So if I come on this forum and vent about my absolute disgust about getting sent emails where someone claiming to be a hobbyist , has obtained and is going to turn over client lists to the media and make implied threats about people "suffering the consequences" of their actions or in-actions in regards to the MN Community..  

That is how I was brought up also for every action there is equal or greater reaction.
Is this thing over now? I hope so   If it is that is great news!!
From what little I do know they made peoples life hell and I would have a very hard time patting them on the head and saying you are forgiven now go play nice.
How do you trust them to not come back.
I would like to know more but do not have VIP

Thanks Cat for your accurate sensibility on this topic. I will share- that I too received a fumbling nonsensical email yesterday
And here's my thoughts:

...I doubt that this would gain much traction with the media. From what's been stated about the bizarre writing style and claims of this MPBD (     the media would likely think it's submitted by a kook. The existence of TER, like boards and what goes on in this underground world is hardly news to the media. It's written about everytime there's a major bust. How would he out Providers unless he knew their real names? How would he out Hobbyists unless he knew their real names? I doubt there's a conspiracy of many or even a few ex-Hobbyists to carry out these evil plans. How would they have first found like minded conspirators to begin with and how could they clandestinely and effectively network among themselves without fear of betrayal among themselves that they might be outed as well? I would believe it's the work of a lone wolf who's trying to make the Hobby community believe he could possibly pull this off.

I am not in the know as to whom, why, where, what and when is going on presently.

However, in the past, in this community, there have been instances of individuals, who have conducted Gaslight behavior.

I once was a target of one particular individual, who's conduct was such, which clearly can be defined as Gas lighting.

To often, people view this kind of behavior, and use the word Drama to describe the behavior.

Mindy has taken the time to post  and describe
the behavior, and apply an accurate label that associates the observed behavior, to the individual.

This conduct, needed to be bought to light, so that everyone can understand how Cruel, Evil, and
aloft, that an individual doing these things, Is.

At the time of my torment, when I thought that I was going nuts, and many viewed me as nuts, well, I was not able to connect the dots, as I am not
a Psychologist, and do not play one on T.V.

In the time that has passed, I have become more aware of how to recognize conduct, that is anti social.

As I have stated in prior posts, I am no longer active in the hobby for many various reasons, and this is yet just another reason why.
I want to stay insulated as well as possible from
the impact of undesirable individuals.

( My confusion, and lack of knowledge, is what allowed this individual to gain enough knowledge of me, so as to play out her game, I know, My Bad ) And lastly, when I got a hang on what she was doing to me, Well I turned it around, and did it back to her! that makes me a hypocrite, but I did what I did to even the playing field.

And lastly, to all the horny clowns, who have spoken so highly of said individual, I raise my glass of Beer and toast Her for having charmed, seduced, and suckered others into her deception.
However she did not fool me, and those who had my back. LOL

People! be Careful and Be Aware! their are those, of either gender, within this community, who are in fact, like foxes in the chicken coop.
The one of who I speak may be absent, however there are others like her, among you, at any given time.

Mindy, Thanks for touching upon this subject, and even though its likely you and I will never meet. I think that you are one smart, sexy, and cool Babe.

It's unfortunate that this person is still sending out his hate mail.  If you don't like the way someone is conducting themselves as either an escort or a hobbyist then don't associate with them.  Threatening to out people is way over the line.

First you get someone that puts themselves in front of a bunch of people who already know a bunch about the subject. They make a claim to be knowledgeable about the subject as the fumble through the lectures looking for important information to keep your attention. They convey insufficient information and the information they convey is biased opinion of the facts. Then they rely on scare tactics to hope you will not have questions they cannot answer. They only present one side of the issues because the other side makes more sense but is difficult to handle. All of this creates a stressful situation when the original situation without all the garbage was already stressful.  

