http://jezebel.com/5987769/your-constant-masturbation-is-ruining-your-relationship

A masturbation researcher named "BEATificato"?  C'mon...

I wouldn't say that I would choose masturbation over sex, but...  For me, like many men AND women, managing testosterone and libido throughout the course of a day is a daily challenge.  I actually know more women than men that say they feel happier and more balanced when they have a few releases spread out over the course of pretty much every single day.  I know two providers who have said that their appetite far exceeded their spouses, and their subsequent reliance on frequent masturbation really hurt their husbands, and contributed to the end of their marriages.

to expect two people to not only want to spend their lives together but to have EXACTLY the same sexual appetite.  I mean, get real.  This, of course, coming from me with my two failed marriages.  

Me coming from one,  My slappin the clam totally ruined the marriage.  IMO
It's much easier to relate to oneself than another person .

"Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone you love."

Another Quote:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ah7VxQHs-gI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UaEC-lWSlmI

Woody Allen also said his shrink asked him if he thought sex was dirty and he replied "It is if your doing it right"   My sentiment exactly!

... "I remember the very first time I ever had sex, I was so afraid, I was alone!"

I thought about this thread a bit today and here's my thought...

People have very different views about what sex "means" and the role it plays in their own life, and in relationships.

For some, sex is very, very tightly wound up in that.  Hence, if you are masturbating, then it must mean you are not happy with what you are getting from your partner, and that leads to all kinds of hurt and resentment in some people.

For me...  I am different.  It can be more compartmentalized for me...  sometimes sex is about affection, skin contact, and spiritual replenishment.  I love that kind of sex.  Sometimes it is about relationship, bonding.  Love that too.  There can be D/s aspects where sex brings out primal feelings about gender, dominance, submission...  Love that too.  The best sex blends nuances of all those things.

But often, I just need to cum.  I don't need sex, I don't need courtin', romance, mutuality, affection, the satisfaction of pleasing my partner...  I often want or need those things.  But often, quite often, I just need to cum, without all the trappings of sex, romance, partnership...  I just need the catharsis of sexual release...  And those times, it means doing it myself, or, if I am insanely lucky, having a partner who understands there are many aspects to sex and she says "I know you're not in the mood for anything more right now, I understand completely, so let me just get you off."

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It's like playing bridge. If you don't have a partner you have to have a hand

Lol you'd think that but no. guys just can't handle an insatiable appetite.