Alright, I just simply MUST get this off of my chest.  I have been visiting the TC for 4 years WITHOUT any problems.  I stay OUT of the drama, gossip and petty BS both on this board and just in general.  When I have had an opinion, I always attempt to write it in a way where no person will take offense but understand what I am attempting to say..but this is BULL.  

I had an apt with a gent (term used loosely).  Upon meeting and having a great time ( his words) he attempted to renegotiate the rate.  He mentioned that my rate is simply too high and that well reviewed providers are no different and should know their place. $$ is fair. After he realized that is WAS NOT going to happen he pulled out the threat card.  

He mentioned that he was part of a group of about 30 strong and that it was in my best interest to lower my rate to $$ if I expected to get ANY biz in the TC.  Well, getting biz here for me isn't a problem..not after visiting for so long.  After about 10 min of this garbage he leaves.  A few emails later asking me to reconsider and I politely declining I thought this was OVER.

Not a chance in hell.  8a in the morning there is a knock on my door.  Some guy is standing there ...WTF ?  I, of course, don't answer.....about 9:30a same thing.  It seems that this gent decided to go through with his threat and gave some of his "buddies" my exact location and room number.  WTF ?

I have NEVER had this happen to me ANYWHERE !!!  Luckily, I control my schedule and only see a few apts a day.  What if another gent had been in the room ?  You weren't only endangering ME but you were alos endangering your FELLOW HOBBYIST.

It did spook me ( I think it would spook ANYONE).  BUT I WILL NOT BE STRONGARMED nor will I fold to some "group".  

I wanted to thank all the wonderful gents that have supported me in the past when I have visited the TC.  I have met some wonderful hobbyist in this town and have made several friends here.  I don't think that I am the only person that this has happened to....in my case it WILL NOT WORK.

I am sorry to the few new gents that I didn't get to meet but please understand that discretion works BOTH ways and an uneasy provider = bad session.  This is bull and I can't believe that some of the "gents" in the community have stooped so low and have decided to "out" providers that will not yield to discount requests AFTER THE FACT.

A warm and big thank you to the gents that appreciate their providers and have always treated me with respect and dignity.
Missy

this is disturbing and sad.  i have found that courtesy and honesty are the best ways to operate with girls.  no one deserves to be threatened.

Hey Gal,

Even though I have never met ya, you seem like a class act.  I'm really embarassed that someone from our community pulled that B.S. with ya.  Even though I am kind of between rookie and regular I can tell you this, no one thinks poorly of you.  Who ever that guy is, and who ever he is affilaited with (I think we can both figure that one out, ahum J) they have no where near the clout it would take to hurt your well deserved rep here.

Again, I apolagize.

Kidd

I just can't believe that some guys in this town have gone so low to do this???...Just WTF is going on in this town anyway??.. and just what did this GRP GFE group really think they where trying to do here!!... I guess they just want the travelers to stay  away?... I am soooo sorry Missy that you had to go through that.. and believe me I got the ear full on that one this morning!! Freaking thanks guys!! Those cold winds of minnesota... I guess are really cold!!

Also thank you for handling the bad situation so well... Classy and incredibly strong.

you are certainly on my list of classy gals that I would like to eventually see. I am appalled that there is a jerk (A$$HOLE)out there that would pull this nonsense. He makes it hard for  new & good hobbyists to get a date. Good luck and please come see us again.

This charm school graduate sounds like a good candidate for that nationalblacklist.com that was mentioned earlier on this board.

I've not had the pleasure of meeting you but have noted your words of wisdom on this board regularly.  We all know their are assholes and jerks in this world and I am sure it's not the first time you've encountered some of them.  This guy and his group of friends do not represent the TC hobbying community and I am glad you realize that and did not kowtow to their demands or dismiss the TCs as a place to visit.  I sincerely hope your next visit is a smashing success.

That is total BS.  I have seen Missy a number of times.  (Hi Missy, From the Cheesecake Guy!!!!)  I know from first hand experience that she is a class act and would be a bargain at twice the rate she asks.  It's too bad that this "gent" can't be outted publically along with his group of 30.  F*#@ these guys.

Stay safe and please offer to share this information.

Missy, I know I can speak to all those in TCs who are truly Honest Hobbists..WE apologize. I normally do not post, BUT after reading your experience..I could no longer remain quiet. As always there are a few a**** around!!  Don

Ok so we got some of the outstanding regulars chipping in here to support you, here here !  To bad the tar and feather days were in a bygone era.

I now am hearing through the mill that some people think this was the old MDL... well I know for a fact that  it wasn't sooo let's just move on with that one.. we have enough issues around here.. then to start more rumors that just are not true!!

Let me start by giving a big "THANK YOU" to the TC community.  I appreciate the overwhelming amount of support and the wonderful emails that I have recieved.

Now, let also state that IS WAS NOT MDL.  I know that several ladies have had problems with him,his opinions and the like, but I am not one of them.  In all honesty he has treated me with nothing but respect.  Never asking for a discount, overstaying his welcome etc.  

I will say (and have in the past)that I refused to see him for some time because of all the chatter and we met without me first knowing that he was the infamous MDL.  I only found out after reading his review who he really was.

This little incident will not prevent me from visiting your wonderful city in the future.  There are bad apples everywhere, I just happen to come by one.

I will not out this guy on the board. Not my style. This is suppose to be a fun hobby not "As The Escort World Turns". I will share the info that I have with the ladies that have Pm'ed me their concerns upon my return home this evening.

Once again, thank you.  MN nice still rules (smiles)
Missy

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even after all the bull... still a class act and tops in my book!

does someone else deserve to go thru the same, and does he deserve the protection???????

No Peachs, you are correct.  He DOES NOT deserve protection.  I am making the info available to several ladies only forums and the BC route.  There are several avenue that us ladies take to spread the info without posting a gents real info on a public national board.  I just didn't think that posting his name on here along with other info was the way to go.

This happens more often than hobbyist know.  While the ladies are made aware of it via many different avenues, the hobbyists are none the wiser to the drama unfolding behind the scenes.  I seldom post any drama like I have...this just really ticked me off.  
I definitely DO NOT think ANY lady deserves to go through this.  It was complete bull.  I don't even know if he is a regular poster on here.  If he is, I am not aware of it.  I hope that all the ladies know and realize that they do not have to give in to such pressure tactics.
Missy

Everyone else in the Cities supports you.  Sorry for one to ruin your visit.

She can't post this on the public board, that would get her banned, and we don't want that! (We need MORE of her on this board, not less of her!)

By making this publicly known like she has, then responding to PM's from the ladies that are intrested in knowing, it makes the whole system of check and balance work!
 If all providers were like Missy, there would be no reason for GoPhones, false names, hushmail, ect.... She is and always has handled these things in a trust-instilling manner.
 Just as we men take pre-emptive measures against all providers in an effort to stop only a few psyco-girls from ruining our lives, I completely respect her right and the rights of women of her high caliber to use such means to protect themselves.

BUT!  I will continue to whine, rant, stomp my feet, and spew vulgarities at the idea that this stuff can be handled in a public forum!

Back to the BatCave for me! I need to charge my GoPhone and troll the line ads ...... I've got a boner that's just not going to go away by it's self! lol!

Yeah I hear it might snow this weekend........

Missy could I have your email so I can contact you about this, I am a provider from  the twin cities and will provide my name when I email you, thanks..