I have seen several providers in the past. On several occasions I have come accross providers with fake photos. Looking to get laid and with limited time I usually just go ahead with the appointment. The link below is one I have visited and gotten a girl who would be better described as a bbw than what is pictured or advertised.

I am wondering if there are others who experience this and what do you do about it. What I want to do is walk away, but feel obligated and extremely disappointed.

I have also been experiencing a lot of girls who set up appointments and then when you arrive they do not answer their phones.

I, for one, am getting sick of both experiences.

Thanks. That helps with fake pics, but what if you still feel suckered by th ad? I guess the real question is, when is it ok to back out of an appointment?

Don't feel sorry.

She got you there through deception.

Now, if she's close to the girl in the pics, I'd probably stay but that's up to each guy.

I agree, there are a million and one ways to advertise while keeping anonymity. BTW the girl in question was reviewed, and the review clearly states the pictures were fake. Just say sorry, was expecting someone else and walk away.

One gentleman I met said that over one-third of the ladies he meets end up being not who they say they are.  Wow!  Does that seem possibly right?  Or did he just have incredibly bad luck?

I believe he said his solution was if she was still attractive he stayed, if not he just turned a left.  He was understandably happy that my pictures are really me!  

Hmmmmm... if a picture is worth a thousand words, it's too bad that our attitude, personality, and enjoyment of the hobby can't also be pictured!  I guess that is what reviews are for.

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Wendy

That is why I never get my foot out of the door until I am happy with what I am looking at at incalls. Plus my car is backed in the parking space for fast exits. I simply tell her that I was here for a different girl, she does not look like the one I came for. Please If she does not look like her pictures, but she is so fine I would have tapped it anyway, then I stay. But if I was coming for a 8 (out of 10) and found a 5 when I arrived, I'm gone!

Take my advice.  Leave.  I have left many times and stayed a few times.  Every time but once when I stayed I regretted it.  The initial deception continues and becomes part of the entire experience and my experiences have been very bad.

So, I simply, and politely, say "I'm sorry.  I was expecting someone else."  Then, I turn around and walk away.  I don't engage them at all as it only leads to problems.  Once you walk away, your initial frustration will be tempered by the realization that you still have some Benjis in your pocket and if you had gone through with it, they would be gone and you would have had an unsatisfying experience.  

One time I walked away when the lady answered the door and was 10 years older than the lady in the pic and 30 lbs heavier than the thin photo.  I looked at her, then said, "Sorry, I was expecting someone else."  She then yelled, "I am not fat!!!" and slammed the hotel room door.  The funny thing about the whole thing is that I never said anything about her being fat.  I suspect someone else did before me.

My experience both personal and reading posts here is that the number would be much higher actually. I just looked at BP for the first time in ages and was amazed at the advertising. Funny how you can see so many of the same girl with different names, phone numbers, etc. Let's not forget those that use internationally famous models such as Iga Wyrwał (and yep those ads are still there). Some ads are just so bloody apparent that the picts are fake it is almost amusing, others though not so much. How many 411 posts have I seen since being around here with the "OMG its too good to be true" and they are almost always too good to be true.

But your right, attitude and personality don't come through with pictures as easily. However they do come through sometimes on just the initial contact. If I am "bothering" someone when I call or e-mail, odds I probably just want to stay home and watch a movie. But the real key here is that those that do have that nice attitude and personality get repeat calls. Does anyone on either side truly enjoy after a while having to venture out into the unknown each time? That has to be stressful some. I would think that you for example Wendy would prefer to have a gentlemen you know, who is awfully nice, call you a 2nd and even 3rd time. In the end these girls do themselves no favor with their fake picts, awful attitudes, and rude personalities because who ultimately is going to keep calling them? Not me, and not most of the nicer guys.

FYI I have learned that pictures really are not worth a thousand words. They may give a good representation or idea of what to expect, but that is about it.

I too have run into this situation a couple of times as well and am curious to know from a providers' point of view what a graceful exit strategy would be.  I am open to any input though, provider or not.

Aside from pictures, I also go by the description that is given on the web page of the provider.  I know, I know, it is never polite to ask the weight of a lady but what if the number that is posted on the website is clearly different than reality?  Let's say that the provider is somewhere in the range of 30lbs or more heavy than what was advertised and I'm just not attracted to what I see when I meet in person.  Without being rude, what would a graceful exit strategy be?

I agree with some of the posts offering some reward for the inconvenience of a session basically being skipped but would feel a little uncomfortable in that the provider may lash out by trying to tarnish my reputation to other providers or adding me to a black list that is public etc... in the event that I don't offer enough of a reward.  Am I crazy for being concerned about this?

So, in summary, what is a fair way to walk away after meeting and finding yourself un-attracted / un-interested?