That she is married?  Does that take just a liitle bit away from the fantasy for you?A few things up front:  I understand most prov/clients don't ask so many may not actually know; I'm talking about her mentioning it after multiple visits; not including those that advertise as "flirty wives" , and not really asking if you'd go to the extreme and stop going, as it is kind of hot at first, right?  Another guy's wife, etc., etc.I just would have rather not know.

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For me, I would prefer not to know. In theory, it would ruin the fantasy because every fantasy I have is immediately ruined the minute another guy gets introduced into the situation.

However in reality, I doubt if it would make a difference who her husband was once she was lying on my bed in full nekkidness.

Also if after multiple visits, I somehow began to feel a sprinkling of emotion, then perhaps I would see having a reaction to the husband disclosure.

So bottom line, allow me my hour of ignorance and bliss. I just not rather know.

Married women just simply are not hotter than single women.

SO What difference does it make?
Do you think you are meeting a Virgin?
Do you think she is wondering if you are married?
DO you think she is wondering if you are a Virgin?

I somehow knew it may go down this path, so that is why I added the the "disclaimers".  In short, probably none, no, no, and no.  I guess, I too, would have rather not known.  Now that I do, it probably won't change anything at all as I have zero disillusions whatsoever just to be clear.  I guess I'd just rather have the unknowns (your questions) than definitive answers.

Some details are best left out.

That would be the end for me.  I don't do other guys wives.  Kind of a chivalry thing.

You're there to have fun. Sometimes it leads to interesting conversation.
Don't worry, be happy!

That is her personnel life and has nothing to do with our business together.  

I once had a provider visit me in my hotel.  After one round of fun she asked if she could make a phone call.  Needing a little recharge time I told her to go ahead.  As we lay there together naked, I overheard her as she tried to explain to someone that she had not heard the phone because she was busy doing the laundry.  The call took a bit of time, but I just kept quiet. After she was done she seemed grateful and gave me a better time for round two.  

I don't know if it was a husband or someone else.  But it sounded like they someone close in her life.

and yes I have asked, if I don't ask I don't care.  However if I ask, I would expect her to be straight with me.  You have to remember she has a lot of information about me, through screening. I know, I don't have a right to know.

I'm not condemning the screening process, I would not see a lady that did not screen thoroughly.

JMHO

I've had a few ladies talk with me about their private lives to one degree or another.  While there has been an occasion here and there where it was awkward, I usually regard it as a compliment that they are comfortable enough with me to do so.

are looking for in a lady.

Reality, most people on both sides of the isle are married, if that bursts a bubble then you have issues to deal with.  I don't mean that in a negative way, if you are going to have guilt because of a SO in the picture, think before you act.  Emotional stresses can be tougher than physical ones to overcome.

Mystical minds can play with all fantasies within reason.

There are ladies in the hobby with that lady next door look, yes it brings real life fantasy to the moment.  The younger lady that resembles the college girl we would all love to have yet.  For every lady and man here there has to be a fantasy or they wouldn't be here.

I have had fantasies of seeing a lady in  a bar with her SO and wondering if she is the kind of lady that would sneek off into the shadows with a stranger while her SO is nearby.  Fantasy is just that, here we have an opportunity to play some of them out.  I say why not?!  Kind of wanting something you can't have, or can you!

Me neither.
She has her reasons and they're none of my business. Her performance and my pleasure are what I pay for.