This question is for hobbyists and providers.

Almost everyone hobbyist has an ATF.  But why is that person your ATF?  Is it an amazing body?  Great skills?  Great personality?

And for the providers...do you have an ATF client?  If so, why?  Great tipper?  Great looks or skills?

My ATF is my ATF because of her great personality and classical beauty.

You could be the hottest guy in the world, but if your personality sucks then you will never be anyone's ATF

Those who I consider to be my favorite clients tend to be regular looking guys who I click with amazingly.  We have fun for the whole time we are together, not just when doing naughty things!  

~Jen

P.S. Skills can be taught, so I never let that hinder me.  If I really enjoy a client and he's not doing something that I love, then I just switch things around so that he is!

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For me, it's skills but more important, attitude. My atf isn't young or especially beautiful, but she's fun and there to get me off the best she can.

I think we are so lucky.
We have so many ATF's to choice from.  
  It deals with personally and personification.

You gals know who you are and we thank you.

rock your world sex! But having a few laughs along the way are mandatory!!

My ATF exceeds others because of her passionate kisses......all kinds, big, little, deep, simple, long, sloppy, light - .....they all seem to help both her and myself loose ourselves in the moment. A moan felt thru a long slow, and lingering kiss is a powerful aphrodisiac to me.

I couldn't agree more.My current ATF is funny,personable,enjoys what she's doing and is very good at it!What more could a guy ask for?

like I am important to her, like a sexy date and not like the next in line. From the above entries it seems to be mostly about the connection.

My ATF is a terrific person. She is a sweetheart, she is sexy and she is beautiful. But it's the mental connection that works for me. I don't get to spend a lot of time with her, a 2,000 mile commute will do that, but we keep in touch via phone and email. When we are together, it is like being with someone I have known for years. We click (or, at least she clicks for me) although she probably feels otherwise. But when she is with me, she is WITH me. I can't ask for more!

She has to be a genuine person and there has to be a mutual attraction.

She can't fake it so she does not try. I've met a few providers that were great at what they do but with a sense of enthusiasm that does not seem 100% genuine so the ones that "keep it real" are my favorites.

For me its the real connection thing.How i feel when were together.Not just the sex,its the whole package.We laugh,cuddle,of just chat.She makes me feel special and i can tell by her actions she enjoys being with me.We text ,email or call each other between visits just to say hi.We both have separate lives and we stay within those boundaries.