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How much is too much?
jchan113 4 Reviews 1683 reads
posted
1 / 29

My GF just told me that she wants (needs) to have sex 5-7 times a week. Since this amount used to take almost a year to accomplish with my wife, is this (5-7) excessive? I have no reference. This is a serious question.

masonseth69 3 Reviews 985 reads
posted
2 / 29

Well, since I got into the hobby almost a year ago, my sex-drive has kicked into over-drive and is now completely out of control.  If I had a GF that wanted it 5-7 times I week I'd give it to her at least that much if not more.

OldTimerB 45 Reviews 926 reads
posted
3 / 29

See if you can keep up with her...if not, she's disappointed and moving on.

Posted By: jchan113
My GF just told me that she wants (needs) to have sex 5-7 times a week. Since this amount used to take almost a year to accomplish with my wife, is this (5-7) excessive? I have no reference. This is a serious question.

OldTimerB 45 Reviews 958 reads
posted
4 / 29

Wait until you been hobbying 5, 10, 20, 30 years...or more lol.

Or you could put your money under your mattress for your golden years..if you make it that long...and can still get it up...with super future Viagra or whatever at that time!
Posted By: masonseth69
Well, since I got into the hobby almost a year ago, my sex-drive has kicked into over-drive and is now completely out of control.  If I had a GF that wanted it 5-7 times I week I'd give it to her at least that much if not more.

jgoodman222 14 Reviews 855 reads
posted
5 / 29

I don't know if that is excessive or not, but I am willing to find out for you.   What's her phone number?

gentofthemidwest 12 Reviews 860 reads
posted
6 / 29

Sounds like she is starting to look a lot like your next wife !

jonstar2 8 Reviews 1018 reads
posted
7 / 29

What do you plan to do the other 5 days of the week?

bzb 16 Reviews 841 reads
posted
8 / 29

Give it a go and see if she walks the walk, or is just talking the talk.

I'm married and to be honest, I'd be pretty happy at a rate of 5 - 7 times a year.  That's like once every 2 months, which is approximately once every 2 months more than the current rate!!!!!

romanlover82 9 Reviews 814 reads
posted
9 / 29

I'd strike while the iron is hot! Once, maybe twice a week is the norm from my circle.  My bank account would be much happier with free action 5-7 times/week.

jchan113 4 Reviews 992 reads
posted
10 / 29

She has made it very clear that less than that will not work for her. She loves me and hopes I understand that she will satisfy her needs and mine, if necessary. She never will refuse me any request and that is a promise. I just have to be willing to do it whenever and where ever she wants. Despite being an awful hypocrite recently, I prefer a monogamous relationship. She assures me I will never be turned down, but there will be times I cannot do it and she wants to phone a friend on her own.  

This sort of dream come true may be a nightmare shortly.

mattman05 10 Reviews 886 reads
posted
11 / 29

1) I would give up the hobby and save the money. Honestly.  
2) I would give it my best shot, roll the dice and see what happens.  
3) is she bi? Would her "friend(s) be M or F?
Interesting situation.

sirbucky 31 Reviews 1136 reads
posted
12 / 29
OldTimerB 45 Reviews 818 reads
posted
13 / 29

That might be time to pop one of those colored pills when you can't keep up. Happens to most everyone eventually!

Posted By: jchan113
She has made it very clear that less than that will not work for her. She loves me and hopes I understand that she will satisfy her needs and mine, if necessary. She never will refuse me any request and that is a promise. I just have to be willing to do it whenever and where ever she wants. Despite being an awful hypocrite recently, I prefer a monogamous relationship. She assures me I will never be turned down, but there will be times I cannot do it and she wants to phone a friend on her own.  
   
 This sort of dream come true may be a nightmare shortly.

Drumsticks 90 Reviews 751 reads
posted
14 / 29

Wow! It reminds me of a high school girlfriend who was insatiable and would want to do it 3 to 5 times per session. Love it and live it while you can. One of you will burn out or tire of it eventually. It must suck to be you!  ;)

belindabell See my TER Reviews 812 reads
posted
15 / 29

I think most people want to be as intimate as possible as often as possible when they are in a new relationship.  Or, maybe she senses you are seeing other ladies (i.e. providers)?   Jealousy or an attempt to "keep you" could be driving this need.     Have you been paying her extra attention and making her feel extra special?  Maybe she just likes sex and being sexual?

vorlon 119 Reviews 840 reads
posted
16 / 29

Are you OK with her seeing someone else at those times when you aren't up to it?

jchan113 4 Reviews 785 reads
posted
17 / 29

Yes, it is new hence the confusion on my part and the statement on hers. She is unaware of my hobbying which has stopped since I met her. She is that sexual. She wants me and knows I won't stay if I am not her only one. I truly want a GF not just fuck buddy.  

Thanks all for your input.

BrunoBraun 679 reads
posted
18 / 29

visit all 57 states.

looking64 24 Reviews 837 reads
posted
19 / 29

amount of sex.  Seems to me you're already fucked.

TalonTed 92 Reviews 824 reads
posted
20 / 29

PM me her number.  I think your just making this up, why are you even on TER if this is the case.

Posted By: jchan113
My GF just told me that she wants (needs) to have sex 5-7 times a week. Since this amount used to take almost a year to accomplish with my wife, is this (5-7) excessive? I have no reference. This is a serious question.
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looking64 24 Reviews 829 reads
posted
21 / 29
belindabell See my TER Reviews 723 reads
posted
22 / 29

She can't get enough of you because she is in love!!!   That is so sweet!!!   Congrats!!!

MsChayse 820 reads
posted
23 / 29

This is quite common in the "honeymoon" stage of a relationship. Over time once she is settled in to the relationship your sex life together will quiet down as you discover other things in common to enjoy together. That's not a bad thing BTW. Just be prepared for that.  

Congratulations though! As we get older those 1st love experiences get rarer. That could be a good thing too as the heartbreak when the relationship came to an end as I recall was just as powerful. Ouch! Lol!

thehills 723 reads
posted
24 / 29

Posted By: jchan113
My GF just told me that she wants (needs) to have sex 5-7 times a week. Since this amount used to take almost a year to accomplish with my wife, is this (5-7) excessive? I have no reference. This is a serious question.

handytohave60 1 Reviews 687 reads
posted
25 / 29

Everything will change when she gets tired of washing the sheets all of the time!

jchan113 4 Reviews 817 reads
posted
26 / 29

She is not a provider. Do you think all women are for sale?
I am on TER because this is the closest I can come to a group of experts. This is a community based upon sex.

TalonTed 92 Reviews 757 reads
posted
27 / 29

Quit making shit up and ask real question if you want real answer.

Posted By: jchan113
She is not a provider. Do you think all women are for sale?  
 I am on TER because this is the closest I can come to a group of experts. This is a community based upon sex.

LadyAstrid See my TER Reviews 839 reads
posted
28 / 29

And this phase is approximately 6 really great months!

Peace,

Astri

OmegaZap 7 Reviews 770 reads
posted
29 / 29

Honestly, I think it is an unfair over-generalization that all women only want a lot of sex at first and then it tapers off.  Yes, this is "most often" the case.  But over the course of my life I have known a number of women who were deeply sexual, intensely libidinous, and had an honest, sincere desire to live very sexual lives.  There really are women out there who feel happier, more balanced, and "more whole" if there are sexual elements baked into pretty much every day, and often more than once over the course of a day

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