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Im really bummed about that post being removed,, it was freaking hilarious and informative ..
Anyways,, vorlon made a really good point..
Just because you get P411 info doesnt put them in the clear.. especially when it comes to someone who doesnt have any okays.. and there are providers who will make you jump through a multitude of hoops to see them..
There are quite a few providers who will NOT accept basic membership. All that says is that you are employed however it does not tell us if you are safe and respectful if you dont have any okays..
To say that one persons screening protocols are stiffer and make that sound like a bad thing is wrong.
Every lady has their own personal level of comfort in regards to their security, and some its tighter than others and thats because thats what makes them feel comfortable, and in this instance you have to play by their rules, and just like vorlon said if you cant come to that agreement you have to move on to someone who wil ..
Now I would look like an assole now if I reposted that previous thread because the sarcastic was directed at the one imparticular person who removed his own bullshit,, but however I will repost the bottom half,, cause it made some really good points
"lets use the top 10 providers in Minnesota as an example amongst them there are a little over 600 reviews.. and these are the cream of the crop.. and the fact is if you want to see them you have to go through screening, and based on the amount of reviews they have amongst themselves they are not hurting for clients that are willing to follow their protocols to see them.. and they wouldnt be there if they were irresponsible with a clients info or used it for nefarious reasons. kcmn has said on occasion there are some quality ladies on this board that he would like to see, so let him ask the questions so he can get there.. And lets stop with the whole bullshit its us against them propaganda, because last time I checked we are all here on the premise of pleasure and it gets tiring when certain individuals want to twist it into something ugly ..
Its not unheard of but the providers who do it RIGHT and are responsible with clients info far outweighs the handful of providers who are out to hurt clients.. and 9 times out of 10 its quickly nipped because of community boards such as this.
There are asshole clients out there who have outted providers, does that mean every client is going to do it ? Nope
There are rotten apples on both sides and providers and hobbyists are pretty diligent about taking out the trash..
There are reviews to assist clients in screening providers and providers have protocols to assist ib screening clients ,, these are functions that should be working in sync with eachother to build a better, safer, positive community rather than working against eachother
kcmn , if I may answer your question with an intelligent answer,,
standard screening form info
Name , safe number, email address
Age ((is asked because a percentage of providers have age restrictions or instance I wont see anyone under 30 ..))
Secure site info , P411, Date-Check, RS2K.. ((some providers will accept TER whitelists and some providers wont because TER is a review site not a secure screening site such as the other three are.))
2-3 Recent Established Verifiable Provider References
(( this varies amongst providers, some will not accept references from ladies who strictly work off backpage and will only accept references from Established known providers in the community, As far as recency that can vary depending on provider from 2-6 months to a year))
The employment info boxes on a form or the request for employment info is typically only needed if you do not have provider references or secured site information. Though there are providers who want the whole kit and kaboodle. And if you want to see that provider than you have to follow the protocols that she has set up for herself in regards to her personal safety and security and it really is that simple.
And going back to the top 10 ,, I know for certain that those ladies screen their clients because Ive had the pleasure of working for a few of them and again if you want to see them you have to follow their rules. But, you can tell by their reviews that jumping through their hoops pales in comparison to the amazing awesome time you will have, and they do that because they know they're worth it
If you dont want to jump through the hoops then you have move on and find the providers who dont require those hoops..
And this might kick up some dust but I would question any woman who didnt have screening protocols in place, because if she didnt care enough about herself to give shit about her own personal safety and security, then she certainly isnt going to care enough to give a shit about your safety and security either, which in turn would make me question the men who want to see those ladies..
But we dont have to go far to find them because those are the clients and the providers that have their faces plastered all over the news when there is a big sting operation ..
I only see clients who will only see me because I screen because they know that in essence we all have to work together to keep eachother safe, and thats part of what makes me a Professional. "