i was recently asked to provide my full name, age, and occupation as part on a verification process. I offered three recent and reputable references in the alternative. I appreciate the need for everyone to be safe, but wonder how normal this request is. I'm not a full member any longer so please post a public reply.  

If three recent, reputable references are not sufficient then I would find someone else. Her request is not normal.

Without having to give up your nuts to do it.

Again, you will get responses from hobbyists who would give you their point of view based on what they would or would not do. Also hobbyists are not going to give you specifics of what they did the first time they got verified. Because they are afraid of being chastised on a board. So they will pound their chests and pretend they didnt go through a thorough screening to save face amongst their bros.  

I do not really care how many providers are operating w/o being caught, I only that they aren't going to catch me.  Search "Beaver damn prostitution" .  LE got a hold of her client list with real names.

Your references may be recent and reputable but looking at your review list doesn't back that up completely. It may be possible that the references don't meet her requirement.  

I want to know how I can like this more than once, damn you TER.

How about give me all your info?? Your not the only one worried about getting robbed/cheated/scam.  I have actually been robbed by provider!!!  To be honest a large population of provider are scammers, in terms of false advertisement.

Agree with you Cat. I have been in for a long time.  
Jerks get outed.
Dopes get busted.
Assets get protected

You do what you have to, to feel comfortable with the process..  
But your question was if it was common or not, and it is.

I accept p411- Date-Check - RS2K- whitelistings  

& bitching and moaning about me not accepting a white list as verification or not being ok with old references. Ridiculous. I can't be a Mother when I'm in a ditch on the side of the road because Johndoe124 from the board that had whitelists & refs killed me. Dead people can't spend money can they? Not worth it.

It's also true that a guy can't be a good provider for his children when he loses his job and marriage because he was outed when a provider who kept his personal information gets busted.

I want to like the below a gazilion times.

You guys beat the dead horse about providers getting busted and your privacy. The incident that happened in Beaver Dam has been in the works for 2 years. She was already warned by their PD to stop and had her money seized a first time before that arrest. She also required only selfies of guys as screening. That doesn't sound very logical or intelligent to me, but maybe I'm operating on a different thought pattern. The guys that they got also sang like Canaries like her as soon as they were questions.  I've also noticed the guys that refuse to screen are the disrespectful ones that don't consider us human, they degrade us on boards like this and call us ugly names. I'm a human being that deserves respect and I do need to know WHO I'm sharing an intimate moment with because of the nature of that beast. Clients and providers are human beings that deserve mutual respect. I can also list a few things that I got while visiting. 1. Board guys that used references from reputable providers but didn't want to give me any info, none of them turned out to be good appointments. 2. Guys trying to use year old references and white listing to bypass screening. 3. God only knows who trying to be screened using fake employment information. 4. Some really great guys that I was able to form a mutually respectful connection with enough to have an appointment.  By the way even though I said fuck Minnesota I did have some wonderful guys visit me, I'll treasure our time together

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What makes a "good appointment" from your viewpoint, and how many of these are you basing your conclusion on?  

Numerous..  I tried to accommodate them and give wiggle room because they had good references and they acted crazy. The guys I got refs for did the following not in any particular order... didn't show up after getting my location, try to negotiate unsafe services I don't do, NCNS after the confirmation call and call back days later trying to reschedule, ask for explicit details and about monetary compensation.  Minneapolis was recommended to me by a very close provider girlfriend that has reviews but isn't active on boards, the same things also happened to her and we were in MN around the same time. A good appointment to me isn't even one that is necessarily "easy" to screen. Someone that I can form a mutually respectful connection with on first contact.  Doesn't need to be perfect because screening is subjective and can be done so many ways and all guys don't have all the info I need right away. Just be honest because once you lie were done. When your appointment is over you'll have another friend in this big wild world, a reference if you need one, and a beautiful memory of time spent together. As for the reference to the female serial killer that killed johns..She was a SW and mentally unstable to begin with. I've had girlfriends murdered by clients this year and it's ridiculous and painful for everyone involved. One of my friends was killed by a client and he set her body on fire after another one was killed in a similar way..The guy killed her and burned her body for 7 days in a firepit. So if someone doesn't care about me enough as a person first, and they see us as nothing of a piece of meat I have no doubt they wouldn't do the same to me. Not worth my life.

