I think as fair-minded hobbyists (and providers) we would agree that no call no show (NCNS) is not a good thing. Perhaps I am venting more than engaging in discussion, but it's important to keep honest on both sides.
(I am a massage / body rubs guy only. Since many of those providers use schedulers, I am not sure how many will read this, but the NCNS provider referenced here schedules herself, so I hope she reads this.)
I called a reviewed provider yesterday before she started working for the day. We had a nice chat, and I told her was looking for an appt. later in the day. She said ,"Great, just let me know when." I called and texted a few times to schedule an appt, but rec'd no reply, so I figured she was booked for the day. No problem. But.... just before 7 p.m., she called me and said she would be available at 8 p.m. if I wanted. I said sure. She said to let her know if my situation changed. I told her it wouldn't; I'd be there. So I took a quick shower, etc. and headed to her DT location. Since it was Sunday night, metered parking in front was no problem. Paid more than enough to the city to make sure my car wouldn't get tagged & towed. I was a few minutes early and called her. No answer. I texted. No reply. Thought maybe she was in a last-minute session, so I waited. And waited. And waited. Kept calling and texting. Never got a response from her. Waited 30 minutes then left. Here it is 18 hrs later and no contact or reason for the NCNS. Thanks a lot...NOT!
I had already seen 3 other providers at this location. Two were fabulous and one was a real dud. There is another I am planning to see as soon as we can work out a time. (We've already exchanged the emails.) Given my experiences there (except the dud), I was quite surprised at the NCNS. I sincerely hope there was not an emergency situation that occurred causing the NCNS. If that's the case, I hope she let's me know. Otherwise, I'll spend my money on the reliable ladies.
it wasn't my intent to "out" her. I gave enough details so she would know whom I was referring to. I have not heard from her or seen another posting from her, so I am not sure what's up with her. But based on the PMs I have received/exchanged, it sounds like this is business as usual for her. Also, I am not sure if TER would allow me to name her.
So what was the point of your post?
It was a posting to suggest that NCNS is bad regardless who does it. I provided enough details so the woman could respond to me, but she hasn't. Enough guys have PMd me who understood the situation, and I have replied to them.
I get it you are hoping she reads this and feels bad, now that's funny.Hey ncns sucks but many gals do it .Remember your just another face in the crowd better opportunity pops up you go the end of the line cause some plain don't care .And there phone is always ringing and you are powerless over the pun.
He posted it for guys/newbies more than for her. Believe me he could care less about anything she might or might not say. Lots of other fish in the sea. But you're right, their phones ring and ring and the almighty pussy decides who's "lucky" enough to pay her/them. If the girl is good, which this one is not, she'll make her sessions win-win and get good ratings, have lots of customers, etc.
This "NCNS" girl is nothing like that and more than a few guys learned all about her recently. You know what they say about bad advertising!
You're wrong, you're wrong, and you're right. But thanks for your 2 cent analysis.
I didn't write it to make her feel bad, and I don't think it's funny; perhaps you do. But you are correct that we are all just a dollar sign to many providers, and I never lose sight of that fact. (Yes, there are exceptions, so ladies please don't tear into me.)
The point of the posting was more re-address the topic. We all know it (NCNS) goes both ways, so I wanted people in the hobby to just respect each other more. I put the details in the posting so she would know that I was specifically referring to her actions and not just making a general statement. (If that makes sense.) Keep in mind that SHE called me just an hour before the NCNS, so it's not like a lot could have/should have happened in that hour when she knew I was on my way.
Doesn't sound like you were a dollar sign to her otherwise we'd not be seeing this post .
Sorry that happened to you as you're a very sweet man so, their loss IMO .
Thank you for your kind words. Based on the PMs I rec'd, it sounds like I am lucky she was a NCNS. That means I saved $ to spend on the providers who respect and appreciate their clients.
Any personal information about her you may know may not be posted.
Give her a few days hun to respond. I fell off the face of the earth once on a couple gent because I ended up in the hospital unexpectedly & was incapacitated (actually in a medically induced coma) for four days.
While our correspondences occured way more than an hour prior, things do happen with little or no notice & ability to get back may be very limited.
have heard one girl who gets nothing but amazing reviews is a constant ncns. There are reviews where guys will say they went to to see one girl but got sick of waiting so another girl stepped up and he saw her instead. From these reviews I always know the original girl they are talking about but she is never named and still no average reviews about her being 15-30 minutes late which I guess happens alot.
Why are guys too scared to call out girls if bad situations happen to them?? Luckily nothing has ever happened to me, yet