You asked for a thought so here is mine. I don't know any guys that would admit to a session with a TS.

#1 - I don't follow you.  You say "she does not advertise herself as a woman."  So, she advertises herself as a TS?  If so, what's the problem?
#2 - Best way to minimize getting stood up is choosing to see girls with a rep for not doing that.  If the girls you try to see are asking for references and you are giving them then maybe you should check with your references to see if they heard from the girl.  Also, if you are making appointments at least a day before you plan to meet, are you checking in with her the day of to make sure everything is still on?

I'm always amazed, as an adult undergound community struggling for acceptance in mainstream culture, when we cast aside those who don't fit into our "norms", our "cliques".

Get over it guys, really. More men see TS' than you will EVER know. They don't always review them because they don't want to be judged or critisized. Supposedly by fellow hedodinistic, open minded individuals all seeking erotic encounters perhaps missing from personal lives, or not yet experienced.

We are all entitled to seek what we desire. Don't judge anyone else for what they want just because you don't find it to your taste. Live and let live. Variety is the spice and all that jazz.

To answer your questions OP,

She is an post op TS, and therefore does not have the natural flora and fauna of a woman's anaotomy. So, naturally, she will not taste like a natural born woman.

I don't know where you are find your dates and/or if you are doing your proper homework on them...are they well reviewed, ect.?  Or perhaps there is something about your ettiquette that is sounding off alarm bells and making the girls feel uncomfortable. Are you asking rate or service information, locations, ect?

Better luck to you.
Xoxo

A post op TS Lady does not have the natural organs or chemicals to produce the same taste in her vagina as a dna female.

As for the run for the hills attitude when someone mentions they saw a TS provider......I am not sure what that is all about. Lots of TER guys who swear they are straight get curious and go see a TS provider.....for the most part they don't review her....

As for your no call no shows, I would suggest if you have not already done so, to purchase VIP and read the reviews.