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my pet peeve.....
KidsAtPlay 1679 reads
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the pet peeve of the week thread.  

To me it is just another way to:
1. bash providers
2. beat a dead horse and rehash what has already been bitched about all week long.

Just what is the point of posting about a ncns or any other type of mistreatment by a provider if you are unwilling to name the party.  Are you somehow hoping that she will read the post, recognize it might have been her and feel guilty and make it up to you or something? Are you still waiting to see if she will make it right?  Well, as a suggestion, if you have a problem with a provider its always a good idea if you can work it out privately.  But if weeks pass and she hasn't made any effort to make things right, then move on.  And yes, please tell us about it but give us a name or STFU!

It has happened to ALL of us at some point.  Doesn't make it right but its a bit like the kid who goes home crying to his momma that some bully beat him up but he doesn't want to say who.

Yesterday after being unable to reach my first choices, I called Jasmine. Her BP ads show her as an attractive blond (probably fake pics) in Bloomington/Eagan. We set something up for 12:30 and I drove to the approximate location.
12:30 became 12:45 then no answer and no voicemail of course. A couple more tries and I decided to move on. I was able to set something up with Carmen (review pending) and I'm glad I did.

Jasmines approximate location leads me to believe she may have been the same girl I saw a couple of weeks ago as Haley, sp? You all make up your own mind whether I gave her enough time. I already made up mine!

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Ryan7771394 reads

Maya, of all people. Less than a hour from our meeting time, after very friendly back and forth calls, it was NCNS. In her defense, it was pretty much exactly when she fell off the radar. Hopefully, she just retired for a bit and she's OK.  And no, it wasn't something I said. :):)

Would definitely have to be when my pictures are accused of being fake. Can I ask what makes pics believable? Would a date stamp or me holding a name card help? Don't hate me 'cause I'm beautiful ;)

-- Modified on 8/19/2011 9:30:00 AM

Just look through the ads. I'm sure you will be able to tell what makes a pic look authentic and when it looks TGTBT.

If you are beautiful and have professional pictures taken, include a more candid shot or two with a cheaper/cell phone camera. Also make sure you tell us that the pics are 1000% real! Just kidding.

Posted By: AlluringNatalie
Would definitely have to be when my pictures are accused of being fake. Can I ask what makes pics believable? Would a date stamp or me holding a name card help? Don't hate me 'cause I'm beautiful ;)

-- Modified on 8/19/2011 9:30:00 AM

What makes pics believeable - they actually resemble what you look like in person. It's a novel concept I know, but for some reason guys expect it. Edited glamour shots can make anyone look good, but seldom equal a fair representation of reality.

...where when you click on the thumbnail pics the resulting pic is the same size or often a smaller size than the thumbnail! C'mon ladies... I know these sites are free but there are plenty of other sites that offer full size portfolio pics. We wanna see the goods before we buy!


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KidsAtPlay1680 reads

the pet peeve of the week thread.  

To me it is just another way to:
1. bash providers
2. beat a dead horse and rehash what has already been bitched about all week long.

Only all week? I can track down 2yrs worth.

Well,

My original thought was that maybe we could just play nice for most of the week and then just put all the shit one place if its something we just gotta get off our chest.  

I donno, I thought the past week was a bit more civil than before.

It sure makes it more likely it is really you if you have a well recognized local landmark in the background, or wear something from a local sports team

Please put at least the 1 hour rate, your contact info, and a picture or two on the home page.  That way it is more like an ad ad if I am interested in more detail you can still have other pages with that info.

Some reviews are posted for an unreviewed escort, using only estimates of "Appearance" information and "Don't know" for services offered. The initial review does not relate the proper physical description and not knowing the services offered, may cloak some wonderful items that review readers are seeking. The problem is, profiles are very difficult to change once posted.

Unfortunatly, all that info may only be available from the provider, and can be skewed for her benefit.

I think you are being a bit harsh here.

There are a number of legit reasons not to name someone I think.

- Young/New providers--some of us at least cut them a bit of slack;

- have yet to be able to reach them so they can give their side of the story;

- don't want to be seen as a complainer on the board if in fact there may be a good reason behind the complaint;

- based out of a location where it may not be good to name the provider on a public board like this for safety reasons;

Probably some others out there as well.  

3 out of four of those applied to a few posts of mine in a pet peeve thread recently.

I agree with everything you said.  But my point was that a guy should not come on the board and start whining about how some provider mistreated him if he isn't ready to share her identity with us.  Work it out with her!  f you can't then its good information for everyone to know.

Thankfully it doesn't happen often but I have had a couple of providers send me a text, randomly on a weekend or in the evening.  Most of the time when I am home my cell phone is just laying around the house and random text from a provider that I have seen in the past is dangerous. The good news is that when it has happened I have asked that they not text at these times and they all have complied.

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