I recently emailed a woman requesting to meet her for one hour.  
She has some reviews and her rates are on her profile and website.  

She screened and accepted and responded with an email giving her 1/2 hour and 1 hour rates, asking me which one I wanted, and noting that she 'worked' out of hotels.
   
The overall combination of material in that answer was too explicit and gave information that was not needed.
Spidey sense, I bailed, probably unnecessarily.

I agree with the many women whose ads say that they will terminate contact with explicit communication. It applies to communications in the other direction too

"sorry, i was looking for a massage. You must have confused what I was looking for."
for when the emails we all send get printed and read outloud, probably in front of people we'd prefer them to not be read in front of.

....Abandon ship. You need to be right every time, those who wish to spoil your fun only need to be right once.

With so many legitimate options out there for massage/play, it's just not worth taking a risk when your gut says otherwise.

I've been here way too many times, and a lot of those times from men that should know better, it always leaves me wondering if I'm crazy to be so worried.....but this brings up such a great point:
there is just no need for explicit  talk of any kind, -ever
No you don't need to know my "real name" where my kids go to school...yes really (someone more than once has asked this)

Don't ask me what my "work hours" are or tell me you want a "session"....

I get together to hang out and visit with contesting adults like myself, I charge for my time (not actions) simple as that...

Telling me who has the "most to lose", trying to save or reform me,  or any other gossip/advice about the "biz" is something I don't take comfortably to, and 4sure not cool.... subtle and discreet are the keys to a happy, (dare I say blissful) carefree visit. ;

Why can't they ask what hours you work? And "session"?
Or did I read that wrong? 😳

An email exchange  

From: man  
To: woman (whose website lists rates and availability and whose reviews are -shall we say-graphic)

That goes, "I would like a 30 minute session with you. I understand your rate is $150 per half hour. Do you work out of a hotel or your home. I have whitelists under my name.

Response: My GFE sessions are one hour minimum. I do not work half hours as you suggest. I work Monday through Friday out of various hotels in Newtown and Oldtown.  

Is much worse than:  

To: "I would like to see you Friday morning. Is this possible. My WL references will tell you that I am a x0ish w nice guy.

Response: I have checked with people who know you. I would love to meet you on Friday morning at 10. Is that possible?

Now providers, a question for you. Do you like the words whitelist or P411 membership mentioned or do you strongly prefer a simple I have references or "We have mutual friends, Babyjane and MotherTheresa

If used as evidence, such a response would dig a deeper hole presuming enough evidence, i.e., ads, web page, reviews, etc., exists about the provider. No reply is the safer bet.  

Umm I'm kinda of confused by WK's response o your question, but to answer his:
I never care if someone says they are Whitelisted or a member of p4 escorting is  (while it may imply more to some) the definition is clear and perfectly legal to charge for your time,  

p4 is aimed toward escorts & TER is a fantasy website.

To answer your questions; it's mostly just a personal preference about "what hours I work"
I just don't think of get togethers as work and the word "session" implies a massage something I'm not licensed for,
 
I don't have as much of a problem with that term in an email, but it should be known once we are face to face there's really no need for these kinds of topics....which to be fair -I didn't give the best examples of

How about the old saying " yeah I would like to see you more but I can't afford it" (talking about first time meetings here)  
Or "yeah I'm not full VIP so I don't really know what to expect"
 
For those rare moments I'm just thinking, "please, please just do your research & do your best to keep the chit chat light"

I make sure I do the same, never will you hear me asking about your wife, kids or even specifically about your job, unless we've met more than once & it comes up organically,  

even still I'm very careful to take the subtle hint when one would like the subject changed.  

All this being said -I can say Most people I've met are very easy to talk to and don't put me at all on edge,  

it's just that when something so easy gets so cluttered it can sometimes seem "entrapping"  

I just think it's a good topic, I know so many of us are used to knowing whats legal and what's not it might just be in the subconscious so much that -for some- all the wrong wording becomes habit...

 
Great topic 'cause it's always nice to talk about ways to be more confident & carefree when indulging ourselves  
 

I have had my Spidey sense come on several times over the years that made me bail. I know of a few that were good calls becuse it was a LE meeting if I would have followed through. Like others have said do your research and the less you say the better.

I really like these, but would never bring it up in initial emails for the obvious above reasons. However, can I ask if it is someone I have seen before? If so, is PM any better than email?

This is a good topic - clear rules of engagement help everyone relax and be safe! Thanks.

It seems like every single time, I get asked about where I work. It's always incredibly awkward, because I'm the only one at my work who does what I do, and it would be very easy for someone to trace me down. It's a real buzz kill for me, and it happens all the time. Maybe I need to have a cover story - "I smuggle guns for the CIA," or "I'm an accountant." It just never occurs to me to lie.

No one has to be completely honest. If you don't want to completely distort the truth you can speak in extreme generalities, I'm sure you don't really believe every ad you read that says she's well traveled and highly educated. The details of your private life should only be shared if you are comfortable sharing them.

I would think that unless you give out the name of your company, you should be fine.  You could also try throwing something out that's obviously not true as a bit of humor.

To said provider?

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