What attracted you into the hobby or how where you introduced to it?? Ladies can answer to if they want just curious and a different topic besides all the drama I see on here . Happy Friday ya'll

Discovering the existence of review and discussion sites like TER and verification services like p411 allowed me to learn the ropes and engage in the activity with relatively little risk of ending up in the county jail.

Obviously nature provided the impulse to seek variety.  Limits are now funding and schedule rather than limited supply or risk avoidance

Was going through a health scare that perplexed some dr.  Decided I'd like to meet some beautiful ladies who wouldn't give me the time of day in real life before I check out..  Long story short found a good dr, major surgery and tumor free. I still like to see a beautiful lady every now and again.

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You remain healthy.

Just intresting to know every guy just like us provider got introduced differently myself I  started in a massage parlor ended up being the manager for 3 years and after she was investigated by the labor board for how we where paid i ventured off on my own liked it better

My first hobby experience was at a Legal brothel in Nevada called the Cherry Patch 2 in 1991. The memory of watching 20 beautiful ladies line up for my choosing is still one of my favorites! I had a great time there but it nothing compared to the experiences i have had through TER here. You ladies here in Minnesota are absolutely phenomenal

I was really horny and a virgin and I decided to go to a massage parlor. Once I started going I figured it was a good way to see different ladies and know I was going to have a good time. I just happened to come across my best friends ex girlfriend at an establishment and I always wanted to have sex with her and now I had the chance. I saw her on a regular basis for a few years until she quit the business. I go now days because I like the younger ladies and at my age I wouldn't ever be able to see them if it wasn't paying for it.

I was having trouble finding women who wanted an affair with me, and then some Canadian politician got busted in a local sting.  I read some reviews of the ad site, and decided that since the stings were part of a national effort, the cops would be tied up with the courts, the pimps would be in hiding, and the only ones daring to show their faces would be the independent women who were doing it of their own free will.  After a couple failed phone calls, I finally got a hookup, and promptly met my ATF.  Later I googled her number, just out of curiosity, to see what would come up...and discovered TER.

Love capitalism  and that entrepreneurial  spirit!!  Good luck!!!

I was in a monogamous relationship and I was away from home for work most weeks. I started on Craigslist, then RedBook and finally TER. The more I learned the interested I became. I really didn't want to have an affair, I just wanted to have sex.

The hobby becomes a lifestyle after a while. We all take breaks from time to time, but most of us come back. It is just too fun.

Now I'm on SA and having even more fun.

Jettisoned her ass.  But to be fair....  if you are in another relationship or plan to be... keep in mind that you play in the hobby.  It's tough....  as guys we play in the hobby but most wouldn't be keen if our significant other did.  Hope the hobby helps (helped) you....

I was a horny 20 something with way to much extra fundage in the bank.  That was back in the day when the economy worked for Gen X.  I was living on the east coast, no attachments and looked at the classifieds on a weekly newspaper.  Back in the day when the hobby worked best.  I called up, spoke to a male scheduler and he described who was available.  I chose and guess what...the lady that showed up was just as described.  She and I got nakey and she rubbed out one of the best I've had cause it was the first.  Over the years I moved back to this frozen shithole and was on TER when it first started.  Back when the internet was starting and fun...I had a different handle back then and never posted on the discussion as it was for guys and gals that really had balls.  I met a lovely woman, married her, divorced her and was gone for a long stretch.  At time of separation I jumped back in.  I was again silent for a year on TER and then (there was plenty of drama going on at that time) I jumped into the discussion because I was seeing so much manipulation when you viewed reviews vs what was going on on the board.  The spawn of Wong...and yes...if you want to know what my handle is about it's bongwater in another fashion.  I adore cheep beer and high quality smoke.  Any other questions PM me...I'm an open book and I don't bite unless asked or backed in a corner.

As long as you are happy and having fun do your thing.

Ever heard of "Two wrong doesnt make it right'?

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...and my wife, who had a weight issue, was losing interest in sex. Even when we were doing it, it was pretty vanilla, due to logistics and her selfishness. There were a lot of things she refused to do.

I made a big mistake marrying her, but I was caught at the time and I really resented her trying to take control of my sexuality. You see, she got upset and resentful about me masturbating. Yeah, while we were not having sex!  

So I kind of started doing research about the hobby and made some furtive phone calls. Finally, when I had a window of opportunity, I did it, and even though I got started in the seediest motel in the Cities with a provider I'd probably not give the time of day at this point, I'd found TER by this point and started seeing better and better women. In short weeks I found a provider I saw for the next six years and in a few months I found my ATF.  

