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vorlon 119 Reviews 1371 reads
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I'm perfectly willing to give people a second chance and have had good results with that strategy with some providers.  But when it becomes a habit, well that I won't put up with.

thorsdad1320 reads

in light of all the positive reviews of deja ,which imust say Im sure she earned I wanted to relate my experiences. I have called deja 5 times. The first time I waited over an hour to be called  up to the room. The encounter was wonderful but an hour is excessive. The second time I saw her it was on time and great. The third time she nsnc completely. The fourth time after an hour and 15 minutes of waiting she returned my call and was surprised I left. The fifth time she again nsnc me again. I have given up ,has anyone had any similar experiences with her? I just thought people should know,I see insome of her new reviews they also talk about her being late tobad

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bluwoodsman998 reads

She actually salvaged a date for me that fell apart when a different provider pulled out of a scheduled meeting. She was late for several reasons, but did maintain contact with me about being late.  Made up for it when we met.  I would have no qualms with seeing her again.    

She has some other things going on in life from what I understand that could easily mess with time plans, and I expect from my experience she is pretty popular if she treats others as well.  I think as hobbyists it pays to recognize some providers can be pretty busy in their lives outside of the hobby--and that can mess with their best laid plans for meeting you on time-- and adjust accordingly.

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vorlon956 reads

I understand thing come up and unexpected events can disrupt plans but a NCNS is another matter when sending a text or making a quick call is so easy.

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mnjohnny247899 reads

....how does one adjust accordingly to a NCNS?  Vorlon is right, delays and other time issues should be met with some level of understanding (or adjustment), but NCNS?  There is no adjusting to that, imho.  It is a big waste of valuable time and effort for the hobbyist, just as it is for providers who get a NCNS from a hobbyist.  And in the case of this OP it was not a single incident.
This topic has been posted about frequently, but the best advice is to be in contact, unless it is a flat out emergency, there is just no excuse for a NCTENS (No CALL, text, email/ No Show).

Posted By: bluwoodsman
 She has some other things going on in life from what I understand that could easily mess with time plans, and I expect from my experience she is pretty popular if she treats others as well.  I think as hobbyists it pays to recognize some providers can be pretty busy in their lives outside of the hobby--and that can mess with their best laid plans for meeting you on time-- and adjust accordingly.

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bluwoodsman734 reads

I react to what I see and experience directly.  Just think there are some providers who--while I'm not excusing it--have reasons due to personal life issues for not communicating when things don't work out for them.  

And I'm not suggesting that the NCNS should be excused.  

I am suggesting that we look in the mirror.  

When you certainly aren't a newbie to the hobby, can see the history of a provider--and STILL take the plunge with no backup plan apparent (at least it wasn't mentioned)...it reminds me of that old joke.  Where the doctor has a guy come in who says "doc it hurts when I do this".  I'm the doc saying "then don't do that!"  

If you have the time to set something up ahead of time there are plenty of fantastic much more reliable providers around.  If not--and I know from experience that the better providers are often not reachable unless you can arrange things days ahead of time--just try to have other options, is all I'm saying.  



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thorsdad774 reads

there is no reason for not making a phone call or sending an explanation. I over looked it the first couple of times but its routine.My time is valuable as well

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hardyharhar2020 reads

Would you continue to see her after the first NCNS? That makes no sense.

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thorsdad1201 reads

I know everyone has issues to deal with so I give them the benefit of the doubt. In my many years of this I have had nsnc that ive tried a second time and really enjoyed my next time. but your right i gave her to many opportunities to not screw me.I guess im just stupid

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mnjohnny2472023 reads

...sometimes we all think with the little head instead of the big one.  That my friend does NOT not make you stupid, imho.   Horny, but not stupid!

Posted By: thorsdad
I know everyone has issues to deal with so I give them the benefit of the doubt. In my many years of this I have had nsnc that ive tried a second time and really enjoyed my next time. but your right i gave her to many opportunities to not screw me.I guess im just stupid

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vorlon1372 reads

I'm perfectly willing to give people a second chance and have had good results with that strategy with some providers.  But when it becomes a habit, well that I won't put up with.

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TC Guy1805 reads

She NCNSed me the one and only time that I attempted to see her.  So I have taken her off of my list.  The exessive tattoos and half shaved head are another reason that she is off my list.

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lindy59839 reads

I had seen her on three occasions quite some time ago, she was great.  She then NCNS me 3 times.  There is no good excuse for that behavior.

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IronRooster625 reads

You'll see multiple threads on her NCNS ways. I've never seen her but the threads make it clear she's a star IF you can get time with her but there's no guarantee she'll follow through.

She's popular enough that her dance card will stay full even with her flakey behavior. If you can get her to do outcall then at least you can keep working or watching movies while you wait.

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