Hey Guys-

Been trying to hook up with a couple providers and got snubbed three times already.  Also been hard because it is my first time and dont have references.  Any providers out there want to give this guy a chance or recommendations how to get on the board?

It's a sign, quit now and save your $$$.

ignore talon.

Item 2.:
Do a search of providers you are interested in that are newbie friendly.  This may or may not get you and appointment.

Item 3.:  
If there is a provider you are interested in, offer to meet in a neutral place (coffee shop or bar) to get to know one another prior to a formal appointment.  Expect to pay a fee for this meeting.

My first appointment in the hobby was with a visiting provider.   That may be a way for you to go.

Good luck.

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here are lots of newbie friendly girls. Yah they are like 200 and less and may not be as attractive and what you want but you won't be able to see the well known 300+ girls without having a review. You have to start small and work your way up. There are plenty 30 min 100$ girls out there too for newbies like you

Lots of good info on there.

girls first. They can be found here on TER. Appointments are a little easier to get. After that, along with additional screening requirements ... you may be able to use them for a reference and book with a Newbie friendly FS provider.

It worked for me.

The newbie board here is great. I got a p411 membership. Their approval process kind of freaked me out. But, after I got approval, my first appoint was with Jillian
 It was all worth it!

I'd have died an gone to heaven a happy man right there.  As much as that would have pleased some on this board.

You have to work up to Jillian

Just some tips for newbies that I've picked up through experience and listening to other people:

1.  Check out the newbie board; lots of good info there
2.  Get the VIP membership so you can see the review details and have access to the PM system
3.  Spend some time learning how to use the search functions for both reviews and the discussion board so you can identify ladies you would be interested in seeing based on the criteria that matter most to you (ex: looks, menu, rates, etc.)
4.  Figure out what kind of verification the ladies you would like to see require and how you can meet those requirements.  Some ladies are very particular.  Others are more flexible.  It's OK to contact them about it if you are not sure; just remember to be discreet.  Any  explicit questions will likely get you disconnect or otherwise ignored.
5.  Some ladies advertise here or on other sites that they are newbie friendly; keep an eye out for that.
6.  Consider joining a site such as P411 that pre-screens potential clients.  Some escorts will accept membership in such sites as satisfactory verification.
7.  If you are still puzzled by something after having done research, please feel free to ask questions.  I think for the most part we are willing to help out so long as we think you are not just freeloading on what others have learned.
8.  Develop a bit of a thick skin; some people are going to be jerks regardless.
9.  If an ad or offer looks TGTBT, it's probably TGTBT.
10. If you find yourself in any situation that doesn't feel quite right, trust your instincts and walk away.
11. As a newcomer, stick with well-reviewed ladies.  It's harder when you are inexperienced to figure out who the legit providers are from the fakes and scammers when they don't have reviews.
12.  Google is very useful.  Searching on a phone number or other info from an ad in Google can sometimes save you a lot of grief. Google Image Search is another very useful tool to search for other places where pictures in an ad are being used.
13. To help uncover ads that are using someone else pics Google Image Search and Tineye are useful tools.  Much better to find out ahead of time that the girl you are thinking of calling is using the pics from some porn star or model or that the pics have been used in ads from one side of the country to the other.
14.  Get an anonymous hobby email that is not through your work, school, or anything connected to your real life (yahoo, hotmail, gmail, etc.) and use it for all your hobby email activity and for nothing else.  Be sure you include nothing that identifies who you really are when you create it.
15.  Get a prepaid phone that you use for nothing else other than hobby phone calls and pay cash for it and whatever refill minutes you buy.

Thank you sweetie! What a nice compliment.  

XOXO
Jillian

Uptonogood, you do not exaggerate one single bit. I wish I wasn't so damn nervous and tentative during our visit. It was still amazing, and I remember it like it just happened. As far as people wishing that you were dead, that's just plain not cool. Peas out!

Travelers don't cancel, they have expenses to pay!

you will not be disappointed and they have never cancelled, and its economical!

Any first time recommendations or providers for news