Im not a fan of hers at all, and I dont have to hide behind a fucking alias to say that.  
There are people I dont like and people I do, and frankly the whole WK and insecure/jealous defense gets old .. grow the fuck up ,  
I will tell you that I think she is a lose cannon and lacks intelligence as based on her mindless ramblings on her twatter and blogs,, one can only throw the "victim" card so many times before it becomes tedious ,, it takes two to tango, and she certainly doesnt waste time feeding the fire with her own special brand of crazy .. and there are those who love her and those who hate her,,  
But truth is, everytime she surfaces,, chaos surrounds it and I think that should be pointed out.  

HH/VM and her either self appointed or VM appointed people need to get a life. Like Cat said if you read her twat account or blog you can see she's not a stable person and has sucked in several people to defend her irrational behavior. They are trying to bring everyone down because she wants to be number one in everyone's book. She blames TER and her "haters" for any misfortunes she has. Like it has been said before her and her cronies need to grow the fuck up.

This is why this site is getting such a bad rap.
Thread was started about one concern and is now turned into bashing someone.
Unfuckingbelivablebs

"let's eat cake"?  

Please pm me w the provider part of this mes

Hilary Holiday ‏@HilHoliday 21 Dec
I think men that regularly hang out on sex board disc forums, namely TER, must be social outcasts! Not to mention, they are so angry!
 Arianna ‏@AriaDeLaurent 21 Dec
@HilHoliday I second this. I avoid "hobbyists" (per se) at all cost. Nothing but bad news all around.
 Hilary Holiday ‏@HilHoliday 22 Dec
@VioletTNT @AriaDeLaurent Yes, I do not see people who are active on sex boards...They seem to enjoy hateful drama, so I avoid.
 Michael Mader ‏@mike61978 22 Dec
@HilHoliday @VioletTNT @AriaDeLaurent DBags is what they are they need to get a life and a new hobby, like cross stitching or something! Lol
 Hilary Holiday ‏@HilHoliday 22 Dec
@mike61978 @VioletTNT yes! They need to focus on something else beside thr hatred of certain gals. Why focus on things U hate?
Hilary Holiday ‏@HilHoliday 21 Dec
@bossplunkett 2much anger is tolerated @TER. Angry Obsessive Lonely men can have free reign on those forums. UNhealthy place! #WomenHaters

and normally I would avoid it ,, normally I would be like  
"you all need to stuff your mouth with cake and be happy"  

I just wanna scoop you up into my lap & pet the daylights out of you till you are purring your way into a deep, peaceful slumber. Believe me when I say I feel your contempt regarding this entire fiasco. And lord knows I've invested countless hours trying to come up with a remedy. To no avail obviously. Which makes perfect sense. How am I to remedy something I have nothing to do with & no REAL clue of who's all involved?

http://www.myvalery.com/Blog/Im_Too_Fab_4_Ter!.htm

they need to be voted off the island meow ...  

how nuts, thought it was important for her to get back on TER? maybe the source of manys discomfort is coming directly from this person?

well maybe not. not with certainty

. . . and she was very nice.  That's all I know about her and all I care to know.

My screening was tight before and now is even tighter! I have children a family as we all do. Not much can scare me but i do have wee ones that depend on me solely so therefore i cannot just think of myself, the woman in me says eff all of this, but the mother in me says otherwise. So therefore i have to do what i have to do to make myself feel a little more comfortable. Some gentlemen have agreed to the new screening, some refuse as they already have cred but I'm hoping you guys will understand. We HAVE to do what makes us comfortable, the new screening makes me a tad more comfortable. Discretion is huge to me as to all of us. I had to cancel 4 appointments and two scheduled two weeks from now! Its just a bunch of bull shit to be honest, people don't have anything better to do? Can we all just get along? Please goodness!!

1  Her
2  Her haters
3  Her WKs
4  the rest who know
5  us who don't have much of a clue!

Mariah What???? Cancel appointments? What in the hell?  
Let's just take a minute here, what if this is all just ONE bored lonely or I don't know some attention loving fraud!
With NO press connections, NO list of other hobbiest and compromised providers. COME ON why are so many people believing this? Would you feel differently if this person was found out? Would it help to know it one "lone wolf" in need of stirring the pot? Maybe that is what EVERYONE should assume, really when you can't change what's going on around you change how you look at it.

