Hey All

Been wanting to see her FOREVER but have had zero luck in reaching her.  she has reviews from last month but having trouble getting to her.  would love some advice

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=160049

There are any number of possible explanations for this, including that she is simply taking a break.  It's not clear how much effort you have put into trying to reach her but at a certain point, providers may get nervous if someone is overzealous in trying to reach them.  Move on to someone else and perhaps try her again later if it looks like she is active again.

Providers, old and new, get asked about all the time.  But, for some reason, you have decided to be board police/white knight and protector.  The guy just asked a question that gets asked all the time. And, you get all in a huff as if it is wrong for someone to ask for information.  There is no need for you to be mean or accusatory.

If you have knowledge that she has gone UTR, then why not just pass along that information.  It is easier to be helpful than it is to be an asshole.

I used to see her about once a month and she has not responded to my messages lately. Perhaps she has retired, who knows? She has done this before in the past. Does not matter, I found a new ATF in Casey anyway.

So what you are saying is.....that there are at least six people on this board who like Assholes?

Funny. I was just about to give her a call.  Looked for the ad and noticed nothing since November.  Hopped on here and saw this thread.  All my favorites disappear sooner or later:  Christine, Talia, Ally, now Tiffany/Andrea.  I need to find someone new.

I thought this was a board to discuss providers and share information, respect THAT!

Feel like sharing any info on Casey, hot blueyes99?  Can't find anything on her.

Your post leads me to conclude you don't think anyone should ever post a 411 request on a provider who has not been seen lately.  I completely disagree with that.  As has been pointed out, this is a discussion board and so long as the information posted does not breach her privacy such posts are perfectly legitimate topics IMHO.

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Hey, Derpydoo. Sent you a PM. Let me know if you don't get them.

And I am certainly not advocating giving out info on how to contact providers who have gone UTR.  Those she wants to keep in touch with already know.  The OP asked for advice, which he was given.  No information compromising her privacy was posted here.  If it had, that would and should have been criticized.  I believe these kinds of requests call for a measured response based on the specifics of the situation; there is no one size fits all" answer.

Those who would criticize any and all posts seeking info about a provider’s status or recent whereabouts, are not thinking with their big head.

Complaints about such requests seems to be based on the assumption, among others, that any provider being asked about is UTR and so doesn’t want to be found or “tracked”.  But such an assumption is, to put it mildly, problematic.

While I am sympathetic to the idea that trying to “track” a provider who wishes to be UTR is bad form/inappropriate, questions about a provider are very often asked in order to find out whether a provider is or is not UTR.  Until one knows that a provider has decided to go UTR, requests for info about providers seem perfectly reasonable and should not be subjected to criticism.

As for the idea that we don’t know whether the request for info on a provider has come from “a parole officer, pissed off husband or pimp”, I’m sorry, but that’s just lame.  I am sure I speak for many in saying that I don’t know that Breadmaker hasn’t kidnapped any number of providers and those he hasn’t murdered, he has chained to his basement wall, using them as his sex slaves, and that’s why he criticizes requests for info about providers who have not been answering their phones.  

But surely my ignorance provides me no more justification to question Breadmaker’s motives for posting than his ignorance about those who post provider queries on TER, provides him for questioning their motives.  

The truth, I think, is that a TER inquiry about a provider (and the answers thereto) is, or should be, the least of a provider’s worries.  Parole officers, pissed off hubbies and pimps are surely equipped with more effective ways of finding those they seek, than being reduced to using a TER post.

We can also remind ourselves that answers to TER queries about providers need not be truthful or accurate, nor do they seem to offer any info that a provider who feels threatened by a pimp, angry hubby or parole officer, is incapable of handling.  

I don’t see how inaccurate info about a provider endangers her – on the contrary.  Also, to assume that answers like, “Yes, I have seen her recently”, or “She left town”, or “She’s UTR and wants to stay that way”, or even the unlikely, “She has a new number and it is . . . “, are somehow upping the danger level of being a provider, is not well thought out.  

We have no "evidence" she has gone UTR. BUT- "Those SHE WANTS TO keep in touch with already know"

Really think you need or deserve "evidence"? Wouldn't one in the know...already know? Think about it.

I don't defend BM's drama however.

That's not my point.  I don't need evidence one way or the other.  Every time an escort stops advertising doesn't mean she gone UTR; in fact it seems more likely that she is simply taking a break than that she has gone UTR.  And if she has gone UTR then so long as those are "in the know" don't post anything inappropriate then there is no problem.

Looks like Andrea's ad on BP has been renewed. So perhaps she is back at it?