.

Why would you stay when what you think you are going to walk into is not what was advertised? I'd walk out. Business is business. Then again Im a noob so not like I can speak from experience. College errors in judgement don't count!

So cross one of the list. Trying to think what or who to call for a few days I am going to be in a hotel in Plymouth. Need bang for the buck. Option a,b or c. Hmm.

More importantly - why do guys always fall for the (sometimes obviously) false pics.

Easy answer - guys fall for them, and many don't even seem to mind.

Recently, there seems to be a high incidence of reports that, upon arrival, the provider was, in some fashion, not as expected.  In almost every case, the hobbyist reports that he stayed and, in most cases, was very disappointed with the encounter.

There is a "moment of truth" when the little head takes over and won't be denied!  I'm not being critical.  I did the same thing just yesterday.  As I drove away after, I thought of how I would have been better to pay the woman, and just leave with nothing, rather than endure such an unpleasant session!

On the whole, providers have no reason not to misrepresent themselves Syracuse there is no real penalty.  Next time, I am going to put $20 in my pocket to pay a "cancellation fee" and see if I am capable of handing over the $20 and walking away.  I know my chances are no better than 50/50!

If you saw a picture of a nice-looking car in an ad then got there and it was a piece of crap, would you buy it anyway?

Each person has their own tastes, but for someone to put up pix that are of someone else or from better days several years ago is false advertising and it is wrong.

If it makes you feel better, print out their ad and bring it along. When they come to the door and look completely different, pull out the pix and look at them and tell them you must have the wrong place and walk out the door.

If you want reliable choices, get the VIP membership, look at the reviews and choose based on them. If a provider gets good reviews on a regular basis there is a high percentage chance you will have success with them.

If you are visiting unproven entities because of low prices, just look at what you have spent so far on "damn butt ugly and fat". It is likely you could have visited hot, reputable providers a couple times for what you paid out for the other 3.

I'll always remember the hot times I paid a little more for. I have little recollection of the low-cost experiences, for the most part.

Recently, there seems to be a high incidence of reports that, upon arrival, the provider was, in some fashion, not as expected.  In almost every case, the hobbyist reports that he stayed and, in most cases, was very disappointed with the encounter.

There is a "moment of truth" when the little head takes over and won't be denied!  I'm not being critical.  I did the same thing just yesterday.  As I drove away after, I thought of how I would have been better to pay the woman, and just leave with nothing, rather than endure such an unpleasant session!

On the whole, providers have no reason not to misrepresent themselves because there is no real penalty.  Next time, I am going to put $20 in my pocket to pay a "cancellation fee" and see if I am capable of handing over the $20 and walking away.  I know my chances are no better than 50/50!

I certainly never feel obligated to pay a cancellation fee if there was anything remotely deceptive in her ad.  Have had quite a number tell me I owe them a cancellation fee in that situation as well so its important to make a quick assessment before the door closes behind you so you can get away without any hassle.  But even then, if its a hotel the provider is not going to make a scene.  Have even had them threaten to call the cops which is pretty hilarious.  The last time that happened, I said "here, let me do that for you".  She said, what are you going to tell them.  I said "I came here for a massage and you propositioned me for sex which is illegal".  It shut her up.

three time when a provider misrepresented herself by age or appearance. One time, I walked out when a provider said she was GFE but upon arrival that changed. I offered to split the cost of the hotel with her, left one-half and departed, much to her surprise. It wasn't just that she wasn't GFE, she had so many rules that a good time seemed impossible. I have also stayed too many times and none of them were good. I wrote reviews on a few that deceived me. Even though I've walked out a few times I still feel like I've lost more $ than I saved by staying. It's tough to make that decision in the moment and it isn't always thinking with the little head. It is very hard to say to someone, you are not what you advertise and many are very nice and accommodating. I usually preset my mind that if I encounter this kind of situation that I need to be very nice and respectful but take action to leave immediately. Many providers see no problem with very old pics or a pic that does not represent them- it's just business and they need to make money in someway. It's a catch-22, but I do feel like if I walk out in a respectful manner that I make my point. I write lots of reviews and I read lots of reviews in prep and if the lady has none I do every search option possible to get some info. I have been rewarded and I have had ladies slip through the cracks of my efforts to weed out the bad ones. It's not just age and looks, its about honesty. I've seen ladies in their 50's (one in her 60"s) and very overweight women by choice and thoroughly enjoyed myself as much as the hot and sexy 20 something. The only way we can express out disapproval is to walk out. Decide ahead of time, you will not regret it. You will feel better about yourself as you drive away.

why providers post fake pictures.  I think they don't realize they may be attracting a clientele that will be disappointed and possibly turning away a client base that would want them as they are.  Imagine if Belinda posted pictures of some skinny model in her advertisements.  A lot of PO'd men would talk smack about her and the legion of men who love her as a high performance BBW would not now be her slave boys.  (I doubt she's peeled a grape herself in years).

It's the whole little head/big head thing and I have stayed far too many times.  Only once can I recall that I was happy I stayed.  She was cute and hot body just like the one in the ad and gave a very nice session.  Once, though.  That's all.  Several times when the lady was cute and perhaps had a hot body the initial deception rolled over into the session and I left disappointed.
When I leave I drive the point home to both heads that I still have 3 benjis in my pocket that would not be there an hour from now after a session that most likely will be disappointing.  I've done it enough times to convince the little head that it most likely will be disappointing.  Just like why I don't play the lottery.  There's a chance it will be good, but it's unlikely to be good.
Keep your visits to hotels.  This allows you to leave easily without problems.  Although there is always a possibility, it's never happened to me in many years.  The worst I had was a lady, who was 40 lbs more than the thin model on her ad and somewhat homely, screamed at me, "I'm not fat" as I walked away and she slammed the door so the whole hotel could hear.  Not a problem as it was a bit seedy of a hotel anyway.  The funny thing is that I never told her she was fat.  I just said, "I'm sorry, I must be at the wrong room.  I was looking for someone else."
If we still see them, it just rewards them for deceptive behavior.  It's our money.

I just wish they would acknowledge it when asked if they are their own and recent photos.  A number of ladies have explained to me that they use "sample" photos which they think provide the proper image of their build because they have tattoos or other features which might allow them to be identified by friends and family.  There is also a concern about being recognized by hotel staff when checking in.  

I really don't have a problem with it if reality matches the ad.  But when they do use a face pic in the ad and its obviously someone else, that is a true bait and switch.  The other big issue is old photos where aging and weight gain or loss have created unrealistic expectations.

What really puzzles me is when a guy who who has a review history on TER sees and then reviews a girl whose review history clearly shows she uses fake or misleading pictures.  Even worse, sometimes that guys review says he knew the pics weren't accurate.  What is up with that; did they think she was going to transform into the girl in the pic when they saw her?

nicely said.

I saw her last summer.  Her pics were her.  She asked not to be reviewed.