I have no agenda. I was minding my own until August. That is when the crap that Valery is doing directly affected me. And her and her lovers say she isn't that way, that she is perfect. Bullshit! When her actions and the actions of her cronies affect me then I am going to be vocal about it. If she would just stop acting like a 12 year old and holding these little vendetta's against people maybe everything could go away and everything could go back to the way it was. I think a lot of people don't know that she did this same shit just a couple of years ago. I wasn't effected then so I didn't care what happened, this time is different.

I’m with you I feel like I’m getting directions from the scarecrow in the wizard of oz.

The Maxipad Beaver douche dude,  is he a 2 or 3?

Maybe we will get lucky and one person out there reading this who has common sense , and knows something and sees the negative impact that this guy and his actions are having,, maybe they will step forward and give us the names of the person or persons behind it

Im sorry Get,, but the problem with people stating things from alias's is there is no credibility..  
Max is doing this to alot of people as well,, This isnt just about HH..  

Max doesn't exists!!! I believe it's all her. Her idea. MAYBE she has one or two people that help her, but I think it's allllllll her, that's why it's derailed, because those who've been fucked with by her can CLEARLY see the trademark way of speaking, making threats and trying to paint her into it, as a victim.  The people that " derail" are just trying to say look for yourselves, isn't there something weird or what if,
 because the absolute LAST THING ANY REAL victim Of HER wants to do is say ANYTHING bad about her EVER, or they will be the bad guy! She plays the part so convincingly to most people that one gentleman while reviewing her, calls out other MN providers as jealous of her and says that anyone that makes trouble for her can basically expect to get theirs!!
             SO if you have ever known this person and you then decide you no longer want to know her, you are than a villain

Thank you for coming forward, I hope now others can feel a little better realizing all the threats might only be her.  
So really nobody should lose money or sleep over this stuff.  
         Thank you for being brave and publicly telling it like it is and anyone who doesn't understand, that's on them but maybe some will be just a little more cautious with who they spend time with or at least not be so quick to defend something that more then likely doesn't need defending.

This was brought up over a month ago. Ahem, by me in 2 threads. And your response was to eat cake and how it was he said she said bs..... Stick to that train of thought; it's better then feeding the troll.
It's an old and dead issue by a cyber bully/stalker (which the latter is actually ILLEGAL) they just keep rehashing emails to try and get attention.  
Seriously, not 2013... Totally 2000 & LATE to the party - Cuz the party is over.
Hit the ignore on the troll-bully and it will stop.  
Saint and Sinner,
Samantha

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=187356&boardID=21&page=6#187356

I forgot that on this board, people are not allowed to change their minds or opinions..  

Because unlike you I need to keep my life here private. If my family and friends found out I did this my life would be ruined. And Valery is able to do that.

I would be more apt to say that it is someone who wants to make it look like her ..  
its all a little too convenient to lay the blame on her,  
as I have said before Im not a fan of hers, I dont agree with her behavior, but I dont think she has it within her mental capacity to pull this off.  
I dont think she would have the first clue to know how to access the personal info that was sent to me about me.  

If it doesn't affect me, lets eat cake, etc.
Otherwise . . .

Again I guess some people on this board need to have human nature spelled out for them..  
Sorry you are so bitter because of the stance that I took in the first place, and then once proof was shown I changed my mind.  

Are there any other emails out there that need to come forward ?  
Any one wishing to keep their identity private can forward them to me and I will post them,,  

I am staying as far away from her HH/VM as possible...  

Sorry I am a little late on the request. Also I would like to know who to stay away from if you have their TER handles.

enjoy

uptonogood is one of them

Now the first of many bricks may be coming loose.... Fitting handle, don't you think?

This thread would be two miles long if all the pulled posts were still in place!