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Look....I get you don't feel you need it...   However, I view it very differently...  I realized that if I am going to spend good money on an interaction, why the heck would I not spend a few extra bucks to ensure it all goes well....  Seem like a no brainer to me...  Its like buying a little insurance....

 
Posted By: 2late
Even when you don't ask for advice you'll probably get it here:)  I decided to get help (Cialis or whatever) because of similar situations as yours.    
   
 You're not always going to have the right amount of chemistry with a gal and the pill will give you confidence even in a low stimulation environment. With many gals I could get by without it but it's worth it to have the insurance.

The subject has been brought up and discussed before but I need to vent. Ignore me/laugh at me/flame me how you see fit.  Fucking nerves!  Had an appointment that didn't go well at all.  Combination of walking an hour, being/feeling rushed by provider, and being nervous, little head didn't seem to wanna play.  Paid the donation plus tip and was out in less than 10 minutes.  Pretty disgusted with myself at the moment.  Little blue pill at 34!?  smfh  Not really looking for advice, plenty has already been given, just needed to vent.   Peace

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mariahlove647 reads

With the provider you saw, I'm sure you probably do not need the blue pill at your age. You just need some TLC slow and steady. Try looking here (if that is not where you found the provider) the lady's here are fantastic feel free to message me anytime if you need to chat. I don't mind at all just packing the house so nothing to fun going on tonight lol. I hope your next experience goes better cheer up sugar!!!  

 
Toodles

How would you apportion the blame between yourself and the provider?

If the provider carries a significant percentage of the blame, are you willing to identify?

Wiley69556 reads

Just had an experiance like this, pretty Asian gal, new to me, was expecting a good session
like I've had previously, was the most rushed I've ever had although somehow
I managed to get through it.(Barely) Like others say, we both need to expand our choices (I need to get
P411). I hear ya' brother! Just keep looking forward.

minus the straight to the point and feeling rushed my nerves got the better of me.  She (and the group in the house) are reviewed and known but I don't believe they are active here.  No need to name her.

The way it sounds JR didn't have a chance. Don't over think it and just get back on that horse. See some one you have really clicked with and rebuild your confidence. Sounds like you didn't miss much, though it sucks that you didn't feel you could stick around and get your money's worth just trying. With the right girl that can be worth the price of admission all by it self.

When I first started seeing escorts I had an experience quite similar to the one you described so i think I have an idea of how you feel. And that was when I learned that it is not a good idea to tip  an escort in advance. I have had good luck tipping in advance at strip clubs, but I would say that in most cases a provider will not know that you have left a tip until after you have left. And you can always leave a tip at the end of the session if you want to.

My question is, does her profile list "full, no-rush session" as being yes or no? I know there is a market for the one-and-done type providers but I think that is the kind of thing that guys with VIP would like to know before they make an appointment.

I hope you have better luck next time and remember:

Relax, it's just sex

Didn't tip in advance, just did to keep the peace.  It does say full, no-rush session.  Has 3 pages of reviews with an average 6.5 rating.  I don't doubt that many people have had an enjoyable enough time with her.  It just didn't happen for me.  I wouldn't necessarily recommend not seeing her.  Even though I did feel rushed I would blame my nerves and just not feeling it more than anything.

  I was disgusted with myself and needed to vent.  Most guys would of pushed through and did their business. My shyness and lack of self confidence holds me back time and time again.  Fucking frustrating.

FWIW there are many of us who have had similar experiences.

That SUCKS... were not all the same....

You may want to look into the body rub gals. Much slower build up and relaxed session that can arguably be just as hot depending on the gal.  This can be a better route when nerves come into play.

Why wouldn't you just stay an hour and enjoy the companionship, cuddling, caressing, etc. etc. etc

Even when you don't ask for advice you'll probably get it here:)  I decided to get help (Cialis or whatever) because of similar situations as yours.  

You're not always going to have the right amount of chemistry with a gal and the pill will give you confidence even in a low stimulation environment. With many gals I could get by without it but it's worth it to have the insurance.

but at 34?  I was venting and honestly probably don't need it.  Never been an issue in the past. Think I just been putting to much pressure on myself lately and it's starting to show.  The gfe route and/or multiple appointments with same girl would most likely suffice.

Look....I get you don't feel you need it...   However, I view it very differently...  I realized that if I am going to spend good money on an interaction, why the heck would I not spend a few extra bucks to ensure it all goes well....  Seem like a no brainer to me...  Its like buying a little insurance....

 

Posted By: 2late
Even when you don't ask for advice you'll probably get it here:)  I decided to get help (Cialis or whatever) because of similar situations as yours.    
   
 You're not always going to have the right amount of chemistry with a gal and the pill will give you confidence even in a low stimulation environment. With many gals I could get by without it but it's worth it to have the insurance.

Cropduster1473 reads

That said, the little head can get frostbit and....did someone say shrinkage? I was in the pool! I was
in the pool (George Castanza from Seinfeld of course).  Better luck next time.

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