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ye, don't let the door hit your in the ass.

Posted By: BabydollLarsson

You guys beat the dead horse about providers getting busted and your privacy. The incident that happened in Beaver Dam has been in the works for 2 years. She was already warned by their PD to stop and had her money seized a first time before that arrest. She also required only selfies of guys as screening. That doesn't sound very logical or intelligent to me, but maybe I'm operating on a different thought pattern. The guys that they got also sang like Canaries like her as soon as they were questions.  I've also noticed the guys that refuse to screen are the disrespectful ones that don't consider us human, they degrade us on boards like this and call us ugly names. I'm a human being that deserves respect and I do need to know WHO I'm sharing an intimate moment with because of the nature of that beast. Clients and providers are human beings that deserve mutual respect. I can also list a few things that I got while visiting. 1. Board guys that used references from reputable providers but didn't want to give me any info, none of them turned out to be good appointments. 2. Guys trying to use year old references and white listing to bypass screening. 3. God only knows who trying to be screened using fake employment information. 4. Some really great guys that I was able to form a mutually respectful connection with enough to have an appointment.  By the way even though I said fuck Minnesota I did have some wonderful guys visit me, I'll treasure our time together

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Sorry, about your friend and I'm not trying to be mean, but WTF you still in this business, when your friends are dying left and right???

Posted By: BabydollLarsson

Numerous..  I tried to accommodate them and give wiggle room because they had good references and they acted crazy. The guys I got refs for did the following not in any particular order... didn't show up after getting my location, try to negotiate unsafe services I don't do, NCNS after the confirmation call and call back days later trying to reschedule, ask for explicit details and about monetary compensation.  Minneapolis was recommended to me by a very close provider girlfriend that has reviews but isn't active on boards, the same things also happened to her and we were in MN around the same time. A good appointment to me isn't even one that is necessarily "easy" to screen. Someone that I can form a mutually respectful connection with on first contact.  Doesn't need to be perfect because screening is subjective and can be done so many ways and all guys don't have all the info I need right away. Just be honest because once you lie were done. When your appointment is over you'll have another friend in this big wild world, a reference if you need one, and a beautiful memory of time spent together. As for the reference to the female serial killer that killed johns..She was a SW and mentally unstable to begin with. I've had girlfriends murdered by clients this year and it's ridiculous and painful for everyone involved. One of my friends was killed by a client and he set her body on fire after another one was killed in a similar way..The guy killed her and burned her body for 7 days in a firepit. So if someone doesn't care about me enough as a person first, and they see us as nothing of a piece of meat I have no doubt they wouldn't do the same to me. Not worth my life.  

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Because I have better things to do than cry on a Minnesota Pussy Buying Board! Deuces babe!

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Waaa Waaa.. MN guys wouldn't give me the proper amount of information to blackmail them later... Waa Waa My apointments I had were no good.. Waaa Waaa.. Fuck Minnesota.. WaaaWaaa I guess I'll go sell some pussy elsewhere...

I have no problem explaining why some behaviors like not screening are ridiculous in a clear and concise manner as I did above. I also have no problem telling board bullies and trolls about themselves when other are too afraid of "ruining their reputations" to say anything. I have enough of a backbone to say what I need to say and not give one single fuck. The people that get angry and argue with me are the same people that have no lives, no happiness, & nothing good going for them. I also find it funny that one of the posters above from St. Cloud that is talking about not giving screening info actually had an appointment with me a few months ago in a neighboring state and didn't give me any issues, in fact I remember him eating me for an hour . Ironic. Have a nice day!

Oh I stand corrected.. Guess there was some more...

And to think a grown ass man is typing out sentences about wah wah wah. At 25 I can think of a more constructive argument.  Outing my ass, my business has never been based on boards or hobbyiest so please say whatever and cry on your reviewer board like trolls do you aren't hurting me one bit. Or better yet go fuck your wife maybe? Ohhh wait if your wife wasn't repulsed by you, you wouldn't be a board troll right? You sicken me.

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There are plenty of providers who don't require this kind of personal information in their screening.