Kind of a poll question here:
Would the simple fact that a provider has a significant other be a deal breaker for a hobbyist?  
I know most guys don't want to hear  specifically about a SO but would just knowing it be too much?

Not at all. We all need someone special in our lives.

Are you thinking that you are the only person she has sex with?

That to me should be filed under TMI (too much information).  It would be really foolish to assume that providers are like nuns in their personal lives.   (mmmm, thats a whole nuther fantasy)  

If they are sporting a wedding band, I think its pretty obvious but otherwise its information I really don't care to know about.  There was one who for some damn reason thought I would be interested in knowing she wakes her hubby up every morning with a bbbjcim.  Of course this revelation comes after a nice GFE session with DFK, etc.  ewwwww!.   Of course its happening even when we don't know but I don't need that visual in my head bitch!

Honestly, the only time I think it'd be a problem... is when the hobbyist falls for you! I have that problem a lot, because I'm very mature & a really great companion (like almost all of you providers! ;-p)!!

Of course!

I sure don't want to see pics on the dresser!
(Or of the kids, either.)

So, who cares, but it's not the best pillow talk ...

...when I first started in the hobby I thought it was kinda weird when I learned a lady had a SO or husband. Now, after realizing that most of the ladies do have a man in their lives, I just roll with it. The important thing is that she's with me right now.


'Relax....it's just sex!'

I don't care if shes got a SO, but I don't want her to tell me about it.

only a problem if the poor guy can't sleep because the bed is bouncing.

A lot of the men we see wakes up next to their wife every damn day so who the hell cares?! I'm always interested in getting inside peoples heads, I don't mind hearing the story.. I always ask! Common knowledge: Just don't ask if you don't want to know!

Some of my clients ask me, Idk why they do. But id rather not talk about my SO
The session is about YOU and I, not him.

I've even met a couple.

After a long night of making love,
the guy notices a photo of another man, on the woman's nightstand by the bed.
He begins to worry.
'Is this your husband?'
he nervously asks.
'No, silly,'
she replies, snuggling up to him.
'Your boyfriend, then?'
he continues.
'No, not at all,'
she says, nibbling away at his ear.
'Is it your dad or your brother?'
he inquires, hoping to be reassured.
'No, no, no! You are so hot when you're jealous!' she answers.
'Well, who in the hell is he, then?'
he demands.
She whispers in his ear
'That's me before the surgery

Hell to the N - O!! Almost every guy i've seen so far has an SO.. I don't f'n care as long as I don't get wrapped up in the middle of any drama or BS!! It's part of the rules, don't be stupid & careless!

I never ask, but some providers tell me anyways. Some gals need a lesson in stripper etiquette.
And for the record I don't have a SO. If I did, I wouldn't be cheating on her.

In other words married men have no problem screwing someone else's wife.
Some people have really f*ed up values. Or maybe they don't have any at all.