Guys,
I am a new provider and am still feeling out the ropes. I've been hearing varying definitions of GFE. I don't like to disappoint, but also know that each girl must set personal boundaries. I've heard from a few guys BBBJ is offered from certain providers.
So...
A. Is BBBJ common?
B. Where do you guys feel comfortable drawing the line(if at all)?

Yes, BBBJ is offered by many providers, some of whom advertise "GFE".  But many others offer CBJs with their GFE. It's possible to search on BJ type in profiles if you have full VIP, and that would give you some idea of how many do each, and who does what.

with doing. If you start offering a service you are not comfortable with, it will be noticeable during a date and both you and the client will be unhappy.

For me the acronym GFE implies a certain level of experience that includes: cuddling, kissing, conversation, and passion, although as for specific activities I've always defered to the P411 definition that sets the baseline for GFE at BBBJ, DFK, DATY, and MSOG.  
To answer your questions,  
A. Most providers I've seen who advertise GFE include BBBJ as part of their menu.
B. There's a line?

Having seen you Kim, I have no problem with CBJ's or any of your skills. Go with what you are comfortable with. If you are not comfortable with BBBJ it will show in your performance, and that to me is far more important than if there is a sheath on or off.

When I started in MN in October, another provider suggested some of the "norms" that she follows. I guess I accepted her opinion as sacrosanct(a rare occasion for me!).

Thank you. I strive to be genuine.

I simply refuse to see a provider who won't DFK. That's a complete deal breaker. How can you advertise GFE if you won't DFK? I am also very close to that point on the BBBJ, as my feelings are the same as;  

My 2 cents is this. A GFE is a Girl Friend Experience, this means an experience like a girl friend. I have with girl friends only had dfk and bbbj. One night stands are different than girlfriends and may have more restrictions but GFE is a Girlfriend like experience.

In my short time in the hobby, I have had only one GFE, in actual feeling, but I have been fucked by a lot by skilled women. The sole GFE did not include a BJ or FS. It was, and continues to be, an intimate experience with kissing, LFK, body exploration and being together. An off the clock invitation to make out really adds to the GFE.  

pretty much nailed it about what he (and a high percentage of hobbyists) EXPECTS for a $$$ hour escort who is advertising GFE. Unless you are uncomfortable with dfk and bbbj, think seriously about upgrading your menu.  Sensual DFK is even more important than bbbj.  Kissing is an erotic art that builds the intimacy that many seek.  At $300 there is an expectation of more intimate experience- hence the term GFE-

I highly suggest whatever you do, do it well. And from your reviews it shows you do. I like the fact that every provider out there has unique talent.  

If you change your session offerings, then will your session fees also increase?

I see lots of answers to your first question, Kim, but I'm not sure I understand the second one fully, so I don't know if anyone has answered that for you.  If you're referring to BBBJ only, you may be asking whether it's to completion or not.  Speaking solely for myself, an incomplete BBBJ is fun, but I also find CIM to be the very best finish I can have.  To be honest, it's freakin' glorious.   So, Im normally screening for providers who offer that when I do a search.

I had asked the same question not so long ago, and for me it got a little messy, here's why you should follow YOUR gut.

We get it, its about being comfortable. If my gf wanted to put a condom on my dick before giving me a bj, I'd question why. I think we all know what gfe is in the real sense. If provider isn't comfortable doing some of those things, then they shouldn't promote themselves as gfe.

Should they?

I just laugh as how often does a girlfriend offer MSOG. Typically its a one time deal. If its a sexy lady I meet at  a bar its quite often msog. Kinda weird but true

If you, Vostro, want to spread whatever you have, or will someday have, between you and your girlfriend, have at it.  But if a provider, who offers most of the GFE activities, and wants to advertise herself as a GFE provider, but doesn't want to help you spread your little "gift" throughout the hobby community, I applaud and respect her.  It is no grey area, it's called common sense and concern for others.  Obviously both foreign concepts to spoiled, whine-whine-whine, wannabe studs like you.  Stick with your uninformed, IQ-challenged girlfriend.

"GFE = Girl Friend Experience:
This means she will behave like a girlfriend.  Generally, this starts with her demanding that you take out the trash, then she will demand to know where you have been all day long, then she will find something else completely random to complain about, and like how her younger sister is pregnant, and you haven't popped the big question, and her biological clock is ticking.   You know... typical girlfriend stuff."  

that no "one" thing can make or break a mind blowing GF Experience. For me, it's not that "special thing" that she does, or that "one thing" that I do, but ... EVERYTHING that we do "together" ... that makes me seek out my ATF every other day.    I think this type of boyfriend / girlfriend relationship takes time ... usually many visits to blossom.

