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mrhuck 15 Reviews 299 reads
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...please respond, I respect your individual reasons for not communicating verbally but I expect other hobbyists may want to know why not?

jimmymack1002119 reads

I know it's not unusual and sucks when it happens but I'd like to bring it up.Ncns Holly Evans ter228174 .Anyway it was to be a first meeting, went to designated spot text number 4 times no response called no response emailed no response waited about 40 Mn and left.Got home finally a response stating I had used the wrong number ,checked email I had used the one in the email she gave me also while waiting I emailed her.Then she said I cost her money and if I wanted to reschedule to send her 150 in Amazon gift cards to her email address.Anyway I asked her to call me and discuss situation and she didn't.Anyway we give a lot of information to some providers to get appointments to be safe but guys think of your own safety too and be careful.

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holly.evans892 reads

I was there, waiting and recieved no calls or texts. We communicated over email after and you gave me the wrong number that you were calling. I would be happy to provide screenshots of this to anyone who would like to see! Also, the post of me waiting and wondering where my appointment was it is on my twitter at the same time. And no, I wouldn't call you after you refused to send a deposit to reschedule after standing me up. This slander is ridiculous, I've never ncns in my life!!! I gave you the option of showing me a screenshot that you called the right number and you didn't! You told me you dialed xxx2 when my number is xxx4 which I doubled and triple checked and I had given you xxx4. My roommate can also attest I was there waiting.

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jimmymack100682 reads

Couldn't agree less

Posted By: holly.evans
I was there, waiting and recieved no calls or texts. We communicated over email after and you gave me the wrong number that you were calling. I would be happy to provide screenshots of this to anyone who would like to see! Also, the post of me waiting and wondering where my appointment was it is on my twitter at the same time. And no, I wouldn't call you after you refused to send a deposit to reschedule after standing me up. This slander is ridiculous, I've never ncns in my life!!! I gave you the option of showing me a screenshot that you called the right number and you didn't! You told me you dialed xxx2 when my number is xxx4 which I doubled and triple checked and I had given you xxx4. My roommate can also attest I was there waiting.

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AbbiMinx660 reads

As I am friendly with many providers in Minneapolis, I know that Holly was actually waiting. I think the best thing is that she has the screen shots to prove it was a misunderstanding on your part.  

Mistakes happen and suck, but no need to be so spiteful and call out a provider for what was your own mistake.

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souls_harbor581 reads

I had a scheduler once send me mixed up phone digits.  My arrival text went to the wrong number.  Fortunately I'd given the scheduler my cell number so he or she texted me asking why I was late. So it turned out alright for me.

I think mistakes like this can happen on both sides.  I guess my comment would be for both sides to be more forgiving.  Both sides were inconvenienced.  I don't see a winner here

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jimmymack100562 reads

I agree I am forgiving on this and did feel it was some kind of miscommunication,so I asked her to if it was my error I would take care of it,then I got the response of send 150 in Amazon gift cards to her email address .Well on my end I was stood up by someone I've never meet then asked to send 150 to the email address,well not this guy.Remember she has my info and number if she was worried about where I was at she could have called,anyway I'd make it up if she rescheduled

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IvanaHump421 reads

You can't unring a bell Jimmy, you came to the board with this, yet you admit it may have been a miscommunication....you say you're forgiving and you made the choice to say you'd take care of it, did you Not expect a suggestion on how to take care of it?
Mistakes are not intentional, you deciding to out a decent provider is. I always get a good chuckle when I read such contradiction and see someone try to rework around what they really mean. It's cowardly and immature of you to have started this post in the first place, makes it easier for girls to a good idea of what you're all about. At least that's my opinion anyway.

Posted By: jimmymack100
I agree I am forgiving on this and did feel it was some kind of miscommunication,so I asked her to if it was my error I would take care of it,then I got the response of send 150 in Amazon gift cards to her email address .Well on my end I was stood up by someone I've never meet then asked to send 150 to the email address,well not this guy.Remember she has my info and number if she was worried about where I was at she could have called,anyway I'd make it up if she rescheduled

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holly.evans583 reads

I have receipts that I sent the correct number. The amazon was a deposit to reschedule not a random demand for money. I'd prefer cash so its not ideal to me anyway. He said he would only send deposit if I called him first which I declined. I had already spent a lot of time and energy on this missed appt and I don't do phone calls. Also, I had emailed him into the hour to findout what was up but wasn't available to move up the appointment. Calling me a ncns when there was a mix up on his end feels malicious tbh. I'd now like to move on past this and go on with life.

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mrhuck324 reads

...I have often wondered but I have been too shy to ask why providers refuse verbal communication, it seams that would have solved this problem.

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mrhuck300 reads

...please respond, I respect your individual reasons for not communicating verbally but I expect other hobbyists may want to know why not?

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TrinityLake359 reads

Because way too many people take advantage. Calling, texting, AND email when you have a life and other responsibilities.

I will only do email because of that. I accept that many will not see me because of this

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mrhuck251 reads

...Thanks for your response Trin, if someone missed seeing you because of that reason it would their loss.

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vorlon340 reads

But when something unusual comes up, an actual phone call is usually the best way to clear things up quickly.

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souls_harbor361 reads

So, an unfortunate incident, but both reputations are safe, I think.

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Vikingboy6523 reads

I have seen Holly recently and I had no issues scheduling and she was right on time for the appointment.  The NCNS is a harsh label and that is the only reason I am posting this.  Holly is someone who you'd want to reschedule with and asking for a deposit is not unheard of.  If you don't trust the provider then obviously move on to someone else.  Money talks and bullshit walks...  obviously something had drawn you to her and I will tell you that I was glad I met her.  Happy trails!

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jimmymack100441 reads

Okay the label may have been a little harsh I apologize for that I'm sorry.

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hazydavy74323 reads

That was a very good start!  
Now you two kid's PLEASE let us know how the make up sex was ......

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vorlon377 reads

You both can privately figure out if you are interested in rescheduling or not.

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Rxyman438 reads

this was less frustrating than what your review would have been after the appointment. Just my $.02

-- Modified on 1/11/2017 4:07:27 PM

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beddy1446 reads

Several years ago I set up a get-together with a special lady who I had visited several times before -- long story short, she had changed phone numbers since last we met -- in all the excitement of visiting her again, I never got the new #.  I get to her incall, call to announce my arrival and some guy answers -- wrong number.  

I suspected the lady had a new # and so I hoped that once she had not heard from me in a timely manner, she would call/text me to find out where I was -- about 10 minutes after our scheduled start time, she did exactly that and I told her I was waiting outside her incall and all was well

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bigone24601456 reads

Congrats... on top of it all any fine lady in this city that has read this entire thread has probably now put you in their "never see" column, or at best "proceed with extreme caution" Solid play.

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