It was exciting and it felt like I was taking back something I'd given up. My marriage ended about 9 months after I started hobbying and I kept doing it. No regrets.

The thought I could die tomorrow without ever having porno sex with a hot woman made me take action. And it wasn't with the SO. While in San Fran on business and viewing Redbook, it all seemed so easy and not risky...and so it was and so it continues. Thanks for a post provoking some interesting responses, a nice change.

...& divorced in the early eighties, I started going to saunas until the cities passed ordinances that put them out of business, so I just started just using entertainment paper ads, this was a bad idea in the space of just a few years I was cash & dashed, robbed @ gunpoint stung by LE & had to deal with numerous sub-par providers. Much of the time I was involved in a few SO relationships but finding TER has given me the opportunity to spend time with some really fun providers, as far as intimacy goes it's my fantasy & as long as they at least pretend they like me I'm happy.

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r welcome.

One of the top things I learned was that marriage is nothing but a fucking trap.  I'm getting out, and from here on out, it's multiple girlfriends/FWB.  No more of that monogamy shit for me.

I don't really give a flying fuck about "wrong or right."  I do what's right for me.  And...this kind of preaching, coming from a troll who disrespects women on the board almost daily?  WTF?!

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and thanks for sharing

and it's sad your ex wouldn't at least let you jerk it without the mind games...thanks for sharing.

I wrong anyone at my own choosing, not because they wronged me.  Another selfish baster, no wonder why the wife cheated on you.  You probably only found out about one, there's probably that you've never knew.

When I first got into this hobby many years ago, it was after three years of dating many different women. Lots of first dates, very few third dates. Then I got involved with a hottie who was seriously BSC. During that three-month rollercoaster relationship, I went to a wild bachelor party for a friend. After the scheduled entertainers left, some guys started talking about escorts. I asked some questions, and found out that the local agencies were all listed in the yellow pages, under E for Escort. After the BSC relationship ended, it took me a couple of weeks to work up the nerve to call an agency.

I too was frustrated w/dating...after an early marriage that completely turned many things upsidedown for me...I got away  
(I should say I didn't let him back after he left the.3rd time & tried to come back) anyway during the separation  
I learned so much about who I had married & I realized how blind I had been & how I often lied to myself & made excuses for getting treated like a doormat.

It took sum time & the social interaction that a metropolitan area provides rather then an isolated small town & slowly I rebuilt my sense of self, confidence, & defined what I believed in & who I was...during this time I did the single parent duties, while holding a full time job & part time beauty school ...I was busy but it was MUCH better then working 16hr. Shifts draining catheders and changing diapers (CNA) while pregnant as my husband job hopped...  

See his $ was always his $ & my $ was for living on....anyway being single wasn't easy...ther are SO many ways for people to take advantage even 4those of us that have healthy confidence & simply believe in doing what's right.

I can't even go thru memories of how many times I stopped another abusive situation from happening....yeah I got the random manipulation & learned most all humans manipulate now & then.  

A few uninteresting detors & life lessons later...& I stumbled upon the hobby world...via the massage self serve world & quickly onto my own, after some consideration I decided to "go a lil deeper" w/ these new special friends.

Forever proud & grateful I've learned so much from this sexXy segue...I've always been in tune w/my sexuality & have an unquenchable thirst for knowledge of all human sexuality, when making my decision I thought of each potential consequence frm every angle,deciding I can handle wut may come my way.... Maybe I entered into this a little jaded re: men & the many ways I'd been duped or just financially used...I learned a hell of a lot from providing & intrestingly the men's preceptive....((what's life w/o learning & growing right?!?))

Anyway in summary  no matter where life takes me....I'll always be 4-ever grateful of hobby life it changed me in great ways.

 
P.S. I have (more than once) had plenty of off the clock time w/those I consider friends...the many stereo types of this hobby are not one size fits all & IMO hobby life is ever-evolving so for all of you who make across the board statements & assumptions plz. remember you just might be wrong.  

P.S.S. I find it super amusing that ppl wonder who pays taxes & ppl try to judge what should & shouldn't be discussed. Information is power ppl. And it's just my personal opinion (I guess) but free is free & if you believe in freedom you might make sure you understand the definition. ;

Thank you for sharing!  You are totally right about off the clock time and I can relate to many of the things you were able to do after finding this hobby.

Ooxx,  
Trin