In this market $300 typically means GFE, which typically means fs, bbbl, dfk, etc.  I have never had a girlfriend that used a condom for a bj.  

At your price point, almost all the providers are offering DFK and BBBJ. You can scan the reviews to verify. I always took it as a sign of your talents that you were so popular despite your more-limited menu. Offer what you like, but yes, adding those two things to your menu would very likely increase your client base.  

Posted By: kimcorruttela

Guys,  
 I am a new provider and am still feeling out the ropes. I've been hearing varying definitions of GFE. I don't like to disappoint, but also know that each girl must set personal boundaries. I've heard from a few guys BBBJ is offered from certain providers.  
 So...  
 A. Is BBBJ common?  
 B. Where do you guys feel comfortable drawing the line(if at all)?  
   
 I'm sure I'll think of more things as time goes on.

We can all agree that Kimberly should only offer those services that she feels comfortable in providing, and I am pleased with the time we shared together and look forward to seeing her again. But let’s take Kimberly out of the equation and consider “Reasonable Expectations”.  

..... which "GFE" is.

you dislike. Maybe it is your expections that you hate. The term GFE has two parts, First, Girl Friend which is subject to who the individuals likes and, second, experience which is open to YMMV. There are too many variables to have "reasonable expectations" when going into a client/provider encounter. I just go in expecting to get my rocks off.

Doctor I am afraid you may have a misdiagnosis, It is not my expectations I dislike about the term GFE, only that there seems to be such a wide interpretation of this acronym that it becomes meaningless as Sailana pointed out. Personally I wish the term had a clear standard for everyone's sake. At best the term serves as a jumping off point for further research.

First and foremost like everyone said only do what you are comfortable with and what you want to do.  This is your business.

The porn industry has spent billions of dollars defining what the typical porn viewer wants, but even then the subcategories are endless. You cannot take a term such as girlfriend which is open to every hetrosexual male and homosexual female on the planet and expect to define it accurately. Maybe we should change the terminology to be defined within our community. Maybe the term sweetheart experience should replace it. But even then we are going to have an expectation of that experience which is limited to the time allotted in the meeting.  After asking the current youth about what it means to have a girlfirend, it comes after time, you have date first apparently. Maybe expections should not be limited to a single experience but a set of them, allowing for the clumsiness of human nature to fade away before one is judged to have experienced the GFE.

Rather than simply define what GFE is or is not, perhaps we’ve missed out on other opportunities like “The Sweetheart Experience”.  

When I am looking at your question and other responses, it seems to me the question that needs to be answered is what is GFE? In my 3 years in this hobby, I have learned that no 2 people have the same definition. For me, GFE is NOT someone telling me to take the trash out (LOL) but someone that is taking the time to get to know me and doing it passionately. Nothing worse than a lady that just lays there or just goes through the motions. As a client, I know the passion is fake but makes the session much more memorable. I only want what the provider is comfortable with; however, what the provider does needs to be done with passion. Hope this makes sense.

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And is most likely when one party has sores or bleeding of some kind in their mouth.

1)  If you don't have this already, get the full VIP membership.  This allows you to see all the reviews and gives a lot of information about what different escorts offer and what their rates are.  Being able to make comparisons between what others do and what you do can help you decide what, if any, changes you want to make to your own practices.

Lots of passionate kissing is a very big part of the GFE. You do a good job with a CBJ but there is nothing the feeling of soft lips and warm wet tongue working intently on giving pleasure. I know I would welcome both kissing and a BBBJ during time spent with you but only if you feel comfortable doing them. It would big dissapointment if you lost any of the energy and enthusiasm you bring to a session because you were doing something you wern't comfortable doing.

As always very well articulated and awesome perspective. This is why you're loved in this community. Happy Monday!!

For me GFE means a real illusion of attraction and serious kissing.

Full disclosure

Good responses so far. For what it's worth, I've seen some providers use GFE but explain what it means to them -- being playful, affectionate, genuine and passionate. They'll clearly state that everything is covered but that's for everyone's safety and is what allows them to really let loose.

Great questions!  I think that the key attribute of GFE has to do with the attitude of the provider.  If a provider advertises GFE, then I expect that they will do everything they can to make the encounter seem less like a transaction than like a fuck session with a girlfriend.  In other words, the provider should be happy to see the gentleman, should be enthusiastic about what is going to happen, should make the gentleman feel appreciated, should have the posture that she really WANTS this encounter.  

I only see bbj ladies, no offense, just me.

To me, GFE is a kind of over-worked term.  For me it's not about specific activities, but about the atmosphere, the attitude.  I often point to Trinity as an example...  limited menu, and yet, her soul is filled with an honest need to nurture you and love on you.  Totally GFE.