Minnesota

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kinkyman69 43 Reviews 1573 reads
posted
1 / 17

Hey guys, I'm just wondering if a situation that happened to me a couple days ago as ever happened to you.
So I have a provider that I've seen maybe three or four times. She's fine, but a little bit on the lower end scale and only someone that I typically would see in a pinched for the most part.  
She sent me a rather semi explicit text message a few days ago asking if "daddy wants to spank and have his way with his naughty kitten tonight". Now if a was totally single, I would have no problem with this, but I am not. My significant other easily could have intercepted this text. I'm also pretty sure this was a mass text that she probably sent a few guys at the same time.
To say that I was livid is an understatement. I'm not necessarily even mad that she sent me communication to see if I was available, it that she wasnt discrete and that her text left nothing to the imagination if my partner had of seen this. I havent responded back yet,  but this gives me pause for ever seeing her again.
What are your thoughts and have you ever been in this situation before?

whitesand121 47 Reviews 84 reads
posted
2 / 17

I had this happen once also.  I keep their name in my contacts, as a tele market caller.  Then block the number.  If I never plan on seeing her again, I delate the number.  If I plan on seeing her, I keep the #, and unblock it.

3302667 24 Reviews 82 reads
posted
3 / 17

Yeah that's an immediate no and red flag for me. I haven't been in your situation in regards to having to worry about my S/O about my texts. But I have had an also lower end provider text me multiple times if I wanted to see her, which is why she probably is on the lower end.

knotsaway 38 Reviews 133 reads
posted
4 / 17

... and blocked on my phone.
I’ve never had that kind of text from a provider, at least not the initial text coming from her.  When I do get an initial text from a provider, it’s something innocuous like a simple “thank you” after a session.  Most reach-outs I get from providers are to my “hobby” email, which is ok to do any time.  I also let a few providers I know well and trust that they can ping me by text if they want, but to start with something like, “good afternoon, are you available to talk?”  I don’t leave my phone lying around so that’s safe.

vantheman666 11 Reviews 112 reads
posted
5 / 17

A little communication goes a long way towards avoiding big problems. That being said, if she doesn't know the relationship status of a client, that's not an acceptable risk to take.

Pollenbroker 24 Reviews 85 reads
posted
6 / 17
jimmymack100 5 Reviews 110 reads
posted
7 / 17

This happens, its not that unusual.Its happened to me from time to time. From both higher end to lower end girls.Some girls mite feel comfortable with you, and know your safe vs a stranger. Or maybe cause i generally do outcall, they dont have to rent a hotel or have incall, either way it happens. Sometimes it works,itll get me off the fence.

vorlon 119 Reviews 103 reads
posted
8 / 17

That's grossly irresponsible on her part.  I've had unsolicited contact before but not that often.  This is also one of the reasons I use a hobby phone.

SeductiveConcierge See my TER Reviews 84 reads
posted
9 / 17

This could have easily been a mistake or she was just trying to drum up business.  

My preferred method of reaching out to guys is by email. There are a few select gentlemen that I speak with all the time and they have a private number that I answer.  

It can be very inconvenient when something like this happens. I would tell her of the issue. Depending on how long she has been in this business she may have not even thought of the repercussions that her actions had. For someone attached this message was an absolute turn off but maybe for a single guy, he felt wanted and needed by that same text. We all have to learn what is appropriate to send to whom and when.  

Andrea Davis

kinkyman69 43 Reviews 109 reads
posted
10 / 17

Cant recall but but honestly it doesnt matter. I had only seen her like 3 or 4 times and most were of the hhr variety.  
I dont mind a text say hi or seeing if I am a available to talk, this was over the line though.
If we had been together many time and she knew my situation,  it would be different.

DonDosEquis 13 Reviews 63 reads
posted
11 / 17

This, but I use a burner app that looks like something else on my phone.  What she did was bad, but you're putting yourself in jeopardy by using your regular phone and number.

snafu929 20 Reviews 78 reads
posted
12 / 17

it isn't expensive but a bit of a pain in the ass to keep adding minutes/extend use time but they're throw-a-ways when needed.  Even with that, I dump all info after an appointment.  Hardest thing sometimes is remembering where I hide the damn thing.  It's the cheap flip phone so texting is a real bitch.  I've probably had 20 of them during my hobbying years.

kinkyman69 43 Reviews 61 reads
posted
13 / 17

I have one of those apps that gives you a different number(similar to Google voice). The problem is that some providers phones can't accept calls or text from it, which is what happened on this case. I am pretty good at clearing info and of course no pro has ever contacted me except via email(which is cool because its separate from my main accounts).

DonDosEquis 13 Reviews 53 reads
posted
14 / 17

I haven't had any issues with the one I use (CoverMe).  It is not free, but doesn't cost much and  it works well.  Plus it hides as a newsreader app (that actually works as a news reader) on your phone.  

kinkyman69 43 Reviews 64 reads
posted
15 / 17

I might have to check out "Cover me". Thanks for the tip

molson-ice 35 Reviews 77 reads
posted
16 / 17

Get yourself a hobby phone. A Trac phone is a great option.  
Inexpensive and you can buy with cash and hide away where only you will know where it is.

hardhankk 1 Reviews 88 reads
posted
17 / 17

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