When the girls work well together it is so much fun. Then it is more of a show when they are not touching me.

So, this has got to be a personal preference thing if there EVER was one.  For me, it is the GENUINE enjoyment of all.  That is what intrigues me with the hobby.  I am a pretty intuitive person and I want the girl (or girls in this delicious scenario) to be as turned on as me.  Yes, I know it is a job and there is a certain amount of transaction, but if I am lucky enough to be with TWO beautiful women, I want them to get as much joy from each other as I do....

So there ya go, Mindy

I'm going with two beauties in the sheets is so enjoyable that I don't care how it goes.  A staged service like the god king thing would wreck it for me.  The whole idea is to have fun, if the girls are into each other and welcome me into the party that would be fun.  Others will feel differently but for me; don't stage anything just let everything happen

Just a few of my favorite things

Some guys are afraid they will feel left out or that the girls won't be into each other... this is what I hear from clients. I find it best to meet a lady you are going to be playing with before you actually meet with the gent. This allows you to discuss your comfort level, turn ons and turn offs... even if its only 15 or 30 minutes before the date! I have shown up blind to meet friends who have their other friend come along, and this works but I may be surprised by their appearance, or make them uncomfortable with my assertive attitude if they aren't very experienced or truly bi. We just fly by the seat of our pants and I've never NOT had fun, but it is way more fun when you get to know your new friend I love meeting ladies this way! I am never worried about the lady's contribution to the date because always go in firing all cylinders  

My best girl friends are never a disappointment though! We are all really bi I have two friends I have known for YEARS and absolutely adore... these women are so sexy to me from head to toe, inside and out. They know who they are! Once you know a person you can be attracted to them as a human being and not just as a body. This makes playtime energy surge over the top with genuine excitement, no matter who the third party may be. (IMHO)

xoxo
Natalie

It's so much more fun if the ladies WANT and NEED to interact....such a turn on to see two ladies
in 69 and thoroughly enjoying each other!  OMG yes and yes!!!!

Having said that.....our partner is never left out!!!!!

Red (the SASSY one)

If they're really "bi" and into each other and me then it's fun.  Otherwise not real interesting to me.

once told me . . .   no wait, that was something else.

i fear i may be too old and poor and desicated and sceptical to truly enjoy le menage a trois anymore . . . .   but i do wish i could try

when i think about this, mindy, it seems to me i would most enjoy equal attention paid by each of the 3 to the other two . . .   egalitarian . . .

My only experience so far has been where both women were not really bi, but still had no issues working together with one gentleman.  It was certainly fun being the center of attention the whole time.

I really want to experience being with 2 truly bi woman, though.  The idea of just being able to sit back and watch them enjoy each other from time to time during the session is a huge turn on.  I am not worried about being left out.  There will be plenty to go around for everyone

... was with two women I already knew pretty well. I believe they knew each other but had not played before, and they were totally into each other from the start, taking me along for the ride. I'm not charismatic and I'm sure as shit not sexy, but I work hard to let my lady friends know they are safe with me and I think that gave them freedom to push boundaries with each other in ways I never would have dared. At various times, since, each of us has commented that it was a very special night with three people who were totally involved and in the moment. I don't know how repeatable it was, but it sure is a great memory.

It could not have been that good if they had not been honestly attracted to each other. It could not have been that good if I had been worried about trying to keep up with them, because clearly I couldn't. It could not have been that good if they had not been sincerely interested in making me a full participant in the festivities, as much as I was able.

but it is on my bucket list!!

Wow Mindy, not afraid to say that I have only fantasized about this. I know me personally I would NOT want feel like a god or king. One of the biggest turn ons for me is the lady that I am with enjoying herself or getting pleasure from what we may be doing. Seeing 2 girls really enjoying each other, I could watch that all day. I would say if this ever happened, that we would have to go by feel and instinct. I would have no problem waiting my turn on the "sidelines" but would be ready to play when it was my turn.

I always considered myself a 1:1 oriented patron, however...

I would love to participate in a B/G/G experience but never pushed it because:
1) The one lady I see who I know who truly enjoys these G/G encounters...well I'm not ready to share her yet when I'm with her (maybe after more 1:1 time )
2) I feel like I'm in foreign territory.  Yes I want to start by them touching...when do I slowly enter in the fold?
3) I don't want to focus too much on 1 girl but I probably will.. Is that a problem?  Again, I tend to get laser beamed on the one I want to cum with, but I feel bad because I think I should just be more free flowing...Goes back to my natural state of wanting to pounce on just one woman yet want to be dazzled by two.
4) Summing up 1,2, and 3, should I really push for this?  In the end it seems best that I would just watch the two go at it and when 1 finally surrenders I plunder her!
 

I like it when everyone is involved in the action and I enjoy watching the women enjoy each other as well.

I agree with Valorn. Having all 3 people being active participants and taking turns in the middle to help everyone have the most intense orgasms of their life is the reason for doubles. Two of my favorite things would be double blow job with two women French kissing each other with me in the middle and being inside a women as she clenches and shakes during the most intense orgasm of her life from getting oral from the other women. Group snuggles and 4 hand massages are also awesome.

In hobby life I would not worry too much about being left out unless I had been left out before in which case I would just not do doubles with them again. In real life though people tend to naturally pair off and it only works if all 3 people are really secure with themselves and they make a conscience effort to give the other two people what they really need. Which requires a lot of communication and patients because in this type of situation people usually don't know what they actually need because it brings out a lot of new insecurities and their needs change as the relationship progresses.

I don't worry too much about keeping up but it kind of depends on what your definition of keeping up is. Am I going to be up for 2 hours straight? Maybe, if I get a good nights sleep, eat my Wheaties, take 2 Viagra, wear a really thick condom and travel to the future to get a bionic penis installed, just kidding, but if your definition is participating in some manner, mouth, hand, snuggles then absolutely no problem. Most men are not going to keep up with one women let alone two and everyone involved should be ok with a little down time. Part of the advantage of having an extra set of hands is to help during the down time.

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