Over the last couple weeks, I've noticed a bunch of posts on wives (ex and current).
Some posts knock past wives. Why bother? What is done is done. No one on this board cares. It just seems pathetic.
Some talk about how unhappy their marriage is. Again, why bother. If you are in an unhappy marriage, deal with it. This board is not for therapy. None of us care.
Some blame their wife for bad or non existent sex. No one cares. The fact such posters can't deal with it inside their marriage is their problem, not ours. Bringing your dirty laundry here does not win you any admiration points from hobbyists or providers.
Some wonder about how to hide their hobbying from spouses. How do I hide the manscaping, the costs, the phone records, web use, email accounts? I suppose such tactics belong here but they can be discussed without running down a spouse who has no chance to rebut how they are described. Man up.
For the record, I am married. It is sexless (medical). She knows I hobby but she does not want the particulars. She sees that the costs do not affect my ability to support our family or kids. She knows I manscape. Our marriage is good. There is no reason for any of you to care but we are honest with eachother.
Providers often ask hobbyists if they are married and they can sometimes tell. None of them are impressed with guys who cheat on and then diss their wives. Many of them have been there. Respect for women goes in all directions. I would guess that it is a major reason why hobbyists' mileage varies. Although, that is for them to say.
Umm, first off, your statements are a contradiction.
You say, you don't care about their wives and so on. Yet further down in this post, you write of how you are married, and further state of how you justify your involvement in the hobby.
It is quite easy for me to reply to you, Who gives a fuck why your wife cannot fuck you, and she knows you cheat, yet according to you,it is a good marriage. But MAYBE in her mind, You are nothing but a Cheating man whore.
Rather than you deal with your guilt, you use her inability as an excuse, and then reason, that it is OK for you to cheat. What about your wedding vows ?
Why don't you deal with your issues, instead of preaching to the chorus.
Sorry, in many respects, what you state about others is true, and I agree, but who am I, or
who are you, to tell others to STFU.
You deal with your issues in the way you see fit, and let others deal with their issues as they see fit, and stop judging others, least you are judged in return, by those of whom you judge.
Oh by the way, I am not married, but was, but I dealt with the issue, I divorced her, and I can now fuck whomever I want, whenever I want, and my
ex has no issue with me doing so. We are over each other, and the only bond that we share, are
the beautiful children who were born into the mess that was a marriage, And I terminated that marriage, for myself, my children, and my Ex.
Practice what you preach Mr slinkydog
Wow! I am impressed! Thank you Sir!
I was once married. I am now divorced. Was it her fault? Maybe. Was it my fault? Maybe. Were there qualities in her that I found admirable and made me want to marry her? Yes!
Despite whatever may have happened between us she was still wonderful enough that I decided to take the risk and see if it could work.
I tell co-workers today that the smartest decision she ever made was to move on.
Maybe some of these unforgiving, blameless, misanthropes, need to do some self evaluation.
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because this is a cathartic way to vent. Someone who has been or is currently married probably
carries deep regrets about the long years, the toll marriage takes, and why they now hobby.
For me, never pulled the trigger but understand marriage sucks for a lot of men. Therefore, go
ahead and vent, its healthy. If you don't care to read then don't, but keep your restrictions to
yourself. Nuff said!
Past, Present, Future.. Okay we get it.. you had the most expensive p4p imaginable. Now can we get to the ones who are negotiating the prices upfront?
What are you the new self righteous, arrogant, self appointed Board Police.
it's hard to know who is in first place in the race to be COBP..Im putting my money on Leann, but this alias has potential. He's still a COBP wannabe. lol
has a real potty mouth. I wonder if she was in the navy
I care about here is the one who has posted 2 reviews I think about her visits to 2 providers with her husband.
Variety is the spice of life as they say
First, some of us really do care.
Secondly, seeing a provider is not the same as having an affair. I don't really see it as "cheating" in that there is no love relationship. Having a relationship with a certain level of friendship mixed in with a provider
is not the same as having an emotional involvement with the neighbors wife, the hottie at the gym, or the secretary.
