My GF just told me that she wants (needs) to have sex 5-7 times a week. Since this amount used to take almost a year to accomplish with my wife, is this (5-7) excessive? I have no reference. This is a serious question.
Well, since I got into the hobby almost a year ago, my sex-drive has kicked into over-drive and is now completely out of control. If I had a GF that wanted it 5-7 times I week I'd give it to her at least that much if not more.
Wait until you been hobbying 5, 10, 20, 30 years...or more lol.
Or you could put your money under your mattress for your golden years..if you make it that long...and can still get it up...with super future Viagra or whatever at that time!
See if you can keep up with her...if not, she's disappointed and moving on.
Sounds like she is starting to look a lot like your next wife !
I don't know if that is excessive or not, but I am willing to find out for you. What's her phone number?
What do you plan to do the other 5 days of the week?
Give it a go and see if she walks the walk, or is just talking the talk.
I'm married and to be honest, I'd be pretty happy at a rate of 5 - 7 times a year. That's like once every 2 months, which is approximately once every 2 months more than the current rate!!!!!
I'd strike while the iron is hot! Once, maybe twice a week is the norm from my circle. My bank account would be much happier with free action 5-7 times/week.
She has made it very clear that less than that will not work for her. She loves me and hopes I understand that she will satisfy her needs and mine, if necessary. She never will refuse me any request and that is a promise. I just have to be willing to do it whenever and where ever she wants. Despite being an awful hypocrite recently, I prefer a monogamous relationship. She assures me I will never be turned down, but there will be times I cannot do it and she wants to phone a friend on her own.
This sort of dream come true may be a nightmare shortly.
That might be time to pop one of those colored pills when you can't keep up. Happens to most everyone eventually!
Are you OK with her seeing someone else at those times when you aren't up to it?
1) I would give up the hobby and save the money. Honestly.
2) I would give it my best shot, roll the dice and see what happens.
3) is she bi? Would her "friend(s) be M or F?
Interesting situation.
Wow! It reminds me of a high school girlfriend who was insatiable and would want to do it 3 to 5 times per session. Love it and live it while you can. One of you will burn out or tire of it eventually. It must suck to be you! 
I think most people want to be as intimate as possible as often as possible when they are in a new relationship. Or, maybe she senses you are seeing other ladies (i.e. providers)? Jealousy or an attempt to "keep you" could be driving this need. Have you been paying her extra attention and making her feel extra special? Maybe she just likes sex and being sexual?
Yes, it is new hence the confusion on my part and the statement on hers. She is unaware of my hobbying which has stopped since I met her. She is that sexual. She wants me and knows I won't stay if I am not her only one. I truly want a GF not just fuck buddy.
Thanks all for your input.
She can't get enough of you because she is in love!!! That is so sweet!!! Congrats!!!
Everything will change when she gets tired of washing the sheets all of the time!
And this phase is approximately 6 really great months!
Peace,
Astri
Honestly, I think it is an unfair over-generalization that all women only want a lot of sex at first and then it tapers off. Yes, this is "most often" the case. But over the course of my life I have known a number of women who were deeply sexual, intensely libidinous, and had an honest, sincere desire to live very sexual lives. There really are women out there who feel happier, more balanced, and "more whole" if there are sexual elements baked into pretty much every day, and often more than once over the course of a day
amount of sex. Seems to me you're already fucked.
PM me her number. I think your just making this up, why are you even on TER if this is the case.
I call bullshit also.
This is quite common in the "honeymoon" stage of a relationship. Over time once she is settled in to the relationship your sex life together will quiet down as you discover other things in common to enjoy together. That's not a bad thing BTW. Just be prepared for that.
Congratulations though! As we get older those 1st love experiences get rarer. That could be a good thing too as the heartbreak when the relationship came to an end as I recall was just as powerful. Ouch! Lol!
She is not a provider. Do you think all women are for sale?
I am on TER because this is the closest I can come to a group of experts. This is a community based upon sex.
Quit making shit up and ask real question if you want real answer.
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