I just disapproved another post from a hobbyist asking a provider for a session with a specific date and time. I had another hobbyist post which hotel he was staying at and asked for a specific time on another.

Guys, use your noggins. If you like what see, send a private mail or call her directly.

For the providers, feel free to book me via PM.
I don't come cheap though

4 BJ's!

He posted his hotel?  That's not much better than calling the cops and asking them to book one for you (which I actually read a news story about that happening some time ago).

and business emails too.
I don't want to be too hard on the newbies, but there has to be a level of common sense.

A couple days ago I saw this :


Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, Common Sense, who has been with us for many years.
No one knows for sure how old he was, since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape. He will be remembered as having cultivated such valuable lessons as: - Knowing when to come in out of the rain; - Why the early bird gets the worm; ... - Life isn't always fair; - And maybe it was my fault. Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies, don't spend more than you can earn and adults, not children, are in charge.

His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well-intentioned but overbearing regulations were set in place. Reports of a 6-year-old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a classmate; teens suspended from school for using mouthwash after lunch; and a teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition.

Common Sense lost ground when parents attacked teachers for doing the job that they themselves had failed to do in disciplining their unruly children. It declined even further when schools were required to get parental consent to administer sun lotion or an aspirin to a student; but could not inform parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.
Common Sense lost the will to live as the churches became businesses; and criminals received better treatment than their victims.
Common Sense took a beating when you couldn't defend yourself from a burglar in your own home and the burglar could sue you for assault. Common Sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed to realize that a steaming cup of coffee was hot. She spilled a little in her lap, and was promptly awarded a huge settlement.
Common Sense was preceded in death, by his parents, Truth and Trust, by his wife Discretion, his daughter Responsibility, and his son, Reason. He is survived by his 4 stepbrothers; I Know My Rights, I Want It Now, Someone Else Is To Blame, I'm A Victim. Not many attended his funeral because so few realized he was gone.

Maybe the post of the year!!!!

Thanks MsD.  

That was the best one I've heard in a long time!!

Boundaries has appeared to have taken a turn for the worst too.
I figured this out when a few of my lady friends Facebook profiles have been stalked with would be clients looking for appointments including mine and my sisters (both had to be deactivated because of this! So now how am I supposed to know what my celtic name is or who killed me in mafia wars or who sent me a heart ?

This is my advice to hobbyists everywhere :
Providers personal Twitter and Facebook accounts are NOT the proper places to contact, schedule appointments ever !
If you should happen to stumble upon a providers personal account as some of you amateur detectives often do...
Do a huge favor by leaving them alone in their personal lives.
You obviously don't see us trying to add you or invading your privacy.

Now thats just creepy and not very smart of either to do imho.
There are better ways of screening without invading someones privacy so that doesn't happen in the first place.