Sorry that happened to you. I personally would never and haven’t ever treated a provider that way. But I can’t tell you how many times this has happened to me.
I get that we have that one app for clients, but we definitely need a better or more in-depth app/chat room for clients so we can review them better. Sick of wasting my own time, money, and potentially losing a better client bc of one.
Like dude booked at 5:30, asked to push it to 6, then 6:30 then to 7 last min and then at 7 to 7;30 & then cancelled all of a sudden… like dude I pushed back potential clients bc of you and now you wanna hassle me and make me the bad guy cause I have a cancellation fee (WHICH IS POSTED ON MY MAIN SITES/ADS). Like I wasted over $100 on this guy for the ride to and from work& to book the room. & lost potentially $300-600 pushing away other clients… ugh I am so sick of wishywashy people..
Four or five appointment time changes in a matter of two hours is sure not acceptable. And then followed by the cancelation. Seems that your cancelation fee in this case is due you. Hopefully better days and clients are ahead for you.
Yes you are owed a cancellation fee but will probably never see it or him again. The only small
Recourse you have is if you used provider references as you can at least contact them
And that would be a couple more . Also the local provider ( quality) is not that large and and notifying on Twitter May be another form of obtaining satisfaction.
Can say with pride that in ten year personally cancelled once due to a snow storm, once due to Covid contact , missed one appointment due to confusion on my part( with Jennie K) and made an acceptable
Arrangement and been late once but less than ten minutes.
Guessing that Wingman and many others have about the same track record.
Now on the other hand enough issues on the provider side but only lost time and opportunity.
Fucking joke??? I be rich if all the hoes paid for my time and mileage when they suddenly canceled on me the last minute or when I showed up , parked and they never gave me the room num.
Yes you are owed a cancellation fee but will probably never see it or him again. The only small
Recourse you have is if you used provider references as you can at least contact them
And that would be a couple more . Also the local provider ( quality) is not that large and and notifying on Twitter May be another form of obtaining satisfaction.
Can say with pride that in ten year personally cancelled once due to a snow storm, once due to Covid contact , missed one appointment due to confusion on my part( with Jennie K) and made an acceptable
Arrangement and been late once but less than ten minutes.
Guessing that Wingman and many others have about the same track record.
Now on the other hand enough issues on the provider side but only lost time and opportunity.
It seems to me that this thread about the lady doing what was stated is absolutely not acceptable, should not have happened and maybe the cancellation fee should go both ways, seems to me that she never really wanted to see him anyways or was having scheduling remorse after maybe doing HER research...... BUT lets look at what the ladies have to judge as to their excitement to follow thru with their future appointments. I love what OB 1 stated that he has not had that happen much to him and he rarely does it to them without a good excuse (we do live and hobby in Minnesota and are at the mercy of the weather) (and I agree also that there are probabbly many others on here that have commented that share his opinion about not having it happen to them) that being said if the lady was to look at to whom they are soon to meet, they can also see someones history as to what to expect and if i was a lady i would be way more excited and diligent in showing up to see a guy with 8-9-10 performance ratings of the ladies that he has spent time with and maybe some white listings vs someone who consistantly does not voice excitement in their reviews, with the performance of the encounter (average - below 5 in 80 plus reviews) not saying it is right but i to agree with OB1 and will admit in my 20 years of hobbying this thread is not something that I personally would complain about because maybe I was just lucky but it rarely has happened to me. I cannot judge or know, if my opinion is correct, because we do not have the info on who the guy was or what his history showed BUT i still feel that the lady can very easily gauge what to expect from past history being evident on the review platform of her upcoming date. The lady was wrong to do it the way she did but regardless, right or wrong, that was HER way to get out of that session.........
As i was multi tasking, I just felt the need to add to the thread. Must of hit a nerve or maybe you just looked at yourself in the mirror and took it personal........... Interesting about no comment about the post of which i was referencing
I was wrong for what?
I was just stating that us providers should have a WAY better app to review clients in depth bc clients have a way to review us providers in dept. I believe that we should have the same right to review & maybe even possibly warn other providers abt a client…
By The way you act and talk about us providers I can see EXACTLY why…….. If you don’t respect our time nor us, then why should you get any business from us…
& boohoo…. You spent $5 on gas to drive there… & didn’t get to nut… like..
Are u joking? How is that even remotely equivalent to me spending $100+ & lose out on MORE money from potential clients bc of 1 shithead? I’ve never cancelled & I try to accommodate to my clients to the best of my abilities. and I’d like to see you go to work for a whole week & not get paid, and then have your boss take $100 from you just for the duck of it..