Well put Belinda seeing a provider and having a love affair are too different animals. I also have not seen myself many posts about wives here anyway, maybe I am missing something. This is also a discussion board that is about the hobby and I think the gentleman have the right to talk about what may be pertinent to them, but both provider and hobbyists have the right to post . I'm glad for you Slinky that you have the perfect situation concerning your hobbying, but see no reason to berate others for talking about theirs, just don't read those posts if you feel they are not worth while pertaining to your own situation and live and let live . JMHO
Secondly, seeing a provider is not the same as having an affair. I don't really see it as "cheating" in that there is no love relationship. Having a relationship with a certain level of friendship mixed in with a provider
is not the same as having an emotional involvement with the neighbors wife, the hottie at the gym, or the secretary.
For they require our attention too!
And lets face it, without many of our wives we would lack the maturity to function in this hobby. They are/were/will be our glue and without that glue I am just glitter not a kickass design. And glitter without glue is just confetti, to blow around without anything to keep me stable
...dissing or complaining about their current or ex spouses or highlighting the differences between men and women. It's fun and it's funny for both sexes to dis ex relationships. For me, I find enjoyment in the fact that I can flaunt that I can have sex with who I want, when I want and where I want without having to meet someone's unreasonable expectations of having to jump thru certain undefined hoops be worthy of receiving the privileges of the enjoyment of her Holy Pussy. It is very cathartic, I agree. Let's keep it up.
Regardless, it was fun reading the replies to your idiotic post and watch your a** get handed back to you.
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don't think that one is breadmaker... has a new handle, true, but a diff one. Unless he made more than one new handle.
Also, his MO is a little different, I think.
He could have several handles.... but it is my guess this person is someone different
Just to end the board gossip before it takes off, BM closed his account. Jeesh!
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he secret hobbyist/hooker handshake that he promised you personally he wouldn't re-create himself.
Whether this is him or not- how the heck do you know and you can guarantee it?
Oh, I forgot, you are the Chief of the Board Police-
All bow down and worship the chief. :-
the other boys at the clubhouse were thinking exactly the same thing. Telling us how to hobby and how to live in the world accruing to the guy making bread.
it is just another alias for the BM man. VIP? doubt it.
any takers on that bet?
I love it when his extremely unattractive bodyguard sends out nasty PM's
The asshat can't even defend himself.
have a great hobby day
Feel free to skip threads and posts that are of no interest to you. Beyond that, a lot of guys who are on here have wives and they have reasons for why they see escorts. So it's practically inevitable it is going to come up now and then.
I would dare ask a hobbyist if he's married or bother him unsolicited is if he either stole my panties or mistakenly put my socks on ( I sometimes wear men's socks BFD don't judge me, it's winter !) Also, if you're bold enough to do that then you're dumb enough to get "caught" by the S.O. I'm all about discretion. Otherwise I don't care to know .
All the same for you guys.
You should not care what I'm doing in my personal life because if it doesn't affect you directly, its not your privilege to know.
I've got a few good years before I have to resort to that however... (Age 50 is the cutoff age for being able to legally marry a young girl in Cambodia). But with an emerging economy and endless cute young things roaming the countryside looking for a foreign husband, this will be my exit strategy for retirement once I can no longer produce a level of income that accommodated my needs here on the home-soil...
Some posts knock past wives. Why bother? What is done is done. No one on this board cares. It just seems pathetic.
Some talk about how unhappy their marriage is. Again, why bother. If you are in an unhappy marriage, deal with it. This board is not for therapy. None of us care.
Some blame their wife for bad or non existent sex. No one cares. The fact such posters can't deal with it inside their marriage is their problem, not ours. Bringing your dirty laundry here does not win you any admiration points from hobbyists or providers.
Some wonder about how to hide their hobbying from spouses. How do I hide the manscaping, the costs, the phone records, web use, email accounts? I suppose such tactics belong here but they can be discussed without running down a spouse who has no chance to rebut how they are described. Man up.
For the record, I am married. It is sexless (medical). She knows I hobby but she does not want the particulars. She sees that the costs do not affect my ability to support our family or kids. She knows I manscape. Our marriage is good. There is no reason for any of you to care but we are honest with eachother.
Providers often ask hobbyists if they are married and they can sometimes tell. None of them are impressed with guys who cheat on and then diss their wives. Many of them have been there. Respect for women goes in all directions. I would guess that it is a major reason why hobbyists' mileage varies. Although, that is for them to say.