Women at a time do you like the thought that they are doing this  
All for you, and want you to feel like a god, a king? or do you like thinking they really get into  
Each other and you are there to watch, maybe learn and eventually join?
          Do you ever worry you will be left out or unable to keep up? Or does the thought of two beauties  
Tossing around in the sheets make it so enjoyable you don't care how it goes?  
LADIES do you like when your girlfriend is there more for show and is light with her participation, do you worry she will  
Try to be to assertive or not assertive enough? Would you rather develop a friendship with a lady your guy friend chooses
Or do you find it easier to just meet for play?  
     Please know, I have my own ideas and opinions on this topic already I'm not in need of advice - just thought it would be a FUN topic. I'll post my own answers in a couple minutes.  
Happy Tuesday  
~Mindy

When the girls work well together it is so much fun. Then it is more of a show when they are not touching me.

So, this has got to be a personal preference thing if there EVER was one.  For me, it is the GENUINE enjoyment of all.  That is what intrigues me with the hobby.  I am a pretty intuitive person and I want the girl (or girls in this delicious scenario) to be as turned on as me.  Yes, I know it is a job and there is a certain amount of transaction, but if I am lucky enough to be with TWO beautiful women, I want them to get as much joy from each other as I do....

I'm going with two beauties in the sheets is so enjoyable that I don't care how it goes.  A staged service like the god king thing would wreck it for me.  The whole idea is to have fun, if the girls are into each other and welcome me into the party that would be fun.  Others will feel differently but for me; don't stage anything just let everything happen

Awesome reply. So thoughtful. =)
 For me if I'm invited by the gal friend and it's her guy friend, I'm a little more watching for cues and
Never want to be too involved with the man unless I can tell she likes the idea.  

Not even sure what you mean by staged? I'm talking about doting most specifically on the man, that would mean:

Some guys are afraid they will feel left out or that the girls won't be into each other... this is what I hear from clients. I find it best to meet a lady you are going to be playing with before you actually meet with the gent. This allows you to discuss your comfort level, turn ons and turn offs... even if its only 15 or 30 minutes before the date! I have shown up blind to meet friends who have their other friend come along, and this works but I may be surprised by their appearance, or make them uncomfortable with my assertive attitude if they aren't very experienced or truly bi. We just fly by the seat of our pants and I've never NOT had fun, but it is way more fun when you get to know your new friend I love meeting ladies this way! I am never worried about the lady's contribution to the date because always go in firing all cylinders  

I want to make sure I've seen both ladies individually , to gage compatibility, also I'd prefer Women who have experience with each other , as I want everyone involved to have fun. I envision we all take turns on each other . 2 on 1 all around . I don't feel the need to be the center of attention the whole time but I am happy to take my turn

It is a good idea that everyone be familiar with one another in some form.  

It's so much more fun if the ladies WANT and NEED to interact....such a turn on to see two ladies
in 69 and thoroughly enjoying each other!  OMG yes and yes!!!!

I really enyoy watching  two  females in  a passionate mAkeout session.  It really turns me on

Posted By: Mindyzurgirl

Awesome reply. So thoughtful. =)  
  For me if I'm invited by the gal friend and it's her guy friend, I'm a little more watching for cues and  
 Never want to be too involved with the man unless I can tell she likes the idea.  
   
 However I love getting down with a gal now & then and I have learned -what men have known all along, when it comes  
 to women no sex is bad sex !! So female playtime with no guy is always fun. If the gal is a treat for my guy friend I like to treat her as such.....  
 I always like to know my female play friends a little and there will always be one here and there that I decide not so much my type, therefore getting together for specifics is the best relationship.  
   
 If I like who the gal is too, the fun possibilities are endless & that allows for all my talent -in understanding boundaries- to become quit useful, as friends, and sometimes more...though these scenarios are rare.  
   
  And finally I'm not sure if it's important for a guy to view his playmates as always in the same role ...but I think balance is key and love to switch it up....meaning with gals I have no problem taking control and being controlled. =)  
      ***  So that's my 2cents on a fun topic for a boring day ***

If they're really "bi" and into each other and me then it's fun.  Otherwise not real interesting to me.

once told me . . .   no wait, that was something else.

My only experience so far has been where both women were not really bi, but still had no issues working together with one gentleman.  It was certainly fun being the center of attention the whole time.

... was with two women I already knew pretty well. I believe they knew each other but had not played before, and they were totally into each other from the start, taking me along for the ride. I'm not charismatic and I'm sure as shit not sexy, but I work hard to let my lady friends know they are safe with me and I think that gave them freedom to push boundaries with each other in ways I never would have dared. At various times, since, each of us has commented that it was a very special night with three people who were totally involved and in the moment. I don't know how repeatable it was, but it sure is a great memory.

Staged may have been a poor word choice.  There are men who would prefer that there needs be first, for me it would be more fun to have all three with no guidelines, Just get together and let nature go where it does.  for me at least when I meet you I don't want you to be there for me, I want us to be there for both of us.  If there are 3 that does not change anything.  if it looks good lick it!!  I sincerely hope that when I leave my new acquaintance says.  "that was fun"

but it is on my bucket list!!

Wow Mindy, not afraid to say that I have only fantasized about this. I know me personally I would NOT want feel like a god or king. One of the biggest turn ons for me is the lady that I am with enjoying herself or getting pleasure from what we may be doing. Seeing 2 girls really enjoying each other, I could watch that all day. I would say if this ever happened, that we would have to go by feel and instinct. I would have no problem waiting my turn on the "sidelines" but would be ready to play when it was my turn.

I always considered myself a 1:1 oriented patron, however...

I like it when everyone is involved in the action and I enjoy watching the women enjoy each other as well.

I agree with Valorn. Having all 3 people being active participants and taking turns in the middle to help everyone have the most intense orgasms of their life is the reason for doubles. Two of my favorite things would be double blow job with two women French kissing each other with me in the middle and being inside a women as she clenches and shakes during the most intense orgasm of her life from getting oral from the other women. Group snuggles and 4 hand massages are also awesome.