L O L
Pay no attention to him. He's a well known troll and will likely crawl back under his rock soon.
i love that you do not mince words ......some do not take the messages as written .......sooooooooo good to see your post, maybe he will.
i dont give a fuck about gas money, my time is more important when I sit in parking lot and no reply from the hoes.
Maybe stop calling us hoes and we'll have the respect for you that you deserve to show up. I know if you called me a hoe or degraded me in any way, shape or form we would not meet and you'd get a similar ear full with less than nice words telling you where you can shove your attitude.
First there's ZERO chance I would make an appointment for used beat up hoe like you. Hoe = chick who takes money for fucking, that's you, you a hoe, simple as that.
Maybe stop calling us hoes and we'll have the respect for you that you deserve to show up. I know if you called me a hoe or degraded me in any way, shape or form we would not meet and you'd get a similar ear full with less than nice words telling you where you can shove your attitude.
How about we *both* try to be better, clients AND providers? I know there were times I was super flakey as a provider when I was drinking, but I am doing my best to stay on top of appointments, reminders, scheduling, and providing a good service now that I am on the wagon. It is very frustrating when this does happen, and I hope we can all work together to educate each other with the financial ramifications of unkept appointments.
Congrats on remaining sober.
Fuck that, stay drunk, more drunk more hoeing
Congrats on remaining sober.
Very Well Stated Miss Scarlet!! I was the recipient of one of you super flakey dates. I respect and admire you for your honesty, and admitting you have a problem, but most of all, that you are dealing with it and taking control of it. I wish you the best, and hope to see you again.
He screened another way. He didn’t give me any references. That should’ve been red flag #1
THANK YOU!!! The fact that I lost out on potential clients cause this John wanted to keep wasting my time… I wouldn’t be as irritated if he would’ve cancelled the 1st time… I’ve had multi people cancelled on me, given me a legit excuse, & I’ve waived the fee cause I’m super understanding. But if you’re going to dick w me and just waste my time n money, then I SHOULD get the fee!!
Calling out bad mongers and alerting others? There's a lot of shitty things on both sides of the fence.
I honestly don't see a problem if a provider posts said guys information. Maybe his email he tried booking with. It's only fair since we as men can say what we want about our experience but why can't the provider write something about a bad experience? Or do providers have a space to share that kind of information.
She will get kicked out of TER if she does that. She can PM the info, but can't post client info on public board. and...
It looks like they already have an app where they share client info within the provider circle, but she's complaining that its not enough. The guy was probably Ok'd by another provider but she had to deal with the last minute cancellation.
Emkay- one suggestion, next time a client asks to move an appointment, you can assume they are not showing up if its past the original appointment end time.
Always been curious about this app and the orly convos on it
Outing someone publicly on TER will get you banned. Whether an email would rise to that level probably depends on what is in the email address.
TER does have a Providers only board where they can exchange information. There are also other boards and sites independent of TER where they can do the same.
It's possible people who do this sort of bait and switch have a sort of fetish enjoyment out of it.
Sorry that happened to you. I personally would never and haven’t ever treated a provider that way. But I can’t tell you how many times this has happened to me.
I’m sorry that’s Happened to you, but for me? I always try to accommodate for my client. It’s just the fact that he didn’t read any of my terms & policy, accused me of lying abt having a cancellation policy, wasted so much of my time, money, and prevented me from seeing other clients. I gave him respect by trying to work w him, but he just disrespected me and kept
Calling me names
I’m going to try and be as nice as I can right now.
You had a slow night, you had a potential client, who turned out to be a time waster but since you had nothing going on you allowed it to happen.
That’s on you.
Get better at your job.
No that’s not the case, I had turned away 3 clients that were asking for appointments, but like a dumb ass, I always try to be the most accommodating and best provider I can be. Which as I said before it’s just bs how some Johns are legit scum and dirt beneath my feet, but expected to be treated as a king & if not they try to make up Lies and bs reviews
As someone who had a session with you I must admit your session was subpar. Your mattress or futon was so uncomfortable my back hurt for days afterwards. You had no massage skills what so ever and I paid for a toy show and you didn't even offer it. I basically paid $350 for you to run my back in one spot and asked me to flip after 5 minutes...I hope your services get better honestly I was looking forward to the appt and left disappointed
I’d love to see and experience Emkay.
Sorry this happened to you. Maybe we can connect at some point.
Well I had a blast with you. It was well worth the outlay. And, let's be clear, I didn't go for a "massage."