I was approached with a proposition not long ago.  A person whom I know quite well asked me if I would consider a monthly arrangement.  His intent/suggestion was to make a monthly (4 week) donation for a particular day of the week.  Sometimes (depending on how the calendar falls), that would occasionally mean a 5-week month, but only 4 weeks would be covered.  The 5th week would be a freebie in the arrangement (Check out December 1st, 2009).  In short there would be a meeting for free.  We’re getting creative here, talking about serious all time favorites (ATFs), and compatibility issues.  The donation of course would have to be up front.  How many of you would go for it?  Of course you’d have to be trusting of the trustworthiness and reliability of the Provider.  Make-ups for inevitable emergency cancellations would also be incumbent on the Provider.

How many (or which) Providers would consider such an arrangement?  Talk about specials?!?!?!?  My goodness!  We’d be helping out with the economy!  (I suspect that I may catch a lotta shyt with this one)  lol

Secondary question:  Who prefers CIM or CIP?  I don’t speak Greek…..so don’t even go there.  `Cheesy grin~

Marie,

I would be very open to that kind of arrangement at least for one month to try it out and you could probably look ahead and see if there was going to be an extra week or day and get compensated for it or if not, I would still probably go for it. I'm not answering the second question here today, haha.

xxxoo J.

I'm not open to a scheduled kind of arrangemt but prefer to play by ear. If you can swing it then great! I can't guarantee I'd be available weekly let alone the cost LOL.

cim hands down.

But a good all romping with a CIP is never bad.. lol

What's next punch cards where for every visit you get your card punched and when the card is full the next visit is free?

what some of the providers are doing now by offering discounts by the session. Say they offer say $50 off per session and they see someone four times in a month, it works out to be a free session the fifth time (or sixth, depending on your rate, but you get where I'm coming from). If it's a monthly deal and you only have to give a free session on the months there are 5 Tuesdays or whatever, it's pretty much a wash.

On of the popular providers on the general board has a rate that gives you $50 each session (first session is $$$, next is $$.5, then $$, $.5 $ then .5 until you get to zero then it starts all over. Sounds intriguing to me.

What you do or don't do with your rates is up to you, and if you feel you need to discount in some way, go for it. Be creative. Yours sounds creative.

One thing I would be interested in someone starting a posting on is this: with all the discounts now floating around, is anyone getting any more business? Something tells me, probably not much unless it's going on the road to some remote place where you would get the business even without a discount.

Question 2# cheesy answer: CIM all the way!

No cards punched.  Methinks that we can all count to 5.  Yes?

I would consider a monthly arrangement with a gentleman that I have a good rapport with and am comfortable with.   There would have to be MUTUAL respect, trust, and reliability.  And, yes, I also would want my donation at the beginning of the month.  It would be important that he be someone who would not take advantage of my time by overstaying his welcome (without extra compensation or mutual agreement),invading my privacy and personal space, or by pushing my personal boundaries.  Just because we have a regular arrangement does not mean he would get extra or special "benefits", if you know what I mean.

In return, I would promise to not overstep or push HIS personal boundaries, be respectful of his time and space, his privacy, his need for discretion and respect.

When done properly, I do believe it could have some wonderful mutually beneficial rewards!

Again, excellent question!

If anyone is interested in this type of arrangement, please pm, email or call me!
Hugs, Belinda

But just imagine what the punch cards could look like!

I've thought about this a lot and actually really love the idea!  It would be great to know that every Wed. at 4 I'm booked (for instance).  Also I wouldn't mind giving a freebie now and then in return for a healthy monthly payment....say in the form of my rent

Of course there would have to be trust, but that's a given.

I'm sending you back to SassyRed.  LMAO.

I tryed something similar in September. A lady needed Oct rent which I paid for her in exchange for 5 "pops" in the future. I have yet to get my first "pop". Maybe tomorrow. I seemed to go to bottom of her to-do list. Never had a problem seeing her before this. I wouldn't name names (at least not yet), but it's not working out very well. This posting probably won't help any. If you do it, it better be with someone you really trust. (anyone need rent money? Ha!)
# 2 Marie, you know the answer to that one, CIM!! booga booga

If you did this for a year you would be paying for 48 visits and getting 52, not even a 10 percent discount. I would think this would be a much better arrangement for the Providers than offering $50 off a session. It's a very interesting proposition.

It's hard to beat CIM!!

Probably right, but the problem is you can't just offer it.  There has to be trust involved.

Frankly, I see no benefit for the client. I mean, can't he get the same result, but picking up the phone and making a weekly appointment every week.  Why would he do such a thing?  There are plenty of sugar daddy sites, where for the same monthly outlay,a guy can have dates, fun, and yes VERY fun private times, with someone who doesn't want to charge extra if his time runs over.

So, my question is: "Why pay in advance, when you can get the same result (maybe better) with a pay as you go arrangement."

That is just awful!  Once someone has made a commitment to do something they have an obligation to follow through, if she later changed her mind, she should give the donation back.    I am sorry that you had such a bad experience!  This would NEVER happen with me--NEVER!!

I don't see anything wrong with the arrangement.  There needs to be a bit of trust, but that does not sound like a problem.  I wish I could take advantage of it.  
As for the second question, Yes.  I'll just leave it at that.

This arrangement can be a wonderful thing with the right people.I only offer this special to gentlemen I have been connecting with a year or more this way there are no trust issues.I enjoy their company and they enjoy my sweet chocolate love. I have never had anyone abuse this because at the end of the day we are friends.

But it would have to be with someone that I have known for a long while and that I am compatible with as he is me, which there are a few I would be delighted with this arrangement, thats why I said above that if the extra day was not covered during that said month, it really would not be a big deal, but instead a pleasure give service to a friend/client like that who enjoys my company that much(there are perks in this fantasy business)

Paul, that is really too bad to hear that is happening, I hope the lady in question comes through for you.  I think Marie , Belinda , and no-one I am familiar with would ever do that, ever. Good Luck.

Always, J. xxxoo

Thanks Jackie, you're right about those ladies. How's tricks? Drop me a line. booga booga

I've done similiar arrangments like this before
had some good experences and have met a few guys that would totaly take advantage of the situation.
to protect both parties I would first see how well we "bond" then try a month N see how both parties feel bout continuing

I had a very good experience playing the advance game with one gal that I was really close with..

I tried it with a couple of other gals that I would have considered friends and still got a sharp pencil stuck in the eye a few times, the gals will have you over a barrel once they have the cash sorry to say... My best advice to anyone is to play and pay and leave it right there!

But I am never one to follow my own advice lol

This is P4P. $$$ seems to always trump the friendship card. Unless of course you provide for the fun of it and not for the Benjamins.