Hello fellahs,
I just had a less than heartening experience with a provider. She came to my hotel and when we got down to the proverbial business at hand she said I won't remove my top. After discussing this with her for more than a few minutes, she agreed to pull her top down which was right below her breasts. She went on to say that she felt she was "too fat" and didn't want to take her top all the way off. WTF? needless to say I couldn't get into the session. Now this is going to sound crass/crude but isn't it about what the hobbyist wants? because we are paying them etc. So, my question is, is it too much to expect a provider to be nked during the session?

I get "Socks" or "Stockings" sometimes.

The provider should only do what SHE/HE feels comfortable with doing and not have to feel pressured or forced in any way to do something the client wants and vice versa.
However
Say what you mean & mean what you say
Like that old saying goes....
She should probably inform potential visitors of that before hand so they aren't bummed out later.

Not at all.  Obviously she was more self conscious about her wieght or strech marks that you were.  I have yet to understand some of the thinking processes of some of the ladies.  You are corect it is about what "we" want...but even though we are "paying" for it..it does not always mean we get what we want or make all the decisons. I would say move onto a different lady

and can be critical of our own bodies.   Both parties should only do what they feel comfortable doing.  I would think the reviews
would have reflected a poor body image.  Maybe
something happened that day to affect her self-criticism and is not her customary attitude??  I'm not trying to make excuses just trying to sympathize a little maybe.  


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I guess the way I would look at it is, depending on the price versus previous reviews, that dictates the session.  I won't repeat with a provider that changes her services drastically unless requested for the price.  Tiffany the 19 yr old does this.  link to follow.  Meaning once full service then the next time you see her being half service.  In my opinion its the same thing.

If she didn't want to take off her clothes than the time to say that was on the phone long before the appointment.

I would say it's a bare (pun intended) minimum to expect. And if you not comfortable with it don't take the $.

I think being nked is the first expectation. smelling good is another. so are curvaceous thighs. and soft hands.

not taking her top off is a power move. and you have to play power with power, or you get run over.

I say cut her loose and find another lady.

She sounds like a privoder in name only.

I agree with you.    I was only trying to be diplomatic.

I would think seeing a provider who refuses to take off her top really hard to find? I think skin to skin is a more immediate find
Just find another lady who is reviewed as more open and sensual ok?

And I would be unhappy as well.  I don't mind it if she wants to keep socks or stocking on (I've even heard that having cold feet can make it harder to get aroused) but seeing her naked is part of why I'm seeing her.

Gentleman and Ladies,
Thanks for the responses. I have found this board, currently, very informative and entertaining as well. About this provider, and my sincere apologies as the plot thickens. We argued and although I gave her her donation she apparently felt that I had slighted her and (side note: I have 2 phones 1 for my business and the other for shall we just say more personal things) Anyways, I had my business phone in my bathroom, which she used immediately after our session. Come to find out that me requesting her to take her top off must have set her over the edge because she submerged my phone in water and thus trashed it. I'm writing this shortly after I found this out as I did not have to work today so during the day I had no use for the phone. Anyways, hobbyists email me if you want more details or to know who this pendejo is. Ughhhhhhhhhh

Now that's just mean and un called for.
Hope you have better luck on your next adventure .
Why would you let a provider to use your business phone in the first place ?
Kinda scary no offense.

I'm sorry, but if you're a provider, taking your clothes off is a basic requirement of the job.

Obviously, a lady does not have to do certain acts just because the client wants to, but refusing to remove her clothes?

all i have to say is OH MY GOSH! I can't believe that there are women out there doing this with that mindset... And taking someone's phone and destroying it?? Out of line!
I think both of you men need to move on to another lady... reviews always help!